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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after recent mc - Thread 2

993 replies

woody17 · 08/10/2012 08:28

Hi everyone - I've started the new thread as our original one is nearly full.

I really hope that this is the one where we all get our BFPs and don't have to experience any more heartache.

OP posts:
MunchinMango · 23/10/2012 16:58

Congrats Quinn. At last some Bfps to cheer us all on.

Peanut good shopping on the opks!!! Your right I would have bought loads as well.

YorkshirePeanut · 23/10/2012 17:02

munchin I needed cheering up, friend had her baby today, and I'm feeling a bit bad for feeling a bit bad about it! Love her dearly and am so pleased for them, but........meh Envy

MunchinMango · 23/10/2012 17:25

Peanut don't feel bad I would prob feel same as you too. It's great for your friend but its bittersweet for you. I had my sil to stay at weekend with her 11mth old baby and her 6 mth baby bump!!! I should have been due our baby this month but alas not to be. Chin up and fx for a bfp soon for all of us.

kittykatskumkwat · 23/10/2012 17:51

Yorkshire they've been that price for the last month, I mentioned it earlier in the thread, no mistake as it said save £12.96 on the price guide

kittykatskumkwat · 23/10/2012 17:51

Oh so I ended up with 3 packs I now don't need Blush

kittykatskumkwat · 23/10/2012 17:59

Congrats to Quinn, sorry missed your bfp, so pleased for you x

AlmondFrangipani · 23/10/2012 18:06

Congrats Quin!! Loving all the BFP's!!

Woody working for yourself sounds amazing! I have decided to try and go for the job and called them yesterday to say that. I am due to meet the Chairman on 2nd Nov. They said they wanted to recruit someone by the end of the year ready for a start in Jan so I guess I will know in a month. The problem is patience is not my strong point and I am waiting on the job thing, waiting for the house buy to go through and now waiting to TTC! Feel a bit sad about not TTC for a few months but it is best if I get this job...

YorkshirePeanut · 23/10/2012 18:06

hahaha kitty really? Bummer, thought I'd bagged myself a bargain, there was no savings sign just the price! Never mind, at least I won't run out in the near future... How are you doing? xxx

kittykatskumkwat · 23/10/2012 20:11

Oh no peanut it still is a major bargin, not sure how long it will go on for but can't see it much longer,you would still make money on them if you sold them on eBay which is what I'll do if I get through this pregnancy, seems like tempting fate at the minute! I'm good really, the 12ww is obviously going on forever but I've not had any danger signs yet touches wood I'm having a private scan on sat when I should be 9wks just for reasurance x

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 23/10/2012 21:15

Congrats on the bfp's kittykats if you fancy selling il buy the sticks. Dont seem to sell them in my local store.

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 23/10/2012 21:16

Sorry all for mixed up message! Silly phone!

kittykatskumkwat · 24/10/2012 07:19

Ha ha ok baby if you pm me your address I will sell you some, I've got 3 boxes of 7 and you can have them for what I paid which is £3.38 per box I think, just let me know if you do and how many

posyplum · 24/10/2012 11:19

Woody congratulations!!! I am so pleased for you - woo! Big big fx for a sticky bean. xxx

posyplum · 24/10/2012 11:20

Congrats too Quin - wow, I have missed a lot! What a lucky thread. x

suzydelarosa · 24/10/2012 14:20

babyjames - how are you getting on this cycle? I think we were OV at the same time so just checking that you DTD on the weekend and are going to be poas-ing with me next week.

Sorry - am I getting too personal?!! Nothing like a stranger writing you to remind you to have sex!!

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 24/10/2012 18:02

Fx for sticky beans :) kitty yey thanks so much. I went to morrisons today and mine def don't sell them! I will try pm you when get home if I can work it out. Il take the lot please.

suzy. Think my body is struggling to ovulate this month, a other wtf cycle! I've wasted tons of sticks a s no smiley yet ! We will all hold your hand though. I so hope I get my sticky bean soon.

BettyFlutterbly · 24/10/2012 19:59

Hi ladies.
I'm back home after a week away for my Grandad's funeral.
Great to come back to two bfps. Congrats!
I'm on cd19 and ov yesterday. As I was away from dh for a week we've been more than happy to dtd regardless of ov!! I'm not going to buy any tests this month unless af is very late 'cos I was just too obsessed about it all last month and then so down when I got my bfns and then af.
I hope we see loads more bfps on here this month and next.

kittykatskumkwat · 25/10/2012 07:12

No probs baby, I havnt checked yet but will sort it out this weekend, I was in morrisons yesterday and they've stoped selling them in mine now and there is a different brand there, I wonder if they are getting rid to switch brands so it will go on till they've all gone, anyhow they've gone from mine now

Lolcbcblemonlime · 25/10/2012 07:57

Morning girls. Af showed this morning. A bit gutted but happy cycle back to normal 31 days.

messtins · 25/10/2012 08:51

Welcome back Betty I think I ov'd yesterday so we can be cycle buddies this time round.
LolC sorry to hear the witch got you [hsad] (been waiting for an excuse to use a halloween smiley!) but good that you are back to normal cycles. Good luck for the next one.
scared how are you? Haven't seen you post the last few days.

suzydelarosa · 25/10/2012 12:32

morning all, Visited fertility expert at the recurrent miscarriage clinic in Oxford this morning and thought I'd pass on some of the wisdom that I was relayed. First as I already had a child with my partner it's likely that the m/c was due to my age and associated problems with my old egg! And bad luck, he said. At my age (42) 30-40% of pregnancies will end up in m/c. So that's good news to those out there with kids... luck o the draw!

I asked about progesterone supplements and he said it's a myth that they make a difference to an early pregnancy; if the progesterone levels are going down the pregnancy is failing and there's not much that can be done about it.

I worried about my age but if I have regular periods I am still fertile and should be able to carry a baby, it's just the wonky eggs that might let me down in the end. IVF would make little difference as the issue isn't conceiving but the quality of the egg.

BMI is important and getting your BMI down to a reasonable level. Hey ho.

Finally he mentioned that genetic testing is sometimes useful for people who can't conceive and/or haven't had a successful pregnancy. He gave me some scary quote that '2% of people walking around Oxford have (what I think he called) mutated/translocated genes' which hasn't affected them but affects their fertility/ability to conceive and offspring. By that time I was dozing out a bit so didn't get the details. Science is not my forte.

have arranged for blood tests to test blood clotting issues, genetic tests to ensure no translocated issues and the like.

Hope this was helpful - good luck this month everyone. I'll be POAS-ing next week.

MunchinMango · 25/10/2012 16:38

Thanks Suzy for sharing that. As I'm fast approaching 41 I'd say I'm in the dodgy egg category too. I suppose what will be will be. Only regret ill maybe have is that we didn't decide to ttc a couple of years earlier.

Welcome back Betty.

Sorry lol that AF got you.

Good luck to anyone poas soon. Fx for more Bfps.

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 25/10/2012 18:48

Hi all,
Welcome back Betty , good to hear that there has been lots of DTD going on. Sorry the quality time with DH wasn't under happier circumstances.
Lol sorry AF got you. [hsad]
Thanks so much for sharing Suzy. Really interesting and useful information,
Messtins Yay to ovulation.

I got my [hgrin] on opk this afternoon so am happy! Was getting a bit worried it wasn't going to happen! Nearly out of sticks! Got a night in a hotel with DH Saturday so if I'm due to ovulate next few days it's good timing [hwink] plus get an extra hour in bed as DM has DS, bonus!
Kittykats I can't remember how to PM. Can you remind me or PM me as I know how to respond! Sorry! Good luck with your private scan. Hope it puts your mind at rest a bit.

Lolcbcblemonlime · 25/10/2012 19:49

Thanks all.
Baby- I'm using cb for first time this month. When does ov generally happen after smiley?
I need to time my shags as we don't do it as much as we should so every bit of info helps! I paid 24 quid from amazon for 20 sticks and the test thingy. Is that good value?

babyjamesblackberrycrumble · 25/10/2012 20:02

Hi Lol think thats cheaper than I've paid before. I think ovulation usually happens anytime 12-24 (Maybe 48?) hours later. Think the smiley is the start of the surge. I got pregnant last 2 cycles using them but both ended in MC [hsad]