Emmsy's ladies - 4 years of weebling - still going strong!

[4everhopeful]

Here's to us ladies! Proud to be part of this - onwards and upwards..

Clothes and food and drink. I can lose 2 pounds with a really good per!!

Have a poo!

A really good what????

PEE! Technology is defeating me today. Get.

A poo, ok will try that now.

Wow a live poo thread.

Grr even. I need to give up.

And a pee

I'm down 7.2 kg in total. I want to be 8.5 stone. Any if you doing mfp?

Also waves to neeks.. Did you get the email from buddha

Lol!

Rumors do your worst I'm prepared

Pee done, not the other, and a lb was lost!!!

Not doing MFP just WW and barbie one of my legs probably weight 8.5 stone, you slinky malinky. My goal weight is 11.6 st and I hope to get there by summer

No, but got message from Mls. Thanks.

pegs not needed yet

Rumours glad to be off use! I'm with you on the weight of my legs.

Sorry Neeko didn't have anyone email address to asked other to pass on.

A lb of piss! I'm impressed!

I've been reading loads of weight threads on here and I'm amazed how many body shapes there are. For example at 5'3 and 9 stone I have heard people say they look over weight to others saying they are too slim. I guess it's down to more than the numbers on the scales. I know I can lose another half a stone without losing my curves. Lets do a regular weigh in!

No problem. Hope D has a very happy birthday on Thursday.

Rumours na na na na na.My bladder is bigger than yours!

4ever come back and play!

Rumours do we need this yet? www.wilkinsonplus.com/content/ebiz/wilkinsonplus/invt/0293478/0293478_l.jpg

Me and my sister are the same height but complete different body shapes and need to be different weights to look right, by that I mean I can carry more weight than her and it not be noticed. She got me a while ago to put my thumb and middle finger around my wrist, my fingers just touched where as hers over lapped and I can't remember what she then said but it was something to do with our build and weight.

Right off to weigh in, will squeeze another pee first

neeko that's cos you're a camel.

My big heavy baby boys knackered my bladder!

Good luck Rumours

Come back.
If it helps I don't think 6 lost babies is the same as one, but I do believe that both are unspeakably difficult and should never have to happen.

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No debate required, genuinely interested.

neeko interesting what you say re 6 losses verses one.

I really do think that 6 is of course harder to deal with but only because its 6x over if that makes sense. So you get through it and then it happens again... And again. However does one get numb to the grief? Does grief reach a limit? I genuinely don't know.

For example I could of been sectioned at one point, so angry with grief. I could of happened again and again and yet I couldn't feel any worse than i already did. My sil just had a mc, shrugged it off and relocated to the carribean. So she might have 6 or 8 and still not feel like I did.
Am I making sense.

Another example (god forbid this happens to any of us)

Say a house fire killed one of your children, the grief would be immense. Now what would happen if it killed your whole family? Do you grieve three or four times over?

I'm thinking out loud... I sometimes think stuff like this at night when I can't sleep

1.5 lbs off

I do think multiple losses is harder than one, though for me personally when I lost my first one I was beside myself with grief for weeks, and only felt better once I threw myself into ttc again. My second loss was easier to deal with, I was back to myself with in a week or so, I was upset but not as much as the first time. When I started to bleed with ds2 I was gutted but thought well at least they'll start testing me now. That may sound heartless but that was my logical self kicking in.
I don't know how I would've felt though if I hadn't been able to have ds2, devastated I imagine.
All losses are hard, and I'm sure we all handle them differently, I became more 'robotic' as time went on, and feel so blessed and lucky to have had my bubs.