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TTC 10 + months, part 14 (eek)

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GinSoaked · 15/03/2013 10:03

A friendly, supportive thread for lovely ladies taking waaay longer than they ever expected to win their babies

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mrsden · 14/04/2013 22:45

Put it with ice packs in a cool bag. Declare it to the scanner people, I don't think they confiscate medicine. Do you have a drs note?

akuabadoll · 15/04/2013 04:39

nelly you don't say if you are leaving the country, I don't know much about internal UK flights I'm afraid. I did travel between Geneva and NY with live vaccines and needles and no letter and it was not even opened. Again don't know what you are stabbing with but to my knowledge an hour or two out is not a big deal (apart from the trigger of course) is it likely to be more than that even if there was a delay? I know you never know and it's horrid to stress. x

mrsden · 15/04/2013 08:49

Are you going anywhere exciting nelly? I was told to take it within 30 mins of the same time each day but I'm not sure it really matters that much, obviously several hours might be a problem. I've flown with diabetic friends before and their needles have never been a problem, they just tell the scanner people first before they find them.

The injection stung a bit last night, I think I chose a sensitive bit of skin. I have to get DH to do the counting to 10 because I can't seem to do it at the same time Hmm gin what was the centrotide like? When did you have to start taking it? It still makes me happy to think it worked for you, do you think FET are more likely to work because if the embryo survives it then it must be strong?

MuddyWellyNelly · 15/04/2013 08:55

Thought I posted earlier. Just quick. Took them, no issues, just told security. No Mrsd just a quick business trip. Post later!

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 11:19

Glad it was ok nelly.

I hope a few hours is ok mrsd as i had a vital of a lie in on Sunday Blush. nothing excessive but not injecting at half 6. My clinic just said to inject in the morning. tomorrow i have to wait to inject the menopur until after my scan in case they want to adjust the dose.

The fet success rates are good partly because of strong blasts (and improved freezing techniques these days) as well as the fact that the woman's body hasn't been put under as much stress right beforehand. at least that's what i read. I'm sure there are multiple theories!!

Feeling bloated now and taking that as a goose sign. Happy Monday everyone.

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 11:19

Vital??? A bit of a lie in

mrsden · 15/04/2013 11:24

Grin at goose sign. That must be a good sign madness! I think the timing is only an issue if you were supposed to have a dose at morning time but had it before bed instead. When will ec be for you? I have my first scan tomorrow. I'm sort of expecting them to say nothing is happening yet. I should really be on a higher dose but my bargain bucket pen doesn't contain that preset amount, so I'm having to do 112.5

mrsden · 15/04/2013 11:24

and a lie in is vital!

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 16:56

I should never type on my phone!!

I have a scan tomorrow as well. Really anxious that they'll say nothing is happening and given that I'm on 300iu of menopur that had better not be the case!! Nurse said egg collection any time from Monday the 22nd depending on my scans.

I'll be thinking of you when I'm in the clinic tomorrow. Good luck!

CritterPants · 15/04/2013 17:02

Hi guys,

nelly I'm glad your travel went well - mrsd's advice was spot on, I think. I'm flying (domestically) over the weekend with all my shooting up paraphernalia in my hand luggage, and I've heard it's totally fine - you just pack one of those frozen blue ice block things with it and tell the scanner people.

mrsd Oh I'm sorry about the dosage stress. I know that awful panicky feeling. For what it's worth, when I was stabbing last summer on my injectible cycle, I started on 75 and moved up to 112.5 after several days - it took ages for me to grow the eggs, but when I did there were loads of them, I was the potential octomum! So don't worry - I think 'low and slow' is what my doctor recommended for me to prevent hyperstimulating. You will get there! Better to start on a lower dose and then adjust if needed. Good luck with your scan tomorrow!

madness Like I said to mrsd I had no follies visible when I was stimming (for an injectibles cycle that ended up being cancelled due to overstimulation) and then all of a sudden I had 8! So don't worry. Also, doll only had one embie transferred on her last round, and now look at her, 12 weeks gone! I think the numbness is a natural self-protection mechanism - you've had a really rough time of things and it makes sense that this would feel odd. But you have everything going for you - your womble is all ready for a little un. I really really have high hopes for you. Paw squeeze.

art sorry to hear about your cold, but lovely to see you here! Keep coming back, we miss you!

gin I think terror is a pretty normal response Grin but every day you are moving closer and closer to having your baby. Yippee! When is your next scan? I bet you'll feel a lot happier once that's happened and you can see the little ginlet all safely snuggled in. Oh gin I am just so happy for you.

lemon welcome back! We missed you. Smile June is just around the corner (if you don't have a BFP before then). I foresee a spring 2014 lemonette!

buzzy not long now to go! Hope the stabbing is going ok.

euro sorry about the clots - that is rotten. Hey, this time next week we'll be nearly about to go for our date! Maybe there'll be some cherry blossom left too, and hopefully it'll be warm - it's been gorgeous here over the weekend, although it cooled off a bit today.

Waves at teu (23 weeks! More than halfway there! Grin ) sar,pout, sea, sweet, rabbit, doll and princess. I love you ladies. All fine here, I have two more days of the birth control pill to go, then I start stimming on Thursday or Friday. So downregging is nearly over! Woop woop! Grin Incidentally, my nurse said I had to keep taking lupron (the drug that stops you ovulating) the entire time, right up to my trigger, to prevent me from ovulating too early. A bit weird because last summer when I was just on the gonal F stimming drug I didn't have to do lupron as well, and when I stopped taking the gonal when they cancelled the cycle, I didn't ovulate - everything just shrunk away. I suppose it depends on your protocol.
Another question... next week I have been asked to go on a one-day work trip to Miami Wink - which would mean that I wasn't available for a scan on day 5 or 6 of stimms. I know they like to scan you and do blood tests every day or every other day when you're stimming. I'd fly there and back in the same day, leaving early in the morning and coming back late that night. Under any other circumstances I would LOVE to have a night in a nice hotel in Miami... but do you guys think that would be ok? I've emailed my clinic but they haven't gotten back to me yet.

CritterPants · 15/04/2013 17:10

Also - my mum sent me this link from Thought for the Day on Thursday about Robert Edwards from the UK chief rabbi. I thought it was a really beautiful perspective on IVF from a spiritual perspective and thought you guys might like to read it.

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 17:11

Will be interesting to hear what your clinic have to say critter. My clinic are scanning me on day 6 and then either day 9 or 12 depending on how things are going. Thanks for the reassurance. Just wish I could see what was going on! How are you feeling about this cycle? So jealous of these transatlantic meet ups Envy. When are we having the Scottish meet up Wink??

sarlat · 15/04/2013 17:44

Mrs den -just like critter it took a while for my eggs to grow, we are all individual and it makes me cross when drs suggest follies are growing too slowly. I understand the nerves of the first scan, it is the first hurdle to jump.

Madness -tight squeeze for you too for tomorrow's scan. There wil be follies, its the first few days so dont worry about a line of big juicy ones. They wouldnt put you through it if there wasn't a strong chance of egg collection.

Critter-exciting times about stimming. Not sure why they are keeping you on lupron -there must be a hormonal benefit to juicify the eggs. Re the miami vice thing - go for it. You are not new to the world of stimming and most clinics try to be flexible, see what they say. But being happy on this journey must be accounted for too. Thank you for that link. Xxx

Euro -hmmmm, I do remember my af after mc being grotty and clotty but not sure about the liver bits. If these seem a little more than clots I would urge you to request a scan. Am I right in thinking you didn't pass much around the time of the mc. Im sure nothing is wrong but you are entitled to a check up.

Joy -how are you, hope life is feeling more normal and care free.

Good luck to nelly, so glad the plan e dilema was sorted. Also good luck to buzz too. Worries missed a stabber / stimmer???

Teu - thanks for calling by, wonderful news.

Sorry for the cold doll -second trimester glow is nearly here,

Hi to rabbit, sea, swert and welcome back lemons.

GinSoaked · 15/04/2013 18:06

Just popping in quickly.. mrsd I can't remember when I started cetrotide. Maybe around day 8 2nd time and 10 1st time? It is a stinger, but if you put an ice pack on the spot immediately afterwards, it'll prevent the itchy lump.

I was told our FET had a 50% chance of working compared to 35% for the fresh cycle. I think it's mostly as madnesssaid that only the strongest embies make it to freezing and blast rates are generally better. Also I read somewhere that if you have high e2 levels like I did during the last ivf cycle, it can make the embie less likely to implant, although I read plenty of stories of ladies with higher levels than me and actual ohss getting preggers. I wouldn't worry about it now mrsd. Everyone is different and different clinics have different success rates.

nelly pleased to hear you managed to get the drugs on the plane! That would sound v dodgy anywhere else other than here!

critter yay to starting stims soon. I was scanned every few days, so am sure an overnight stay will be fine, esp when it's not near EC.

Good luck for the scan madness. I too am massively bloated. Am blaming the arse bullets. Dave told me I had beetroot tummy, like the meerkat in that ad (nice...)

sar good luck with the hsg.

buzz wow ET is so near now! You will be excited nearer the time, promise.

Waves to everyone else. Gotta go!

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sarlat · 15/04/2013 18:24

Thanks for the good luck for the hsg. However, it appears I wont be going, I just got a BFP.

CritterPants · 15/04/2013 18:26

sar!!!!!!

Grin Grin Grin Grin

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 18:27

WOW!!!!!!! Fantastic news Grin Grin Grin

CritterPants · 15/04/2013 18:35

sar Hurrah!!! I am completely, utterly, over the moon for you. And I can't believe how low key you were in that announcement! Amazing, amazing, amazing news. So you must be 16 dpo? How did you manage to have the willpower to wait so long not to test?! Yippeee!! Grin Grin Grin

rabbitonthemoon · 15/04/2013 18:39

Oh my god sar that is AMAZING! Oo I feel all excited! Did you feel you were?

EuroShaggleton · 15/04/2013 18:48

Sar blimey! We have a veritable clusterdiff!

ThatWayMadnessLies · 15/04/2013 18:48

Come back!! I need details!!!!

sarlat · 15/04/2013 18:49

Thank you ladies. Feel totally normal other than progesterone poo. I expected af early Sunday. When it didn't come I just assumed it would arrive today. Gradually today it started dawning on me that it could have happened when there was no hint of af . I didonot see this coming. I had 3 major drinking sessions this last 2 weeks, including this saturday. I have also been filling my face with seafood, goats cheese and runny eggs. I am 16 dpo, we are stunned and numb.

GinSoaked · 15/04/2013 19:11

OMG sar that is totally amazing and brilliant news!!! I am so so thrilled for you and chumba. Come on finger, get everyone else on the Fred too!

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buzzybee123 · 15/04/2013 19:30

massive congrats to sar that is amazing Grin

akuabadoll · 15/04/2013 19:31

Grin oh that's just brilliant sar so happy for you. Grin

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