Ds is 27mo, dd is 7mo.
Post dd I was right off sex! DH and I didn't do it much at all.
As such, irresponibly I know, we never got round to sorting out contraception.
(I'm allergic to condoms and anything with hormones in make me ill so the copper coil would be the obvious solution but when i asked for a nurses app i was given a leaflet and told to go and think about it first 
... forgot/ life is busy etc etc...)
So, sex life resumed around the 5 month mark. I have had no period since dd was born.
About 3 weeks ago I started getting period cramps and assumed it was impending period but nothing...
This has been going on since then and today it is pretty unbareable. I keep expecting to find blood (sorry tmi) when i go to the loo and am starting to worry that it could be pain for other reasons???
I know it takes 2 to tango but seriously think dh would leave me if i was pregnant again.
Please dont flame mr for being irresponsible. 