TTC after MC - nice people in crap times, full of posifrickingtivity

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Welcome aboard ladies (though obviously sorry you have to be here). We're a friendly bunch so come in and plump up a cushion for POAS Fridays and lots of posifrickingtivity. With a few (gentle) fish slaps thrown in for good measure.

Too drunk to add anything sensible other than arf arf to the yoni!

Me to Choc. If she is PG, then in 17 years she could be attempting to wrangle a really foul teenager like mine. I wouldnt wish that in anyone! it cant be that bad, I want another one!

Just catching up on fertile Friday - fab fab news blackholes and choc!! Xx

Thank you so much for all the congratulations! If I'm brave enough I'll test again tomorrow. I'm just worried because it's still early, and I used a FR, so might get a bfn if I test using my tesco one tomorrow! Like I said before, not getting too excited and still checking knickers.

Choc- finally a definitive answer, woop woop! Congrats!

Fod- sorry to hear about your brothers appointment. The waiting is the very worst. Nothing else to add... Life can be shit xxx

PS I hate posting on my phone as I always forget who saud what- sorry! Bakingtins- it must be frustrating thinking everything looks ok and not having a reason for your mc xx

Well I'm on day 17 of an average of 27 day cycle and still no dark line on the OPK. Im getting annoyed now!

Congrats choc!

Gruff I am someone who got preg after MC but before AF totally agree best to keep note of any dates eg date you get a bfn, date you have sex first etc

I had my booking in appt this week and went for a scan as they wanted to establish dates - measured 10 weeks and saw heartbeat..... Of two of them, yep it's twins.....already thought this has been a journey and a half never even thought f this happening.

best of luck to those testing soon and those waiting to recover x

Wow twins spanish!! Congratulations! Are they identical?

Oh CRIKEY Spanish! That is brilliant! I am so pleased for you!
and secretly fighting down the bitter envy that we were on the September thread together and you are already 10 weeks!

Everyone on my May thread are getting ready to start maternity leave

Wow Spanish! Twins! That's awesome news!

Hey ladies. Yes, I'm still here hovering in the background!

Thunder - lovely - im sorry you feeling crap but you really are making progress. Getting those levels down is most important right now do next pregnancy is lovely and sticky and healthy. Hope you are okay.

Spanish, wow twins! That's so exciting! So pleased for you.

Sorry and hello to the new ladies who have joined. I hope you get as much out of this thread as I have, has really helped me through some tough times. :)

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Hi all. Am really worried that I may have to return to this thread. Had some spotting last night :( as nice as you all are I really don't want to come back a 3rd time within 9months :(

Oh bit late to the party on this thread. Mum was visiting and DP was working overtime all over derive week this month, so unless we got lucky a few days earlier than FF predicted, il be here a while yet. Lucky13, in the nicest way possible I hope to never see you again unless your updating us on your healthy pregnancy! Xx

Thanks and appreciate your goodwill at a time that is so difficult for many here - it's been horrible telling some people (eg friend who has gone just through 2nd round of IVF ) .

We don't think they are identical but will find out more next week when we have the nhs scan.....the one the other night was private as had abit of meltdown when booking in MW kept trying to convince me I hadn't miscarried she seemed to prefer that explanation to my getting preg soon after as she thought my dates were odd - I left quite upset so my dear mum decided enough was enough and booked me a scan - knowing what is going on and seeing heart beats has really relaxed me - I knw it can still go wrong but you can't keep up the anxiety forever I was getting horrible migraines and was really lethargic now feel much better.

Saggy I absolutely understand As i feel uncomfortable with it somehow - I appreciate your honesty cos I'd feel exactly the same way if the shoe was on the other foot. I've banned dh from mentioning a word on bloody FB. I know I caused grief to a friend at work not intentionally of course but she's had some struggles and we comforted each other after our respective loses- feel abit of a traitor to the cause though rationally we both want to move on but you know, after telling the team she disappeared and I could tell she'd been crying when she got back - I just hope I'm being sensitive. ANYWAY we have BFPs to get ladies I know it!

Fx cross lucky

Lovely news Spanish

Spanish IMO you shouldn't feel uncomfortable. You've been in our shoes. I bet you've wept more than a few years at other people's baby announcements. It's your turn now. Try and enjoy every minute. Our turns will come. Twins is amazing, DP is a non identical twin, he and BIL share that strange twin link, it's really sweet.

Thanks saggy - you are going to make a great mum to another lucky lo

I really hope so.

Spanish that's fabulous news!!!!! So so pleased to see that your making good progress.....you really deserve some good news!

I'm back full of posifrickintivity! Just been to the travel agents to discuss our wedding abroad! Getting all excited, popped into mother in laws after purchasing some more ov kits and guess what?...., I'm frickin ovulating!

So all you ladies that are panicking it took 7 weeks but it's happened! Hope it brings some faith your way

Yay! For Fods ovaries!

My thoughts exactly yoni ;) was beginning to think they were broken, on holiday, or just resigned all together

fod- fab news! Hope you're frickin' babymaking at the moment!!