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Jollyb · 06/11/2012 18:04
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BraveLilBear ·
15/11/2012 10:12
Jolly really sorry to hear that 
Could still be early? FWIW, I'm pretty much convinced I'm out, too, this month. I'm in la-la denial land now but I know I'll be miserable when AF flies in and starts cackling at me.
Difference is, I'm too stubborn to spend on an early test, so am just delaying the bad news. Really feel for you. If it's still a BFN tho at the weekend, we could be cycle buddies in the pre-Christmas BFP hunt? Crap consolation prize, though, I know 
polka tough call - totally understand the need for some time away, but get the worrying as well. Can you get advice off a mw at the epu or somehting? Like the ladies said above is definitely worth a call to insurance company, too.
wilderumpus ·
15/11/2012 10:50
yikes am glad you are in the system and being looked after :) I took the baby aspirin just after i thought I had ov'ed and until I was about 6 weeks (ran out on hols) and am sure it helped the baby stick! I think generally on this thread we quite like our aspirin.
jolly am sorry to hear you don't think you have made it this month. 10dpo is still early though. It really is. But BFNs suck :(. If it helps any I had a blinding BFN at 10 dpo (tested morning and evening 
) and then a strong positive mid morning at 11 dpo. So you never know until you get AF 
arf polka who knows what you should do! You sound lilke you are excited about it and happiness has only got to help the pg?! But at 7 weeks you might feel like utter shite and only want to be at home! If you cancel will you lose the money and everything? could you go in Jan or owt instead when in the second tri and a bit bouncier?!
off to mc appt soon. Am already in a tizz, haven't felt bubs yet today (completely normal of course am only 14 weeks!) so am paranoid and really, really want to listen in but bet they won't and what if they don't hear anything?! And I don't want to talk about my mc's any more, I want them to be the past. They make me feel so sad and fretful.
Ho hum, just need to grow up and get on with it eh?
can't remember if I posted after pebs but YAY for listening in and good luck for today with the scan x
BraveLilBear ·
15/11/2012 12:20
Ooh good luck for your appt wilde everything crossed for you - and you pebs!
And thanks Yikes I promise to be more positive. Can't remember if it's this thread or not, but right now, I, like Jolly, have a Schrodinger's baby 
Great news on the support Yikes that must feel great! Your nurse sounds amazing 
let's hope all this positivity rubs off with more good scan news and BFPs too!
wilderumpus ·
15/11/2012 13:22
hey all, finally back from appt. Was good, was about the mcs but the consultant said it was just procedure nothing personal and as this pg was going so well is nothing to worry about. I burst into tears and could hardly stop crying and so she got a mobile scanner and did a wee scan and reassured me that all was well, that each pregnancy was different and this baby is strong. She also said that if something was going to happen, it will and that is life, not just pregnancy, or this pregnancy, or me, but we really could get run over tonight so not to fret, and be positive for me, and for the baby.
She booked us in for a growth scan at 34 weeks tho said really that was for our benefit more than theirs as it looked like I could do with the support .
anyway. still feel like crying so think am just really hormonal today!
hope all well with you pebs
oo00PIXIE00oo ·
15/11/2012 18:17
Evening ladies ...... AF was due 13th I didn't have any stocks at home so lunchtime today ran to Boots ...... Back in the works loo (which is a cubicle near the office) I am trying to silently open the box so I can poas and ........AF beat me to it bitch crept up on me with none of the usual signs :( so had a little cry and a big hug from DH when we got home - fx for those still on the 2ww xx
DH cooking so I'm in a hot bath with a strong drink 
Will see the bitch off for another month and try again
Big hugs to you all x
Dorita75 ·
15/11/2012 18:25
Congrats pebs! And also to Wilde you've both had good news today
Sorry jolly but as you say, not over yet. I also caved in today but just used a Home Bargains cheapy test in my lunch hour. BFN. I caved because I had a slight bleed yesterday mid morning that I thought was start of AF but I've had nothing since so had kind of convinced myself it was an implantation bleed (which although only 30% of women get, I managed to have a mc that only 25% have so why not?). It was a pinky red bleed that came away when I was giving myself a little 'sweep with toilet roll in my finger' - TMI but if I can't say it here where can ?! Anyway, I'm still waiting for AF and even though I have absolutely no pg symptoms, my usual AF symptoms aren't really happening either. I'm due tomorrow if 'normal' cycle is back but could be up to 4 days later going by last few months cycles.
MrsHP and Bear we may be the 4 musketeers next month 
Jollyb ·
15/11/2012 18:27
pixie . Good to hear your DH is being supportive though. Roll on December x
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Jollyb ·
15/11/2012 18:31
Meant to say congrats pebs too. A boy. Must seem very real now. So happy for you.
dorita how frustrating. You just want to know one way or other. 
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LadyFlumpalot ·
15/11/2012 18:43
Hullo, I miscarried literally on Monday, I was at 10 weeks.
May I join your thread?
When is it ok to start trying again? Do I need to wait for a natural period then try after that, or can I just ahem dive right in once this bleeding stops?
cogitosum ·
15/11/2012 19:56
lady sorry to hear this
I started trying as soon as the bleeding stopped. They tell you to wait for one period but that's just so they can date it.
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