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BFP in 2012 Part 4 - the one where we all get pregnant!

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winkle2 · 01/10/2012 19:45

New thread! Come on girls, lets all get pregnant!!

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kittykatskumkwat · 11/10/2012 09:21

Oh winkle Sad don't give up hope for this cycle yet, honistly I was convinced I wasn't pregnant this month as had nothing indicating I was, infact the only thing I would say was I had the same feeling as you of dispair and being emotional so really you don't know yet and I understand how hard it is waiting, it took me nearly 2 yrs for dd using opk etc! Don't know why it can take so long, my little sis had her baby before me and I'd actually put off trying for a few months to be a bridesmaid at her wedding! She was updiffed the next month, her ds was 1 when I finally got pregnant!
Nic- congratulation. What a fantastic wedding gift for you, I bet you will have a lovely secret smile all day Smile don't worry about the drink, I was drunk perminantly till I was 7 wks pregnant first time Blush

Kittenkatzen · 11/10/2012 09:45

oh winkle i feel so :( for you, have a big squishy hug from me. I don't know why it's taking so long for you, but it will happen - give your new niece a big kiss safe in the knowledge that one day you'll have your own to keep, and then everyone will be jealous of you!

nic Shock:o:oShock wow! omg congrats that's amazing!

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 11/10/2012 10:00

Oh winkle I'm so sorry it's all so shit for you at the moment Sad. Sometimes it can take a hideous amount of time while. I really hope you get some good news soon.

nic really pleased for you. Congrats.

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 10:05

I'm really sorry Nic for doing this during your BFP announcement, sorry it should be a happy time with everyone congratulating you, not feeling sorry for me.

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 10:09

Don't worry about it...I feel selfish for announcing my BFP when you're so down :-(

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 10:27

I'd be down whether you announced it or not so don't feel like that :)

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 10:38

Giving you a very unMN hug. xx

redstrawberry · 11/10/2012 10:59

Really pleased for you nic and a big hug to you winkle my heart goes out for you.

I had a bad wisdom tooth ache yesterday, didn't take any painkillers. Toothache gone with corsodyl and salt water rinses. But today I have low BP. Feeling so faint and dizzy. I was supposed to OV yesterday, still haven't. Sure I am out for this month. Things have gotten very stressful and its like my body just doesn't want me to get pregnant :( Why is this so hard?

Winkle be good and kind to yourself today.

nic you've got a pre-wedding BFP :) you are going to be a beautiful bride. X

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 11/10/2012 11:11

Nic will be a very beautiful and sober bride. Good luck keeping it a secret.

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 11:19

thanks girls for all the love and hugs.

dont care if its unmumsnetty i need them today!

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winkle2 · 11/10/2012 11:25

I've stopped crying you'll all be pleased to hear!

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LittleMissSnowShine · 11/10/2012 11:33

Nic - yeeeaaayyyy!!! BFP Bride, its like a chick.lit novel title Grin such lovel and inspirational news, i remember.being 7 months pg at my first wrdding anniversary and being soooooo excited...and you'll hav yr LO before you even get to your first anniversary. Congrats to you and DH to be, so fab!!

Winkle - hug from me too. Sorry mate, its just completely shit and all i can say is i know how u feel. Really got fx that this is your cycle and all i can suggest is treats for winkle this week...no gin, its true, since its getting close to poas time but tea, choc biscuits and a nice glossy mag. It doesnt really help ecactly but might take your.mind off things for an hour. Im on sofa under.blanket watching Thomas and Friends with ds and trying not to obsess about cm. Gross but funny

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 11:46

LOL @ obsessing about CM whilst watching Thomas the Tank Engine!
one of the girls on the other boards I sometimes go on was trying for 15 months then she got her BFP. sadly she miscarried but this month we tried soy together this month and she got pregnant! And her husband had 1% morphology too. so fingers crossed.
I had a glass of wine and a cigarette last night ? argh the stress of TTC is making me want booze and fags! which are the things that you shouldn't be having whilst TTC! oh the irony hey!
I'm sure I have mentioned on here about my husbands drinking? I think its finally hit him that he cant continue boozing like he was. last night my friend and I had a glass of wine to we the new baby's head and I offered him one and he said 'no because I had a drink on Monday'. :)
Again girls, so sorry for bringing the thread down ? I should think before I post.
nic ? how many DPO are you and any tips for the rest of us?! Is this the month where you and H2B went for it every day? I remember a recent post where you said you had really upped your game but not sure whether it was this month or last month.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHopeful · 11/10/2012 12:26

I know you have stopped crying winkle but have a hug from me too. Also if you can't vent a bit on these boards there's not much point us bring here. Hope you get that BFP soon.
I guess it is sort of good news about your husbands reduced drinking, hope it makes a difference.

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 13:10

thanks when

I have called the doctors to meet with them next month and get referred to the fertility specialist. might as well get the ball rolling as these things can take time and I'm 34 in a few months.

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 13:22

I'm either 10 or 11 DPO, depending on if the egg dropped on the day of the smilie or the day after. We have decided it dropped on Sunday night so we can say the baby was actually conceived during the Muse gig that night!!

We DTD on CDs 1, 4, 6, 7, 8, 10, 12, 13, 14 and 16.

We only DTD at night during my fertile period and used Conceive Plus as lubricant. First month for that too.

Almost thinking I'm dreaming now. Keep looking at the photo.

Far more aware of the pulling in my right side today!

I think it is just the amount of shagging that worked. We didn't DTD the day of the smilie either. Just the day before and after.

kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 13:32

And thank you, everybody. Struggling to believe it!

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 13:57

What cd did you OV do you think? X

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winkle2 · 11/10/2012 13:57

And hang on a minute DURING the gig?! Tell me more!!

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 14:01

Ha ha...we didn't have sex during the gig. We had sex on CD 14, the day before the gig. The smilie was on the day of the gig and we had no time to DTD.

I was in a LOT of pain during the gig, so the egg may have dropped then, and of course there was sperm waiting for it to appear.

We met through Muse, only fair the baby should have been conceived during the gig! :-)

Smilie CD15, so OV either 15 or 16. No surge on 16 though.

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 14:05

All your hard work paid off hey!!

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 14:10

Thank god...far too much to do for too long!

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 14:13

welcome to my world honey

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kNickerbockerGloryCherry · 11/10/2012 14:18

:-( More big hugs to you. xx

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 14:54

thanks lovely :)

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