please help me calm down and figure out what's going on

[KittenCamile]

Hi,

We have been ttc for 4 months, last month a started bleeding 7 dpo, I spotted for the first day and last day and had VERY heavy blood day 2 and 3. Very pink blood, it looked different to normal menstral blood.

I then ovl on cycle day 10 (my temp dropped) but I got a stronger opk on day 11 and AF was due 14dop. Its now 16dpo and I still haven't had AF and no sign either.

My boobs started to get sore and a bit fuller on sunday and are still sore and full, they normally stop the day before AF is due. I have had really bad constipation for the last two weeks and have spent most of the time looking pregnant because my tummy is so sore. plus a headache and spots but that could be related to the constipation. I did a test this morning (only one I had left) and bfn!

I'm so upset and worried. My cycle has gone werid the last two months and now no af but still no bfp! I'm sat in bed sobbing with no idea what's wrong with me. What should I do? Some please help

Just a thought,....if you had a +opk on day 11 it can take up to 36 hours to ovulate which would mean you ovulated on cd13-14...making you only 12dpo now.
If you are worried maybe book an appointment with your gp. Were you using any birth control prior to ttc?? Sometimes this can cause upsets with your cycle for a while as your body adjusts to doing the hormone work itself again.

Hi CaliBee, thanks. No I haven't ever been on the pill, we just stopped using condoms.

I thought that too but my temp dropped on day 10 and then sharply went up and only dropped again slightly 5dpo and has been up since. So I'm not sure!

I know thin your late on a 24 day cycle seems weird! Thank you