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Today would have been my due date

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Sonics · 20/02/2013 06:55

and I'm still not pregnant Hmm

I clearly remember after having my mmc saying "as long as I'm pregnant again by 20th February" and I'm not. AF due on sat but I don't think I'm pg this month. POAS yesterday and 12dpo and it was negative.

Glad I've taken the day off work today (but annoyed at being awake so early!)

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highlove · 20/02/2013 07:16

Sorry Sonics. It's tough. Same here - due date was last month and was exactly the same, had been desperate to be pg again. The weeks around my due date were pretty rough, to be honest. NO advice but lots of sympathy and a big hand hold today. Try and do something nice today and take care.

SPBInDisguise · 20/02/2013 07:25

I'm sorry x

okavango · 20/02/2013 07:33

mine were mid July and early January and it was previously pretty easy to get pg so it is v frustrating now. I have survived but it is really tough. so sorry that you have to go through it too. Good idea about the day off. can you treat yourself to a massage or something? treats are good!

lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 20/02/2013 07:39

So sorry sonics. I am not looking forward to the same in April. Take care of yourself and be gentle, it is okay to feel rubbish!

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Sonics · 20/02/2013 08:05

Thanks ladies Smile

Might just have a duvet day. Maybe go out for lunch later if we feel like it

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FidgetPie · 20/02/2013 08:16

Sending you my thoughts - a duvet day sounds a great idea

my due date would have been next Thurs. i have been trying to 'forget' the date but with no luck! we have been trying really hard to get pregnant this past month but think without success (6d PO)

I have potentially got a clomid class next thurs as consultant wants to start me on that. So may have to spend the due date in hospital discussing infertility (in which case will be having a large glass of wine in the evening!)

whiterose2011 · 20/02/2013 19:22

I'm dreading my due date next month. I can feel the tension rising inside me and I honestly thought I would be pg by now (I got pg on the first cycle but unfortunately miscarried). Life is totally shit sometimes. I've also just realised recently that my DH will be away with work on my due date so not really sure what to do with myself. Not his fault but I feel pretty abandoned at the moment knowing that I'll have to go through it on my own. Sad

So sorry for all your losses too. xx

farmersdaughter · 22/02/2013 09:37

Hugs sonics

Xxxx

bugoven · 22/02/2013 10:16

My due date came and went and if I were to be pregnant now my new due date will be similar to last year. Trying not to attach too much significance but this TTC game is so hard. Best wishes to everyone Xx

honey86 · 22/02/2013 10:36

same as! 13dpo but bfn Sad hugs and cupcakes to you x

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Sonics · 22/02/2013 16:32

Thanks ladies. Wednesday was a bit up and down but generally ok. AF arrived yesterday - if that had happened on Wednesday then it may have been a different story!

It is all so hard. Hugs to everyone Smile

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taesche · 24/02/2013 22:15

Same here, 6th of Feb. Stupid AF was late this months, had my hopes high, but bfn and then AF. Had exactly the same thought at a mc time. Hugs, hugs,hugs.

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