PLEASE HELP!

[christmaslover]

Hiya, Well, the first day of my period was about the 6th of October and i have a shorter cycle than normal, I then had sex with my partner on the 11th, we slept together 5 times in one night (sorry for the tmi), we then broke up and on a stupid drunken night i slept with someone else on the 20th but it was only for a minute or so and he did not finish inside of me. I've now found out i'm pregnant, on the 17th of november i had a scan saying i was between 5 and 5 and a half weeks which i figured out to be my partners and then i had another scan on the 1st of december stating i was 8 weeks and 2 days, now i'm really confused i was sure it was my partners and now i'm uncertain, can someone help me please! :(

Early scans are unreliable as are late scans for dating, the most reliable will be your scan at around 12 weeks.

Sorry but probably the only way to be sure is to get a DNA test...if an uncovered penis was inside you it its possible they the baby isn't your partners. I know you are clinging on to the five times vs no ejaculation but that doesn't mean to much in the lottery of things..men can have sperm on their pre fluid. Its just depends. Does your partner know you slipped? Does he know about the baby? You need to think long and hard before letting him go down this route in the dark...these things have a habit of coming out. Better now when you can day honestly you thought it was over than in years time when a simple blood test makes your whole life together a lie. I would see a doctor about what you need to know, and please get tested for std. Hope out all works out!