Hoping for a July BFP?

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Come join me :)

I cracked and did a first response last night. bfn

At least I'm getting my head round it probably not happening this month - I was getting worried at how excited I was getting.

Still have internet cheapies on order and still have stupid urge to test everyday but think af will probably come at the weekend although there's still a little voice in my head saying it could be wrong and I've been googling first response reviews to find reports of false negatives

Going to try and calm down for next cycle - it's difficult though. I do have a wedding in a couple of weeks so at least I can enjoy a drink or ten two there!

cd33 today

btw just read that back - to clarify, it's not my wedding, it's a friend of mine getting married.

oooh I am stitch that sounds hopeful... when were you originally planning to test? fingers crossed for you

I'm totally giving up the ss this month, I swear if I didn't know I wasn't pg I'd think I was, headaches, nauseous, few spots ( never have) and absolutely knackered all the time!! God knows where it's come from unless it's because this is first proper af in over a year?!?
I wish my cycle would hurry along, I've a feeling it's going to be a long one, cd7 and still spotting! I want to get on with getting jiggy however the jury's still out on how I'm playing it this month, I'm waiting on your results lol

RIBS & Ted - do not worry too much about the age thing, please. I'm 41 so the same age as the gran in the older post! GAWD, is that what people think when I walk aroud with DD (17 months)...?

Sorry to hear that Sunshine, although not over yet. fingers crossed no af at weekend.

Sorry to hear that sunshine hope she doesn't show up.
I didn't experience the delayed AF and bfn thing this month as she showed up 3 days early. In a way thankful that I didnt have to go through it again.

Unfortunately they are 98% accurate on the day AF is due. There is still a smallchance though that you may have implanted late and the hcG levels haven't been detected yet.

Hope either way you find out for sure soon.

Sorry about bfn sunshine but.... it is still early days.

iamstitch what changes have you noticed to cervix. I didn't know the cervix did anything interesting in early preg. Fx for you

Ribs, Ted, resipsa none of you are old. I know loads of first time mums who are late 30s early 40s.

Am kicking myself for not having dtd yet this cycle. Just got a positive opk on cd15 (I though yesterday was cd 15 but got mixed up).
Don't really understand why it has happened now, I don't feel like I am ovulating. Cm is still creamy not clear, don't feel particularly interested in sex but cervix is v high today (sorry tmi).

Dh's services will definitely be required later on but I don't think this will be the month for us.

RIBS, ted & repisa I think older but wiser parenting is a good thing :)
Besides I know a 42 year old who is a chilled out and fantastic parent.

Changes to cervix vary for women, some say it moves lower and get softer, others have said they felt theirs hard like nose and higher up when they are pregnant. Not sure which to believe?

sunshine .. FRER are the devils work. Wait until the day before your period. I think that will be more reliable. I would say wait until the day but we are only human!!

iamstitch .. It's sounding promising. Fx fx fx!!

resipsa .. It is just when you graduate into that 'special' age group category on fertility papers that you feel a bit .. Waaargghhhh .. About it all! I don't actually give two tosses about my age, but I have now accepted that this TTc journey is likely to take a wee bit longer this time.

Boobs no longer hurt, no sickness today and feeling quite perky! No more symptom spotting for me! It seems meaningless with my confusing body!

ah are you late sunshine or is AF due sat? If its due Sat then you prob tested too early. After 13dpo you tend to get a better result :)

fx for you x

Yeah, I'm due Sat! Just impatient v pleased with your responses - let the hope begin again!

sunshine sorry about BFN but there's still time - hope it was too early.

Thanks. I'm annoyed because I feel wiped out and shitty, and if it's because I'm pg then that's great. But if I'm not then I just feel wiped out and shitty.

Apologies for being the negative one today

Another vote for hanging in until Fri/Sat to test again. When I was preganant the first time, I tested at 6 weeks (was going thru a work move so had temporarily forgotten about TTC!) and the CB digital said 1-2 weeks so if I'd tested before the start of week 5, I might well have got a BFN.

There is definitely hope!

Don't worry sunshine we all have off days. Hope you feel better soon (actually I don't I hope you feel a bit worse tomorrow and get a BFP ).

I love that sunshines negativity MSG still has a smiley face at the end
( like a little opk giving you hope for the month he he)
You really are like your name arnt you
So girls what is the rough ages here, I thought mn would be the youngsters but surprised ( pleasently) to not feel like an old hen, is there anyone under 30 around or are they the ones who don't join a thread as they get updiffed first try?

lisamol

Small recompense I know, but at least the next cycle starts earlier... and might be shorter? Less time 'til next chance of bfp.

Have a

Will you get another July chance?

( any chance it's implantation bleeding?)

Sorry Lisa, mine was the same
Are you sure it's af though, not to build up hope but 6 days sounds very early and is usual the time of implantation?

30 here

without warning signs lisa?

Kitty I turned 30 at the beginning of this year - still hanging on to my '18' mug at work you are only as old as you feel

33 here, I forgot the other month claiming 32 and my Sis took great pleasure pointing out that extra year

35 here.

Sorry AD maybe got you Lisa. Here's hoping it is implantation. :-)