Sex drive issues

[2helpme]

Hi
I'm not sure if I should post here or in the Health thread...

DH and I are ttc but due to a stressful working environment and long antisocial hours DH doesn't ejaculate (I hate this word) every time.
He did go to the gp who prescribed him AD but they brought him down instead of lifting his spirits so he stopped taking them.
He is now upset as our sex life and ttc is not working and I'm upset because I don't want to put pressure on him despite really wanting success...

So can anybody recommend any herbal solution or diet that could help?

Thanks

Hi 2helpme,

Men are strange creatures, understand that first.
He is feeling like crap, because he can't give you what you want, and he knows it is his doing.
Having said that, it is not uncommon at all.
So going to the gp, and the gp giving him some thing to help, has actually had a negative effect.
My first thoughts would be about the ultimate root of the problem.
His job.
Can he do any thing about unloading some of the work to others?
Must remember, stress doesn't just manifest itself in a sexual field, but unfortunately, it is very sadly a silent killer.
Hope you can get him to get to the root of the problem, even if it means changing jobs, taking a pay cut, any thing, just try get him away from the stress, and I am sure your sex life will pick up again.

Fay