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lj123 · 09/08/2012 08:28

Mc november 2011bleeding day after period
Mc february 2012 bleeding for 5weeks

I took a test this morning as due on tomorrow, sore breasts yesterday and this am.
Looked down it was positive.
Wipe and blood again! Only a little but cramping and back pain has begun.
Can't understand why this happens to me!
Fed up and lost!

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KnackeredCow · 09/08/2012 08:42

I am so sorry this is happening to you.

I think now is probably the right time to see the GP. I could be wrong but I think three miscarriages is the point at which you can be investigated on the NHS. A sympathetic GP should be willing to refer you for further investigation.

I'm sure somebody will be along soon who can give better advice, but I couldn't read your post and run.

lj123 · 09/08/2012 08:49

Thanks, yes it is 3 times the only issue being the first one isn't on record only the last one as it was suspected twin pregnancy and I needed extra scans and tests due to hormone levels not budging and going up and down for ages.
It's driving me loopy!
Can't understand why this is happening to me again, I've never down anything bad to deserve this I can imagine there's plenty of people out there who don't deserve nor ask for it to happen to them and it's all I want, that's why I'm here. I'm not good at anything else in life I'm here to be a mum and it won't let me.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 09/08/2012 09:06

I am so sorry you are going through this. 3 mc is the cut off for investigation, go to your GP and insist on being referred, make sure you have all your dates on when it happened.

It is nothing you have done, I know you must be wracked with guilt but it really isn't anything you have done. I have had 2 chem pregs and my GP has confirmed that if / when I have another she will refer me.

lj123 · 09/08/2012 09:16

I'll give them a ring a bit later, I'm so upset every time it happens,
I have all my dates etc don't think I'll ever forget, leaves an imprint deep in my heart.
Part of me is angry it's happened again, I just don't understand.

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Tangointhenight · 09/08/2012 09:25

Don't give up hope just yet, I had cramping and bleeding at the beginning of my pregnancy and went on to have a DD.

Have everything crossed for you!!

farfallarocks · 09/08/2012 11:01

I agree, don;t lose hope, I had 2 chemical pregnancies, then got pregnant again in Feb and started spotting and bleeding in exactly the same way and it turns out that time really was just implantation, 28 weeks now!
Can you ask to have your HCG levels monitored every 48 hours to see what is going on ?

lj123 · 09/08/2012 15:59

I'm scared to phone the doctors and be told something I know but don't want to hear.
It feels far too much like a period to be anything else.
I don't think I can call the doctors today. X

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resipsa · 09/08/2012 16:05

No wise words just wanted to say that I hope everything turms out well for you in the end. M/cs are so difficult and before you have one, you truly don't appreciate the impact that they have.

Tangointhenight · 09/08/2012 16:08

(((((((hugs)))))))))

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