confused, much needed advice

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I don't know what to do, so confused. Last night in work I had lower back pain to the point when I was bending down I was trying to support my back so when I got home I took a test and it came back negative.. :/ I decided to take the other one on morning urine and that to came back neg. But all I've done today is be sick, my period is now 9 days late the last one was 28th of January and that to was 5days late. I have no clue what's up with me, my partner is in the army and he's currently away on exercise until next Friday so I'm pretty much on my own with this, I don't want anyone to know because it would build my mothers hopes up she would love a grandchild. Do you think I could be pregnant and its just not showing up on tests yet?

Sounds like your periods are kind of irregular? What about the ones before January?

If you're 9 days late and still getting a BFN you're probably not pregnant... But.. You could still be pregnant! Hard to say.

Like I said, what about other cycles before January?

Before January they were fine,regular like clock work. I don't know what to make of it all, we have been trying but not that long only since he got back from Afghanistan which was in November.