Hi everyone, I am new to the site and wondered if could share my situation with you all and hopefully you could offer some advice?
I am turning 28 this month. I had leep treatment following abnormal cervical cells about 4 years ago (CIN2-3) , the abnormal cells then came back (CIN 2) and I had further leep treatment early this year. Firstly I feel very upset and angry because I was never fully informed of the affect this surgery could have on pregnancies/child birth- I found out last week whilst looking on forums! I had no idea I would be a 'high risk' pregnancy! Me looking into it was prompted by the doctor saying I shouldn't try to get pregnant until I get my next clear result. So now I am in a situation where I have a big decision to make. I am in a loving relationship and we are planning on getting a house together and getting married but all these things take time and money so my dilemma is do I wait and do those things first and then try to get pregnant or do I try as soon as I (hopefully) get my next clear result? I have only been with my partner for a year and a half but I do believe he is the one. Any advice would be massively appreciated as I am really struggling to make the right decision. I have only recently started to feel a bit broody, Ideally I would wait a year or two for finance/work/stability but entering my 28th year after my situation maybe I should just bite the bullet?? Please help ladies!!! Thank you x