The BESH plumbing is blocked up. Where's a man with a big tool when you need one?

[FrankellyMyDearIDontGiveADamn]

Welcome to the BESH plumbing thread, where we have blocked pipes, dirty u-bends and leaks aplenty.

Newbies are welcome to seek out the BESHtionnaire submit highly inflated quotes for consideration. Instadiffers will be massively overcharged and sent packing.

Hmmm, this job is gonna cost a bit

Oh hest. I'm sorry you feel that way. It's not true you know, it's just the hormones talking.

I know, it's so unfair I had a few quiet tears to myself on Father's Day as I just kept thinking how great a dad HWHNN would be and that I can't seem to give him that one thing.

Better to be angry/sad than to bottle it up I say.

Oh hest :(

Hest, for what it's worth, I think you (and all the BESH) are heroic and awesome, and being heroic wins hands down over being "feminine" every time. Also, and I find it difficult to remember this myself, barrenness is a medical condition, not a personality trait.

Well said Moll

Are you happy with the valuation Bugs? How's the neck?

Yes, POAF tomorrow morning. I'm bricking it to be honest, part of me would rather not know - that way I can't be disappointed IYSWIM.

frank I'll be checking in tomorrow. :)

bugs I hope you feel better tomorrow.

We are thinking about moving too, but not sure whether to look round where we are or move further out for more space. Everything in/around London is horribly expensive.

hest I hope you are feeling better lovely.

moll I have no idea what feminine means. I'm a woman, therefore feminine. I have boobs, which I sometimes show off and sometimes cover. I use my brain on an even footing with men. I wear heels and skirts sometimes and combats and boots sometimes. Who the fuck knows what feminine is?

I survived the day! Even went to a quiz after work organised by the students and won two prizes :) feel completely knackered and headachy again now though, didn't help that one of the students played the bagpipes. He was very good but I did think at one point my head might explode.

Hair strokes Hest, I think a good rage is therapeutic sometimes, as is a good cry. Suppose it's all part of the grieving process.

Anyway ladies, I'm off to bed to sleep off my dodgy head. See you tomorrow ......frank...... hope pee time is early so I can see before I head to work!

Nicely put, moll.

hest, I feel for you very much on all those fronts. If it's any help, from seeing your photo I always thought of you as attractive. And I am praying for a win for you tomorrow, whether you feel it is likely or not. And for frank. And for everyone.

I second that Norf.
Euro - that's exactly it. Feminine is someone's made up idea of some weird intangible quality we are apparently supposed to aspire to. We are women. That's the real bit. Women do all those real things you listed. Feminine is make believe.

Massive good wishes for POAFs tomorrow, and everything else.

But I just don't understand. I know people have cancer, and starve, and have awful deformities, and live with disabilities and disfigurements and scars and so on. I know that. But why me? Why us? Why does my sister have two babies and I can't even have one?

Even my fucking mad irresponsible crap brother knocked some girl up and has a daughter.

Hiya, sorry I've been AWOL for a bit. Work had been busy and I've now got a cold and hacking cough, so gave been dragging myself around feeling like shite only to fall back into bed at any given opportunity. Did manage the sechsing tonight though. GS was well up for a snotty me!

Woah. So much up catch up on.

Hest - I know exactly what you mean. I feel like I've been through enough shit already and I deserve to win a baybee, especially when other lowlifes manage it so easily and you're right; it's not fucking fair and I don't understand it. It's so horrible, but as someone else said I think it's good to let it out. I'm just doing my utmost to make sure it doesn't consume me completely although it's doing a bloody good job of trying hang in there

I'm thinking of you all throughout the day even if I don't get a chance to post as often as I'd like. Thinking of sore necks, possible joy at peeing, the indignity of all this sorry nonsense, hear hear at the absurdity of the idea of femininity and anyone who's feeling a bit rough in any way. Sending my shiniest and best spanners to you all.

Good luck Frank!

Zammo our embryo wasn't grade one either. Just sayin'...

Oh thank god, we're back online! What was that all about?

So yes, sorry, for those that haven't already snooped figured it out . I have 3 positive tests in from of me this morning

frank just popped in to see if the klaxon went off. OHMYGOD YOU HAVE A BAYBEE IN YOUR TUMTUM. Really lovely news. I am smiling like a loon for you. Big hugs and well fucking done.