Congratulations notsoold 
!! Fx that this is a sticky one.
Isabeller, thinking of you, you must be really keen to test, but I bet it feels like a really long day til you can test tomorrow. I hope you're managing to relax a bit.
JBrd, I hope you're feeling better today, the cold/sinuses sounds miserable. You seem to have had a really bad run since your m/c, hopefully once you shift this one, you're health'll start to improve. Have you been to Center Parcs before btw? I think it's great, a really nice getaway, we've been a couple of times with DD, about this time of year, so it was relatively cheap. We'll probably never be able to afford it again, given how expensive it is in the school hols.
Gum, your Valentine's meal sounds lovely (even though I don't eat meat), I hope it did the trick and you managed to stay awake and DTD!
Greenl, thanks for the DM link, though I was astonished to read a positive story about women doing anything from that paper. I can stand it, but my MIL will insist on bringing it into our house, and occasionally I even have to buy it for her if I've gone shopping - yuk.
Calibee, I hope you can get your holiday booked soon, I'm sure it'll be great for you and DP.
Morien, any sign of AF yet?
DH finally decided to talk last night but it was really hard, we both cried. He still doesn't want to have the baby, as far as he's concerned, the best case would be an m/c. He didn't think I'd get pregnant (to be fair, neither did I). He says he wants his life back, and admits he's being selfish, but as far as I can see, it's more than that, and I think it's partly because it's something he has absolutely no control over. He's a bit of a control freak, which I can usually deal with. He feels even worse than when I was pg with DD. I didn't think that was possible, and going through that again was the one thing I absolutely did not want to do, it was awful. He feels I've chosen the baby over him - I don't understand why he can't welcome his own child - he can only see negatives and problems, and no positives at all. I suggested counselling for us, he refused point blank. I asked if he could talk to a friend, but he said nobody understood last time, and couldn't see that they would this time. So he won't talk to anyone, and I don't know how he's going to come to terms with it. Maybe I'm being selfish for continuing with the pregnancy when he's so opposed to it. I think he was relieved that I had I talked to my friend, because he knows that helps me. He says he doesn't want to leave, but the only thing that has stopped him looking for somewhere else, is that his dad (who died many years ago) would have been horrified. I'll ask him out of courtesy if he wants to come to the scan tomorrow, but I can't see it, and it'll probably better for both of us if he doesn't.
On the plus side, he does love me, I was beginning to wonder, and we ended up DTD last night, which I think was important for us.
Thank you all for your patience if you've got this far.
I hope everyone enjoys Valentine's day, and has lovely treats from their DPs - we never do it anyway as DH always says it's commercial nonsense and he doesn't need a special day to tell me he loves me.
love to all xxx