I get knocked down, but I'll get knocked up again, cos you're never gonna keep me down... The big fat posifrickintivity thread for people TTC after MC.

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I thought I'd start the new thread and earn some brownie points with the posifrickintivity Gods...

mtb welcome an sorry for your loss. No medical reason to wait - just for dating as ovulation can be unpredictable to first cycle - stress of size of baby heart beat not detectable and then rescanning and all the worry and waiting after you have Already had a horrible experience. That's why some tell you to wait a cycle.

Well folks started spotting at 10dpo and af arrived whilst drinking a glass of proscecco in covent garden ob my tomantic night away!!! Took the sadness out of it but glad af came back just slightly outside normal 28 day cycle DP suggests egg meets sperm plan this month so have anther week of rest and then all systems go. Has anyone else given it shot.

emki. Identical twin brother - sure who would know lol.

saggy I alternate between being positive and then thinking if I keep going there might be something wrong with baby and it's my fault for tempting fate or that I won't have another child and just accept it and not to put myself and my family through this.

Can someone put a "reserved" sign on my seat for a while? 7+ wk scan shows no heartbeat and fetus too small, so MC 4 is on the way. I'm not sure I can bear to try again, but keep my seat warm for a bit whilst we think about it?

tins I feel physically sick - I want to cry! I was just thinking of you this morning - your seat is reserved but hoping for a miracle /blessing / bestest of luck for you xxxxx

bAkingtins. I am so sorry to hear this - tears in my eyes. It's so tough.
Are you sure dates are right? Big hugs to you.

missp would also involve getting twin brother very drunk as he's gay .... But have to seriously consider if dh keeps going away during fertile window .....

bakingtins I'm so so sorry to hear this. Have they referred you for tests to see if there's anything wrong?

So so sorry bakingtins can't imagine how you must be feeling.

Oh bakingtins I'm so so sorry, it is just totally shit You don't deserve this, it's so unfair.

We're here even if you just want to rant, you don't have to think about next steps yet xxx

Oh tins I'm so sorry. You poor poor thing. I really really hope it's not what you're fearing - are they doing another scan in a week's time to check if a hb has appeared by then? God it's so tough. Big hugs to you and your DP.

Oh BakingTins. I'm so sorry to hear that. Sending you all my love and a huge fat hug!

oh tins I'm so so sorry. My heart goes out to you. I really hope it all ends up being ok. Wishing you loads of love and hugs. xxxx

There's not a chance it's ok, I should have been 7+4 so 10 days beyond where they expect a heartbeat, and there's no doubt about my dates, they are just covering their behinds asking me to wait for another scan. Don't waste your posifrickingtivity holding out any hope for me, you need all you can get for some more good news on here. Don't want to hijack the thread, just explaining where I've disappeared to.

Just had a little lurk and saw your news tins. I'm so do sorry, heartbreaking. Sending you a big hug. You don't need to decide anything, just look after yourself and be looked after too.

Tins, there are no words. Just sorry. Nobody deserves this.

So sorry Tins that really is terrible news. We're here for you. That's the least we can do after all the support you've given to people on here.

tins weren't you due some more testing next month and then you got pg which put a hold on things? Is there more investigating they can do as to why it's gone wrong? Don't worry about answering if you don't want to be thinking about all this at the moment x

Oh, Bakingtins, I'm so so sorry. Life is just so unfair, so sorry that you have to go through this again.
Please look after yourself, hope that you get lots of RL support. Thinking of you and sending hugs x

Hi Thunder No - I was just waiting for the follow up appointment, but I've had all my results back and there is nothing wrong with me. I think we'll probably cancel or at least postpone the appointment, there doesn't seem to be any point. We had a chat about it today and the consultant thinks I am "superfertile" that's a fucking joke and my uterus accepts embryos that are flawed and should never get as far as implanting. She's still saying she thinks with the right embryo I can carry to term, but I just don't feel like I can face it. How many times can you go through this shit before you conclude it just isn't meant to be?

Oh tins I'm so sorry to hear that, sending big hugs x

Sorry hon, just clutching at straws I think because its so awful. Even told DH tonight and he was all "no... not tins, that's terrible". Know that you're in everyone's thoughts and we're all here for you. Really heartbroken for you. I just wish it was different for you and all of us. Xxxx

Sorry to hear about your bad news bakingtins xx

So, so sorry tins Nobody deserves such heartache. You poor thing. Be kind to yourself x

I'm so sorry Tins - whatever you decide in the future I know the ladies here will support you, don't make any decisions yet

Am thinking of you, name buddy. I hope that you manage some sleep and are being gentle with yourself. An utterly shit thing to happen and I wish it hadn't.