DH and I have been trying for a few months for dc3, we decided if it didn't happen this month were going to take a break for a long while (my life and body is just returning to 'normal' dd1 is 2 and dd2 is 1 and I would love to do a degree with the ou, a dream that would be much more difficult, but not impossible, with 3 under 3).
I don't use opks and don't really know my cycle length, although know that pre dc my cycle was between 30 and 33 days. on cd13 dh went away for 2 days. because of dc we didn't manage to get any sex in before he went (other than on cd6 so highly unlikely to be pregnant from that!) before he went I said, oh its ok, there's no sign of ewcm hopefully I wont ovulate until you get back, and if I do, its ok, its just not meant to be.
On cd 14 I had some 'slime' when I wiped, it disappeared on cd 15 and I thought that was it I was out. But on cd 16 it appeared again, and much more on cd 17 and by cd18 it was back to slime which is still there when I wipe, although not every time (normal for me)
we had sex on days 16 and 17. Its doing my head in! I have no idea if I'm out this month or if there is a possibility I might be pregnant. I cant talk to dh as he doesn't understand, he just says 'stop worrying, there's nothing you can do now, we'll just have to wait and see'
I've decided there is no point testing until the 31st but I'm getting twitchy. I have a test in a box (moving house) and the only thing that has stopped me using it is the fact I'm so desperate for a wee when I wake up I have no inclination to route around searching for a test and I'm so busy during the day I forget to get it out!
So please, anyone in the know, talk to me about what ewcm should look like on what days and sit on me until the 31st. PLEASE!!
