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The big fat posifrickintivity, but only on a friday thread - TTC after MC and not lose your head

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Mummytothearkbuilder · 12/03/2013 23:35

Ladies - a brand new lovely shiny thread for us to fill! Enjoy x

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Floweroct · 22/03/2013 09:01

Katerina wtf! I'd unsubscribe that's just mean!!

katerinaemalina · 22/03/2013 09:10

Yeh Santa pma to you! Such a rollercoaster it's exhausting. Trying to buy a house too but nothing doing. Feel like I'm living in limbo land at the moment. Right better do some work. Hopefully will make my little brain think of something else for a while

MrsSpencerReid · 22/03/2013 09:58

Bfn here too, hope next week is better! Or we'll have to have super sperm Saturday or something!!

CatPussInACrownOfThorns · 22/03/2013 10:18

Someone slap me with a fish again please! The taste was back this morning, and I feel rather sick. AF isn't due for at least another 7 days!

shellshock7 · 22/03/2013 10:30

Bugger, what has happened to fertile Friday Hmm

Vocalista86 · 22/03/2013 11:40

Tested to confirm with my clear blue this morning. Also a BFP so I'm pretty sure it must be true!!

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 22/03/2013 12:52

Really hoping you don't need to join our thread *Mrs Excited" - but lots of support here if you do.

LittleBairn · 22/03/2013 12:53

catpuss I will slap you if you slap me... I've feeling slightly crampy ( ? Implantation) acid reflux back with avengence ( had it dreadfully thought my pregnancy) and crazy vivid dreams too.
I'm actually cross at myself and my body for conspiring to make me hopefully when I know their os no way I would be having symptoms.
It just makes the crushing BFN worse. Sad

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 22/03/2013 12:54

ugh bold fail - Mrs Excited that should be - I have clearly done enough typing this week and need to rest.

  • there you go CatPuss Grin
LittleBairn · 22/03/2013 12:54

There is No honestly I'm not as thick as my typing makes out!

LittleBairn · 22/03/2013 12:55

MrsExcited hope your ok.

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 22/03/2013 12:55

Annnndd (takes a run up)

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 22/03/2013 13:04

Little Bairn - I'm only on CD11, second "high" day on my CBFM, and yet I was pondering whether I had EWCM today and therefore is my CBFM actually a massive con and is trying to thwart my ttc-ing attempts....

I need to get out more

MrsExcited · 22/03/2013 13:54

Hi, had it confirmed this morning, so erpc tomorrow, then ttc again.

Nurses at the epau were fab, gave me some positive thoughts.

Thanks for letting me join this group this group early, i felt lost after falling off the October bus.

(Spreads baby dust liberally)

Bakingtins · 22/03/2013 13:56

Commiserations for all the BFNs. Maybe the rules need tweaking? They worked so well last week! (ducks to avoid flying fish) Super Saturday testing, anyone?

CatPussInACrownOfThorns · 22/03/2013 14:05

I think testing on Saturday is ok. It's after Today, but not in the same week as next Friday! Grin
Ill add heart burn and vivid dreams to my list of imaginary symptoms too! Confused

CatPussInACrownOfThorns · 22/03/2013 14:09

I'm actually dreading next Friday. If I get bfn I'm going to be so fed up!

alyant79 · 22/03/2013 14:33

boo to all the bfps.
santa maybe you don't have to give up hope yet? esp if you don't know when/if you ovulated.

LittleBairn · 22/03/2013 14:37

catpuss I will be testing at the same time so you won't be alone. I can't share my imaginary symptoms with DH because I worry he will get too excited.
Friday testing works well for me as its my day off and day I'm due my period.

mrsexcited welcome it's truly the club no one on MN wants be be part of so I'm sorry your here too.

chocolate is this you first month using it? From what I've heard it takes a cycle or two to learn your cycle and hormon levels to predict more accurately when you start testing.
In general I think you may get 2/3 high days before you get the ov sign.

I didn't get the ov sign but the start of the high days coincided with when I think I ovulate and when I produced the most CM. It's still requesting sticks but I think that may be to note my hormone levels throughout my cycle.

For the most accurate monitor it is supposed to be DuoFertility but at £500 I won't consider that until we've been trying for awhile more.
Due to DH age I don't want to be TTC for to long without results.

GardenWorm · 22/03/2013 18:06

Did you guys know that next Friday is the Bank Holiday Bonanza Fertile Friday Rollover? Big hugs to you all and POSIFRICKINTIVITY by the EWCM load X

Floweroct · 22/03/2013 18:15

I like the sound of that gardenworm!

Hope tomorrow goes ok mrsrexcited hugs to you x

Bakingtins · 22/03/2013 19:47

Garden I am now pissed off that I can't join in next Friday! Still waiting for a BFN post-MC. Does that count if that's the result I'm after?

GP had taken HCG because I'm still getting a BFP 2 weeks on, but have been told the results will take a week to come back so not sure why they bothered, I'd have done another HPT by then anyway!

Topslou · 22/03/2013 20:03

Hi ladies. Can I join please. I had a mc on 8th march. Poas today and got a BFN. Only time I'll be happy to see one of those! Had a mmc in July & didn't get all clear to start ttc until October so v happy to get a bfn today so we can start trying again. Want to start straight away. Has been a rough week, one of my best friends told me was due same day as me & she had her scan today. Another very close friend also had her 12 week scan today. First friend knows about mc but second one doesn't, not sure how to tell her but know I need to or she'll be asking me about my scan result next week.

Mummytothearkbuilder · 22/03/2013 20:03

Hi ladies - sorry about the BFNs today - sending positive thoughts to you all.

I will be testing next Friday / Saturday however I am slightly ruling myself out for this cycle Hmm I have had back ache for the past 2 days and today I have loads of cm (a white colour) - I have NO idea what this means but haven't heard of it being a pregnancy symptom so guessing it means crappy AF.

Xx

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ChocolateCremeEggBag · 22/03/2013 20:18

Hi Topslou - you are very welcome to the thread, but sorry that you are here at the same time. Can you send the second friend a note? Will you be able to speak to her with some privacy? Or can the first friend let her know for you?

DM just called me - she is super snowed in over in West Cumbria. Road is closed and snow has drifted over it. She has no power either. She will be fine (assuming the food/wine stocks are ok) but she and my brother are planning to walk to my uncles farm in the morning (2 miles away as crow flies - which is the direction they will go - ie over walls etc) to help with the lambing. It makes me relieved we live at the edge of a village and only have a dog and child to worry about.