BFP in 2012 Part 4 - the one where we all get pregnant!

[winkle2]

New thread! Come on girls, lets all get pregnant!!

Hello nic and lol! Thinking of you guys too, keeping fx for you

POAS at lunchtime, tesco own brand. Faint(ish) second line. Mildly panicked / excited but skeptical because i know hpw i feel when.im pg and I dont feel pg npw. Waited a few hours and then took second test in.pack...every little helps lol Fainter second line, not as dark as earlier test but still a line. You dont have to squint to see the line and its def visible even from a foot away. But I've been down the mc and cp path before and on cd30 i'd really be expecting a more def bfp, even without fmu. Anyway feel like im in limbo - maybe i ov later than i thought and im only 11 dpo or something? Or maybe its CP or I implanted but it didnt stick? Lines are too faint for me to pop champagne but 2 lines on 2 diff tests are hard to ignore at the same time. So can I tonight for my friend's birthday or not??

Aw thanks for thinking of us nic hope you are keeping well.

lol I hope your loins are right

Really really want that bfp!

winkle I'll check that thread out - thanks! How's the dtd going? AF is disappearing at my end. DH and I are gearing up for a shagathon this month! Totally going to use him want as many of those soldiers as possible!

Omg littlemiss keep us posted! It could be because it wasnt fmu. Sounds promising...

Red - we dtd for the first time this month today on cd13 so still on track for that Xmas BFP.

OMG OMG little Miss. A line is a line!! I understand caution but poas tomorrow fmu and let us know. It would be an amazing start to our festive bfp season!!

Ooh...littlemiss, how exciting!! :-)

If it helps, I did a test on CD31 the cycle I got pregnant, in the evening. The line was so faint I shat myself!

I think you're pregnant!! :-)

Oh, and winkle, I'd totally forgotten about that. You should too. :-)

Well i stayed off the drink tonight anyway ... u think im going to wait a couple of days jst in case it is a CP - if i test tomorrow there might still.be a wavery line but i dont to watch it get fainter over a couple of days and hav af appear on me on monday or tues. So if af is still absent i'll do a digi on tues - really really trying not to.get my.hopes up but its tough!! thank u for keeping.me company while i wait!!

winkle - sounds like ur bang on.schedule, i only started dtd on cd13 this cycle too, unlucky for some but hopefully lucky for us xx

Got my fingers crossed for you (and all of us!)

Oh my god littlemiss totally missed your post yesterday! Fx that line gets darker and darker and darker

I am wrapping presents, got some festive music on, tree an lights are up! It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas

Hi all winkle well done on dh popping while MIL popped out (grin)

littlemiss really got my fingers crossed for you. I know what you mean about not being confident about a faint line. Hopefully it's just late implantation and will get nice and strong soon. Will be thinking of you.

Gargh. Third month trying, cycle day 29. Trying to figure out whether to POAS tomorrow morning. Was smacked in the face with nausea all throughout the day but as I've utterly convinced myself that I have felt pregnancy symptoms each time before AF arrived, I just don't know if I'm going crazy or not.

I swear that if it doesn't happen this month, I'm dtd every other night until it works!

Thanks red, winkle, when, kitten, lol and mrsbri! You guys really help.me stay sane(ish) during all of this!! GROUP HUG

Cracked (did i mention...no willpower??) and picked up.a clearblue test in.tesco. Thought i'd hold off til tomorrow but who was I kidding. Poas = darker blue little cross sign, still not the darkest bfp i've ever seen but darker than y'day which i am taking as a good sign, hopefully late implantation. I'm trying to hold off on.being massively excited til i've had a scan and seen all is ok in there but im grinning my face off

Ladies...hope this is the start of a wave of xmasy bfps for us all!!!

littlemiss !!!! Wow, just wow :) So so chuffed for you.

Yay one more bfp for us!!! I would not worry too much about faintness of line. I heard some people don't even get a bfp until 5 weeks pg!
I understand your caution though. For worry we will be excited for you!
Have you got a cb digi for tomorrow?? Or a frer? Or both?

A dark cross on one of those with non FMU is really good! They're seriously not sensitive.

Yay for your BFP!!

That's so exciting - congratulations!

littlemiss I am officially excited for you now. Congratulations. (Thanks for the hug- I love a hug even on mumsnet)

It sounds very positive littlemiss the line getting darker is a good sign. Grinning for you xxxx

Thanks!! weechops!! Sorry i.left u out of group hug lol i knew someone was missing!! I got a pack of two clearblues but i've tested on sat and sun now so i'm going to try and resist testing again til Tues, if everything is going ok and i test with fmu i should hav a good strong bfp by then fx fx fx

now get shagging everyone, i so want us to have a graduate thread in Jan 2013!

I love your resolve little miss. I also don't like to test too early cause if I had a CP I'd rather not know about it.
I still have one cb digi here and the plan is to do it this week in the hope of getting a 3+. I'm so scared though and might chicken out!
How many dpo will you be tue?

Oh oh oh, I disappear for two tiny days and littlemiss goes and gets upduffed while I'm not looking!! Yay littlemiss so so pleased for you!!

Warning: miserable me,me,me post coming up...

So we had a really lovely day yesterday - went to a Christmas fair, then came back and had friends over for dinner and tree decorating.

Until...DH's phone rings and it's DBIL...and I hear his voice say "guess what, we're going going to have a baby!". I think I did a faintly comical freeze with bauble in mid air whilst my face just fell

I couldn't believe how hard it hit me actually, I literally spent the rest of the evening fighting back tears whilst we had dinner with our friends. DH came and gave me a big hug after they'd gone and said that it made him feel a bit funny too so obviously then I started crying and basically haven't stopped ridiculous right?!

I hate all these selfish uncharitable feelings but it's just so bloody unfair, they're younger than us, have only been married a few months, and it just wasn't their turn yet, it's OUR turn

I know I'm being stupid, they've not taken our chance from us, they're having their baby not ours yada yada...doesn't help though, not even a little bit. I haven't even sent DSIL a message congratulating her yet because I can't bring myself to do it while I feel like I wouldn't fully mean it

And I've just remembered we're seeing MIL next weekend so I'm going to have to pretend to be all happy and excited as this will be her PFB gc so no doubt she's ecstatic.

Aaaargh.
FFS.
Sigh.
Is it too early for ?

Oh kitten don't feel guilty for feeling like this. We've all been there! Give yourself time to get used to it and then you will be happy fir them.
I'm sure you can justify vino if you need some

Aww kitten I know how it feels all too well... having had to take the news on after SIL announced hers. And yes I had to go through the fake happiness in front of MIL and SIL.

I tried to understand why I felt this way. I don't think we wish anything bad upon them or feel jealous of them. We just wish it was us. Thats why my happiness was fake. Not because I wasn't happy for them, but because I was unhappy for me. And it made me feel less guilty when I thought about it that way.

There's nothing I can say that will make you feel better right now, just best to absorb the news and let your feelings out. You are ALLOWED to feel that way.

kitten sorry about your a BILs news. It is really upsetting when someone gets pregnant really quickly with no issues and you just want it to be you instead as well.

Have some and pretend to be ill at the weekend so you can avoid your MIL.