I get knocked down, but I'll get knocked up again, cos you're never gonna keep me down... The big fat posifrickintivity thread for people TTC after MC.

[SaggyOldClothCatPuss]

I thought I'd start the new thread and earn some brownie points with the posifrickintivity Gods...

GAH! More WTF today. CD18, I have had spotting, cramps and sore boobs. If AF turns up now I WILL NOT BE HAPPY! I would really just like my body to work properly for a change!

Oh rubbish saggy it's so rubbish not being in control! I'm doing cb opk and still no OV detected - actually no lines at all on stick this morning. I'm on day 15 now - guessing its all taking longer as first AF Mc.

However we managed to dtd - going to again tonight and tomorrow as hoping ill OV soon - we're actually going out tomorrow night - have not done that in a long time! Feels strange to be back here again ... It was such a relief when I got pg in jan after first mc - but feeling good - moving on and must try to think that every month is another one closer to a bfp!

Happy weekends to all! Remember to post on Sunday something you're looking forward to next week xxxx

I gave up on OPKs. Tried them for 2 months, got lines but never equal ones. I was just getting confused so I ditched them!

Might be what I do .... Though they have worked in the past .... But I'll give it another few days xxx

Hi all. Checking for Friday news. I hope people have cheerful weekend plans

Saggy sounds very frustrating.

Emki in 2 pregnancies i haven't had clear OPK results - even the months when i did get pregnant. That said, my internet order of cb test sticks arrived today, still going to give it a go. Hope you have a good night out.

Trying to get enthusiastic about TTC. All I really want is to rewind a couple of weeks to being excited with a little baby on the way. Like everyone i guess.

DTD tonight for first time since MC and now feeling a bit flat. I felt like I should, nothings going to happen otherwise. DH would be hurt to know, but its hard to find babymaking a happy thing again.
And I assume pain after first DTD is just another common experience of the whole crappy business.

Self indulgent grumbling.

More furtling turtle posts needed!

Welcome oli and LJH sorry you find yourselves here.

Thanks for the reply baking I really hope you're right and this is going to be me getting back to normal cycles this month. Got my 2nd high this morning. How are you?

So no success this fertility Friday. Hopefully we are going to come back with a vengeance during the next weeks/ months!

Furtling is indeed a wonderful word!

More self indulgence from me I'm afraid. DB and DSIL told us they are expecting last night. So excited for them but had a good old weeping fest after they were gone. DH lovely though.

Good luck to all the DTDers!

Ffs! I'm fairly certain AF is here! So that's a 32 day followed by a 19 day cycle!

Oh pants saggy that is crap. Weren't they usually long cycles in the past? And are you sure it's af?

Hi rainbow and well done for getting back on the horse so to speak. It's bound to be difficult so give yourself a bit of time and space.

Hi guys I have been quiet for a while as feeling a bit run down. Lots of early nights and feeling better

saggy your cycles r a little hard to predict, my cousin was same after mc despite being regular before. Took a few months and some acunpcture and back to normal. Yours will settle soon fingers crossed

Hello all newbies.

Well af due tomorrow m, first since mc at 5 weeks. Af after mc at 10 weeks came back normal cycle. No twinges yet. Maybe get to poas next Friday. :-))

DP and I are off for a romantic night away on Tuesday. Can't wait and much needed. Pity I won't be ovulating.!!! Must plan better.

Thunder I refuse to even consider that alternative! I'll just be disappointed! I'm not very posifrickintive ATM!

Well I'm not saying anything....

And I can't really anyway- should be renamed thundercatsaregrumpy right now! Got something to distract yourself with today?

Selling cheese and pies at the Greene King beer festival in Bury Dt Edmunds!

Mmmmmmmm pies.....

Mmmmmmmmm cheese......

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmm beer........

Right there with you thunder.

Sorry to hear AF is mucking you around saggy. Mine have been odd too post mc. Plus I've started getting really bad period pain which I've never really had before (had pain, but nothing like this).

Sorry you've been feeling run down missp, but yay to feeling better.

Welcome to all the new people, sorry you have to be here though.

I'm feeling a bit weary re. posifrickintivity today. Didn't get much dtd in over ovulation, and have scary uterus scan appointment Tues. I'm sure it'll just be a consultation rather than actual scan so I doubt I'll leave any the wiser but its still a bit nerve wracking.

To cheer myself up am staying in tonight with beer, Chinese and Eurovision. Yippee.

I have also noticed that we seem a bit more positive when we get some Friday BFPs. Who is due to poas this week? I'm not till the week after (anyone with me?).

Hi all, thought I would check in to see if there are any BFP's to cheer me up.
Still no Af or BFP for me. That's 11 weeks now since D&C. GP was useless re lack of af and conceiving. I did get bloods taken which have shown that I'm anaemic.

To add to the grump the lovely girl across the road has a very gorgeous baby bump and every time I see her I am . I try not to be but she's due around the time I should have been and its just rubbish.

Feeling your pain 'nearly' I'm not as far on as you 8 weeks today since op, but miserable with no AF yet and still a BFN.

Friend at works wife is due the same day as i would have been, still trying to persuade him he doesn't have to keep it all quiet for my sake, but i am glad he's not bubbling too much.

There's a lot of new names on her since i last dropped in, more heart ache out there.

so sprinkling some baby dust, but in reality would be almost as happy if af arrived!!

That sounds so frustrating nearly & mrsE. Hope things head back to normal for you both soon or better still the lack of AF is due to a BFP being on the horizon.
Sorry things are so crazy for you saggy you must wonder what's going on.
I'm on cd 7 of cycle 1 so not sure what to expect but hoping it will be reasonably normal & will probably use opks to see what's happening.
Sorry to see more & more of us in this boat. Nice we can support each other though.
It's hard with all the other pregnancy announcements. We just heard some friends due when I should have been. Very happy for them but somehow makes me sadder that it's not us too. Would have been lovely to be having babies at same time & suspect I'll always feel we should have a child the same age as theirs. DH doesn't get that.
Oh well. Just keeping fingers crossed we might get a sticky BFP soon.
Sorry can't remember who said they found DTD not great straight after mc. It took me a while to get back there too. Just time really but did find the first time a bit emotional. (DH didn't get that either!)
Hope next week brings us some posifrickintivity.

Hope it is katatonic fingers crossed.

Fingers crossed katatonic!

Sorry to hear you're having another wtf cycle saggy!

After my slight meltdown the other week I did get a smiley face on my opk on Monday and Tuesday so must be about 4dpo. Was feeling quite calm about it but now stressing about af coming and then having to deal with my cyst and maybe not ttc for a month or so but in the grand scheme of things it wouldn't be the end of the world! Trying to the posifrickintivity going!

Hopefully well see a run if bfps this Friday!

Cd 1 here

kat i had loads of wtf spotting etc after ERPC. Hope it is ib for you tho!

fingers crossed Kat, my last pregnancy I had a 3day implantation bleed.

Hello everyone, sorry to see that we're not feeling that positive today. AF has arrived for me so at least that explains the hellish mood swings. CD1, bring it on!

Shall we share our nice things for the week ahead? I have dance tomorrow night, and a job interview on Wednesday to look forward to.