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Elderberry Pavlovas And The Eternal Sausage of Wang (Part 4): a frightfully good thread for the over-30s TTC their first baby.

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viviennewestwould · 25/01/2013 18:58

Over here, sausage-wangers!

OP posts:
2cats222 · 04/02/2013 12:58

aquarius can I get excited on your behalf? No better symptom than missing AF Wink when are you POAS again??

Bunnygirlie · 04/02/2013 13:00

sidney that doesn't sound like fun, having step-children must be so difficult

2cats Just give it a go anyway!!!

So who is next to POAS? Awaiting BFP or evil bitch?

SidneyBristow · 04/02/2013 15:29

Thanks for the support, ladies. My SKs are great kids 99% of the time, but when they're horrible, they really go for it. They're here every other day or so, which I'm finding increasingly hard to handle, as it feels like I'm always "on duty" and never able to relax and just be Sidney, DH's wife, a good friend/daughter/sister etc. It's a very hard gig, all the responsibilities of being a mother but very little of the respect/affection/credit. They're good kids, but the baggage the situation brings is hard to swallow some of the time.

Anyway. I do have an urgent need to know what's going on with Gail's temp, so if there's any kind of cloak and daggerness going on, could she pretty please send up a smoke signal so we can all have an answer?

2cats I hear you on wanting to have the perfect cycle. That's where I am too, in prep for seeing a GP for the first time on Weds, mostly to discuss TTC. God forbid I get patted on the head and told to relax. Still, you never know - DTD bigtime and see what happens!

Bunny shall we do a CD poll? CD21 here, right in the center of a 2WW

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 15:47

sidney good idea, I'm madly excited and have a feeling this is going to be a bfp cycle for lots of people on this thread (except me who can't seem to shag at the right time! Wink)

Have started us off...
2 cats cd18 (of 35)
Sidney cd21
Aquarius AF due today
Bunny cd10 or 11
Boodle cd19
Gail cd29

If gail has been knocked off with a sausage (again) is there any way she/we can make contact??

SidneyBristow · 04/02/2013 16:11

Fx for us all! Wouldn't it be great if we all came up with BFPs this month!!

I would think that if gail were banned (again?) then it might be that her IP address were getting flagged up as a previously banned poster's? So perhaps logging on from a different computer would work? It's all so weird isn't it.

Thundercatsarego · 04/02/2013 16:25

Hi all,

Adding myself:

2 cats cd18 (of 35)
Sidney cd21
Aquarius AF due today
Bunny cd10 or 11
Thundercats cd12
Boodle cd19
Gail cd29

Thundercatsarego · 04/02/2013 16:27

(although doesn't a cd list take a lot of updating?)

sidney I say grumble away, it certainly sounds like you need a good moan as it all sounds exhausting.

happylass · 04/02/2013 17:26

Congrats Pip. Sorry to hear your having a tough time Sidney. Today I booked my wedding for August next year eeeek. Really need to get upduffed ASAP so I'm mot waddling down the aisle carrying ten tonnes of baby weight or even worse just about to give birth!

Adding myself

2 cats cd18 (of 35)
Sidney cd21
Aquarius AF due today
Bunny cd10 or 11
Thundercats cd12
Boodle cd19
Gail cd29
Happylass cd10 (of 26)

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 18:14

happy SOOOOOO jealous... still got post wedding blues (4 weeks on)! IT really is the best day ever.

And because I like things to be neat (ahem, maybe except my house) I have ordered the list by how soon we can expect the BFP's;

Aquarius AF due today
Gail cd29
Sidney cd21
Boodle cd19
Thundercats cd12
Bunny cd10 or 11
Happylass cd10 (of 26)
2 cats cd18 (of 35)

And in the mystery of the disappearing Gail I am off to do some research. I think she may have been kidnapped. Will report back once I know more

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 18:16

Gail has not updated her chart today. Is she preggers???

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 18:17

the only other alternative is that she has been kidnapped and imprisoned by mumsnet HQ....

janey1234 · 04/02/2013 18:29

Pooped back in with a warning...
If you've lost Gail us graduates will be very angry indeed WinkWink
Good luck for some BFP's this month

Aquarius1 · 04/02/2013 18:33

happy that's very exciting about booking your wedding Grin

2cats you forgot to take a sausage

I have nothing to report. My cycles vary from 25- 33 days- Iperiod said af due today but thats just based on average cycles so not necessarily accurate- might be later. Really puzzled by total lack of any pmt symptoms - not complaining mind - but makes me feel a bit hormone-less Hmm

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 18:37

aquarius I am not going to comment Wink
janey may need you to round up the graduate troops & arm them with sausages... I think we need to fight back under the cover of darkness

SidneyBristow · 04/02/2013 20:18

Thunder yep it is exhausting; I get whiplash trying to keep up with their different moods, harder still bc they're in and out so frequently (their mom's choice) that we never really get into a routine. Today was great, which we all needed, then again tacos make everything seem great. Sidney

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MotherOfCleo · 04/02/2013 20:57

ahh gail Im sorry! If it helps my skins gone all teenage on me overnight, obviously coming out in sympathy with you!

You will have a baby hun, Im sure of it!

Warning rant alert! Cant bear to watch that 'abortion debate' program on bbc, who do they think they are judging people! When I was 17 I got pregnant, it was the first time I ever had sex, deciding to abort the baby was a horrendous decision and an awful experience BUT I wouldnt change it. At seventeen I was not in any way ready to be a mum, even now when I want to be a mum more than anything I dont regret my decision all those years ago. I want a baby with my OH living the life I lead now, in my house, with my friends, not as a seventeen year old with nothing to offer and no prospects. It should be a womans choice, every situation is different and I think the woman should be allowed to decide what is right for her. Sorry rant over!

SidneyBristow · 04/02/2013 21:04

Oh no, Gail. I am so, so sorry. I really thought you had it in the bag this month. Please don't think that way - the world is full of surprises; don't give up! a thousand Thanks for you, dear.

Bunnygirlie · 04/02/2013 22:20

happy that is so exciting! We got married end of 2011 and it was just fab!!!

I am a little worried about janey pooping without warning, is that what happens when you are PG Wink

Gail thought we'd lost you the for a sec, chin up, it will happen for us all!

mother I'm with you, i have no personal experience but I feel it is totally a personal choice!

thunder I think you are right, if we base it on CDs we will have to change it every day, have added my dates...

Bunnygirlie · 04/02/2013 22:21

Aquarius AF due today 4th feb
Gail cd29
Sidney cd21
Boodle cd19
Thundercats cd12
Bunny cd10 (ave cycle 31 days) AF due 26th feb
Happylass cd10 (of 26)
2 cats cd18 (of 35)

janey1234 · 04/02/2013 22:29

Oh bugger it, thought that typo had gone unnoticed! And it was a typo, not a symptom, honest ! Blush

Gail - glad youre alive and not kidnapped. Sorry about temps. But you WILL get there x Thanks

Pipbin · 04/02/2013 22:53

I can't believe how nonplused with TTCing I am right now. I really couldn't give a fig.
Daft isn't it?

Gail It will happen, you have got pg before right? That's better than I've managed. You can do it again.

2cats222 · 04/02/2013 23:20

Pooped back in just made me snort. Please save all unwarned poops for the graduates thread... Over here we have control of our toiletry habits. Grin
gail so so sorry. I am shit at nice comforting words but I echo and believe everything the others said x

happylass · 05/02/2013 00:04

POSITIVE OPK ALERT!! All systems go in the Happy household. Completely forgot to test earlier what with all the talk of weddings!!

Glad to see you back Gail we thought they might have got you again Grin

happylass · 05/02/2013 00:04

That was meant to be in bold not strike through. Doh!

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