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988 replies

Solars · 15/05/2013 10:13

So who's next in line for that BFP???

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Biscuitsandtea · 16/06/2013 08:06

Hey Beedle - lots of love for you Thanks

Like Maybe I will be brooking for it to turn into a positive by Thursday but know that we're thinking of you whatever the outcome xx

I hope that, should you need another cycle in October, you and Mr B are able to have a lovely proper break from it all in the meantime. We all know how much it totally takes over every waking (and sleeping) moment so I can completely understand the need for a break. Hopefully we'll see you around here again though? I'll be brooking that if it isn't on Thursday, that you're nipping in to tell us of your ironic BFP Smile

Do take care though xxx

Biscuitsandtea · 16/06/2013 08:16

cupcake not maybe sorry, although I have no doubt that maybe us brooking for exact same thing x

Withalittlesparkle · 16/06/2013 08:19

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GreenOlives · 16/06/2013 08:19

beedle I'm so sorry the brooking piss stick I sent you was so crap Sad I really hope you've just got a slow burner and good news is just a couple of days away but if not then a break sounds like a good plan. Take care lovely and we'll be here whenever you're ready.

NoMaybeAboutIt · 16/06/2013 08:46

Oh Beedle lovely, Biscuits is right, I'm brooking for it turning into a BFP too.

I am also totally with you on the fb group. The word insensitive springs to mind.

I really hope you are being looked after today. And we are always here brooking even if you are taking a break x

ControlGeek · 16/06/2013 08:59

Oh beedle lovely I'm so sorry :( I hope the break brings you and mrb plenty of you time and look forward to your ironic bfp well before October. (((Hugs)))

I've been mostly taking a break from the fb group too, for the same reasons. I was tempted to suggest an additional fb was set up where people posted when they needed that kind of support, and then only those who felt in a position to support those kinds of posts could join it. Would probably just come across as jealous and tetchy though.

Still on phone as still in bed (lazy mare emoticon) but I'm actually planning on getting up and mooching round a shopping centre today. If all goes well, I may even go into the office tomorrow!

Solars · 16/06/2013 09:42

Oh Beedle I'm so sorry to hear this, but also hoping it is still early and brooking for Thursday. Can also understand about FB, I hardly ever log on these days. Sending you and MrB lots of love and hugs. Take all the time you need to regain your strength, it's such a difficult journey and we're always here to hand hold whenever you want xx

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TheLittleFriend · 16/06/2013 10:30

So sorry the test was faulty Beedle. Be kind to yourself and we'll do your brooking for you x

Maybe, pleased to hear the frer arrived, hope it's a lucky one for youSmile

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 16/06/2013 10:38

Beedle I am so sorry it wasn't the result you wanted, like the others I'm brooking that is was just too soon.

GenericDietCola · 16/06/2013 14:08

Beedle, I'm so sorry about the BFN. I'll keep brooking that OTD brings better news.

SweetieTime · 16/06/2013 15:38

Beedle I am so sorry you had a BFN this morning. Just wait to see if it changes by OTD. I completely understand you wanting to take a break until your next cycle, should you need another cycle, it is such a mentally hard thing to go through.

I agree with you on the fb group too, although I am not sure all on there are aware of the different stages everyone is at or how sensitive some of us are.

keepitgoing · 16/06/2013 15:38

Oh beedle, I'm so so sorry for your bfn. It is shitty and not fair, and so sad.

Ivf is a numbers game, and you will get there. Plus, they'll have learnt from this cycle. But for now I agree that time off sounds like a good plan.

Thinking of you, and shedding a few tears for you x

Munxx · 16/06/2013 17:12

beedle so sorry about the result and although I'm not on the fb group so cannot comment, I am sorry other people's comments are upsetting you.

I had to hide quite a few RL fb pals when TTC as it was too painful to read updates on occasion so I understand.

I don't know I you will see this beedle but all the best for the future and I hope you and Dh are as ok as you can be.

Much love to you.

cartoontrickster · 16/06/2013 18:19

beedle I am gutted for u. I would have done the same and tested early because I would just rather know and be prepared. there's still a chance for a bfp though so I have my fingers crossed!
I hope you can enjoy taking a break, some times TTC takes over and all gets a bit too much. I hope you and dh are ok. Thanks

musicalmrs · 16/06/2013 20:43

So sorry Beedle. Brooking lots that it's just a bit too early for you and that there's better news on Thursday.

Agree with you about the FB group - and you, Geek (and probably others! ). Even as a post grad some of the recent threads have upset me a little, so I can't imagine how they've made you feel.

Loopyaboutmy2boys · 16/06/2013 21:31

Dare I ask what's been going on on the FB group? Sorry about bfn, may not happen but it might not be too late for a BFP. For anyone who was around way back when, it took me till about a week late to get my BFP.

DinoSnores · 16/06/2013 23:47

beedles, sorry about today's BFN. I really hope that you return to us with happier news on Thursday. I can see why some of the recent discussions would be hard to deal with. As musical says, as a postgrad, it's been hard to read so must be all the more difficult for you. Sending you much brooking though & hope you return in October (or indeed before with an ironic BFP).

ControlGeek · 17/06/2013 06:27
NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 17/06/2013 06:36

OMG! Get back in here little miss Geek!!!!
Congratulations! How many days post transfer are you now? When is otd? I'm also in shock as I didn't realise you were testing today!

ControlGeek · 17/06/2013 06:41

cups I've been testing every day, I find it easier than building myself up to one important test iykwim. I am 8dp3dt, so the equivalent of 11 dpo. I am 13 days past trigger so it's definitely not that. OCs are officially rubbish. FRERs rule.

ControlGeek · 17/06/2013 06:44

Oops sorry otd is friday, so still got 4 days before I am offocially official

TheLittleFriend · 17/06/2013 07:00

Geek that's brilliant!! Congratulations ThanksThanksThanks

cartoontrickster · 17/06/2013 07:02

arrrrrrgh!

yay! I'm so excited!

amazing news geek

cartoontrickster · 17/06/2013 07:02

arrrrrrgh!

yay! I'm so excited!

amazing news geek

Withalittlesparkle · 17/06/2013 07:05

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