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...then come and get your flipping baby here. We are a group of utterly priceless loons who are deadly serious about buying our babies at the highest price (or free if you're a lucky NHS bastard). There are no failures here

Well done motor x

Sorry euro I omitted you from my PUPO pals list

juicy I don't include you because you're pregnant, no doubt about it!!

motor congrats on becoming PUPO, particularly with a blasto. You and juicy will be able to swap breast feeding stories by next Easter.

wish really feel your pain as I bled before testing BUT that was on Day 16 after ET so logic days that if you are only at Day 8, it's not game over and another explanation for the discharge is likely. I googled/discussed it like mad when I was P last year and bled. I was genuinely surprised how many people bled early and had totally normal pregnancies. Fingers crossed.

BTW, DH's final answer to DE is "no". I'm so bewildered by how we got to this state - complete absence of meaningful interaction - that I feel as if I'm permanently underwater. Actually, I feel like leaving but wouldn't do that to DD. Feeling the fingers of depression taking hold. Indescribably sad that this seems to be the end of the road and that everyone in RL and even on these threads is leaving me behind so apologies if my posting is erratic but wishing everyone luck.

Thanks res I'm trying to stay hopeful. I'm only 4 days post transfer so really confusing! It seems to have eased off but still get slight cramps. I'm sure it'll be back

Congrats on joining the PUPO club, motor.

wish sorry that the bleeding is ongoing. I understand that it is worrying, but it really doesn't have to mean anything bad.

res I am so sorry that you feel that have reached the end of the road. Hugs.

Sorry res we X posted

I'm so sad for you that it has to be this way. After some time and thinking he may come round to your way of thinking, especially if it means saving your relationship! Fingers crossed for you x

resipsa I'm so sorry to hear that you can't see a way ahead from where you are at the moment. Has your husband said why he won't consider DE? It is an emotive topic, and it might just need more time, more well-timed conversations? DH and I get on very well, but we have had really tough periods through the IVF business. I hope you have support. X

wish I have just been reading about the process of implantation and it can definitely cause bleeding. Rest and try and relax. X

juicy it was just a straightforward blasto, not hatching. They gave us a picture of it! Pray for me. How are you today?

Res that's really tough. The others have a point - maybe he just needs some more time to think it through.

Resipsa, I have no idea what is to be an already-a-father-of-a-two-year-old man with a wife who's desperate for another and always banging on about DE IVF. Hear me out: I'd like to say he has a point; that one is enough at 'your age' and when you already have a child that's yours biologically it's hard to get your head around your next kid not being your wife's.

But...I feel I've got to know you on this fred and your aching for another baby is palpable. I don't like slagging-off fred husbands but with your permission I will say your DH is being an uncompromising, unfeeling tit. He is younger than you, no? You are both fit? Okay for cash? Room in your hearts for another little one? Maybe he thinks he doesn't have room. Maybe the last two years have been an exhausting blur for him. Does he feel he has lost you a little along the way?

Even so, I would send in the Big Guns. Tell him your aching for a sibling for DD won't go away and you want him to go with you for one session of counselling to prise out of the stubborn bastard what the emotional blockage is, or else....I don't know 'what else'...that's up to you

Motor, I am praying quite hard for you and Wish (I say 'quite' because I've been asleep for the past three hours).

Earlier on today I gave th'usband a tit-wank and when he splashed my nipples it actually hurt. I yelped and wouldn't let him wipe his man-fat off with the spaff towel and he looked resigned and said next time he'll aim for the curtains, to which I replied: 'nowt new there, then'

juicy I can't tell you the mixed emotions I feel in response to your post..
But thanks, for the prayers.

Thanks for your thoughts. Amazing how you feel better once it's on (virtual) paper, yes? Sorry to bring such negativity here but no-one IRL knows anything about this largely because when DH and I first considered it, he said that he'd want no one to know the DE bit of the IVF which I respect (even though I'd be happy to tell). He says it's the cash but it can't just be that, can it? That'd be weird...

Anyway, believe it or not, also IRL I hate talking about myself so I will say no more for a while!!!

wish hope you are holding up.

PUPOs - enjoy it!

And joos as usual you raised a laugh here. DH would love a tit fuck (he'd be lucky to get a handshake at the moment) but my 32Bs - as small after a baby as they were before - don't really do the job.

Hi ladies, how are we all?
Blood tests results were a negative, no big surprise!

Wish how you today?

I'm sorry Karb

I've had only a little brown when I go to the toilet today. The cramps have lightened up a little. I knew the 2ww would be hell but this is making it worse. I have no idea what to think

Scrap that, it's darker, almost black. Sorry tmi. I'm so confused right now

Oh wish- I know exactly how you feel its torture. Mine often went from light pink, beige smidgens to big black sticky gloops and dark red gushes all within a few hours. It is confusing and heartbreaking to not know what is going on. Time will tell. Its hard but you really need to just sit tight and see how this pans out. Dont write it off xxx

Fingers crossed mother nature is in your favour xxxxxx

Karb I'm sorry you got a negative x

Wish you must be so worried and confused and I don't know what I can say to make it any better,I just hope it all works out for you.rest up x

I sense a lull in the thread. Must be the nice weather. And Wimbledon. And Juice is too busy having a sex life to post much.

I'm waiting to trigger. I couldn't be less excited. My ovaries hurt. Even though there's nothing in them. Stupid fucking ovaries

Nook what times your trigger?
Nearly there now.

Iv been resting up but it gets boring,don't want to go over board and do to much though

Mejust trigger is at 10.30pm.

You must rest! I suggest a box set of something...

I know mejust I going out of my mind today! Soooo bored. Over the last week I've managed to watch 3 seasons of sons of anarchy but now I'm just bored of watching the same tv show.
I want to go out and do something FUN!