Thought would start a thread for all those with a child and dont get thought about sometimes when people announce their pregnancies, purely thinking "even though i know they are trying, well they already have a child so they wont find the news tough!!!" Well actually we do, so please spare a thought whilst bump rubbing and moaning about your symptoms, inability to sleep, unable to eat soft cheese as these are symptoms some of us would love!!!!! raaaaaaaa rant over xx