Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

[Thundercatsarego]

I couldn't bring myself to call her a bitch, we still need her help! Come on ladies, let's do this thing....

Twatting incompetent lying arseholes!

Now they want to keep me in over night but I'm still not allowed to eat! Want to rip their heads off! They said I could go for a walk...but not off the ward, my fiancé has neatly passed out a couple of times now so we went out for some fresh air...he too has not eaten and you should have seen the evils we got when we got back! I thought " are you for fucking real? I'm the one that should be angry! It's my body your fucking up!"

Sorry I'm just livid about the whole thing - "takes twenty minutes they said! You'll be out by dinner they said! Complications hardly ever happen!!!!!!" grrrrrr

Give them hell Fod my lovely!

C0cksuckers!!( That's my fave swear word!) What a complete balls up - I second give them hell!

Thanks guys, think its a cert...were any of you given pain relief for abdomen pains after? I'm having it in waves but they haven't offered me anything

Ask for it. And make sure you get it! I'd be making enough fuss to rouse the dead if I was you!

Fod I'm sorry you've had such an awful day. Make sure they give you some painkillers, there is no reason you should have to suffer through this. Have they checked your haemoglobin levels? I should think at the very least you'll need iron (I like Spatone, see if GP will prescribe it, it's much gentler on the bowels than the tablets) Hope you are able to go home v soon.

Saggy hope you are recovering ok and are at home being pampered.

So sorry that you are having an awful time fod- hope things settle quickly and you get home soon.
Hope you are ok Saggy- horrible for you.
Fingers crossed bakingtins
Xxx

Hi everyone. fod, this is so terrible, I'm so sorry for you. What a nightmare. Yeah they gave me some strong pain killers and mine was very straightforward so they should be offering you whatever you need. Your poor fiancé too. Sending you .

sag, you too, poor thing. Hope you're home and recovering with some treats.

tins you ok?

shell I start peeing on opks in a couple of days. No proper poas til end march...

Hi everyone else x

Excellent swearing ladies!!

Fod - they should definitely give you pain killers - cant believe they haven't offered you any!!

Xx

Fod that sounds horrific, keep fighting to get what you need and want, they should not be treating you like that, start complaining now X

I'm ok thanks thunder. Slight spotting again today but doesn't seem to be getting any worse. Have booked a private scan for next Thursday (soonest I can be seen locally) and managed to get a semblance of calm back today it was in tatters yesterday

Jeez I check back in today and it has all gone to shit! Wtf?!

Fod, how fricken awful. Please shout at the nearest person to you that is not fiancé! Immediately! You poor thing. If it helps, I also bled a lot after mine, but they did say it was a normal amount. :(

Saggy, hugs for you too xx

Baking, why are you paying? Will they not give you a scan? I have very much sympathy and hugs. Hope that horrid spotting goes away soon :(

Horrid. Must go get chocolate to recover from all of this :( so sorry it's been a shit day ladies.

God fod what a nightmare I really hope you are being looked after properly now.

tins glad to hear you have a scan booked and things aren't getting any worse

Fingers crossed for you BakingTins.
Fod have you got your drugs yet? Want me to come break some kneecaps for you?

I had intended to have a scan at this stage anyway. EPU is difficult because it's in the centre of the city and you have to be there at the crack of dawn. DH is working away and I have to get Ds1 to school and then find someone to take DS2. The private scan is at my local GP clinic and a timed appointment rather than a 3 hr wait so just easier. They've been very nice, offered me elsewhere in the area today if I wanted, or they'll refund me if it's obviously gone wrong by next week and I cancel the scan. My previous experience of this has been that the spotting is the sign something has gone wrong, but an initial scan has been ok then it's all gone tits up further down the line, so I think a scan in a week or so will be more reassuring if it shows that everything is progressing, or less likely to be falsely reassuring if it is actually going wrong. I don't know if that makes any sense but it makes me feel better to think I only have a week until I get some sense of what is happening.

Morning! I write inspired by the legal high that is a smiley face on an opk (little things). Today is a new and hopefully a more positive day for one and all after some serious rubbish that you have been going through.
Reasons to be cheerful:

1. It's FRIDAY
2. Spring has sprung! It's MARCH! Hallelujah. I'm thinking spring lambs, bunnies, new buds on trees (appreciate we aren't farm animals)

In my mind the above equate to mother nature being on our side and sending some bfp's.....also I saw a heron this morning which is almost a stork right? Ha ha! Oh and I have slight cramping combined with the smiley face and a more reasonable amount of EWCM as opposed to the ridiculous amounts in previous months (they must have been drowning in it before).

Basically I am trying to share my positivity that I randomly seem to have woken up with. Hope it's catching!

at the heron. Hope you are right.

I forgot it was spring! Yaay! I am also feeling optomistic and see this as a baby making sign ( not the natural progression of time, no no no)
Yay spring!

Baking, totally makes sense. Have everything crossed for you x

Heehee garden you've made my day!! Loving the positive vibes We'll be poas buddies too as I Ov yesterday (I think).

tins glad you got a date sorted for your scan, hope things stay good x

Any poas-ers this weekend?

fod how are you this morning? I hope you got a decent night and that they gave you some painkillers and sorted you all out.

Garden- I love the positive thinking!!
Hope you are feeling better today fod and can go home for some TLC.

I am so stupid. I am 9 days PO but that is an ovulation that I think happened on day 8 of my cycle.
I was googling early ovulation last night and have decided its a bad thing.
So I decided to POAS this morning and it was negative!
I hate this, I hate waiting and waiting.
I should still be pregnant not going through this crap- as we all should be!!

Hey everybody. So sorry for everybody having a shit time. I'm back on CD5 again. Bah.

fod, give 'em hell, they should DEFINITELY be giving you the good painkillers. When I had my ERPC they drugged me to the eyeballs. I was told they did it via vacuum but I never actually met the surgeon, so... who knows? Hope you're feeling better today.

baking fx for you, hope the spotting turns out to be nothing and the scan's ok.

garden yes. positivity. spring, and so on...

garden I've took your positivity too far and just worked out what my maternity leave dates might be if I am PG Setting myself up for a massive fall!

fod hope you had a comfortable night and are being looked after now

Saggy- you offer has been accepted ;)
Tins - I'm crossing everythin for you xxx try not to stress and get lots of rest...thinking of you

They released me this morning, passed a humongous clot last night, I swear I thought I was going to die! Never seen so much blood before, so scared of going through it all again... May consider adoption if this happens again. Even my fiancé commented that he thought the surgeon was a trainee as she was so subdued and quiet whilst I was hemorrhaging ....as if she knew she had done something wrong ;(

Got to go the drs at 3 for a sick note and follow up plus I get to keep the sexy stockings ;0

Loved that they tried to giver contraception advice even tho it stated on my notes that I was concerned about the risks as I wanted ttc again! The surgeons are so rude and abrupt yet the nurses and porters were stars! Xx

Stay positive guys! Xxx