Here is my story... I am 40 and have two kids... We would like one more and it's now or never, I have been having irregular periods for a bit leafing me to think I am in periomenopause possibly. Well for the last month we have used nothing as we would like one more. I don't remember how I felt in the beginning with my other two... My daughter is 5 and I was breatfeeeibg Nd stuff still when I got pregnsnt with my son. We ttc in jan 19.. I then got my period which lately has been every three months and lasts almost a week and a half... So after that we ttc several times ... My problem being that I'm so ireegular how do I know when to take a pregnsncy test and it be accurate... I've taken several in the last week all negative... But if I go off the schedule from last month my period is two days late ... And I had Brown slotting yesterday and today with slight pressure and light cramps in my abdomen... And achy too . Any one else ever had this? What do you think? Maybe I tested York early I don't know.