Taking a break from TTC

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My DH and I have been TTC dc2 for about 8 months. We didn't expect it to take quite so long, but we both work long hours and have for various reasons not been in the same place several times over that time so are still fairly relaxed about it. DS is nearly 4 and we do want a brother/sister for him soon though. I have had an opportunity to take part in a demanding sponsored charity hike abroad in a few months time which requires physical training and am thinking of taking a break from ttc for 2-3 months to do this. DH is not very keen but I don't think I'll get another opportunity once dc2 comes along. I also think once I'm committed to doing this (e.g. raising funds etc) I wouldn't want to let people down by not going through with it, so don't think we should keep trying and just cancel if I do conceive.

Has anyone been in a similar position and what did you do? And even if not, do you have any opinions?

On the one hand, you can't put your life on hold while ttc as it can take a long time. But for me, at 37, I feel I don't have time on my side so wouldn't want to miss any opportunities.

Can't see why a hike while pregnant would be a problem as long as you are used to the physical activity unless it's some extreme distance or in some dodgy country. Even if you got pregnant tomorrow you would only be in the early stages anyway. You may find there would be a problem with insurace though should you manage to get pregnant beforehand.

Thanks for replies well it's 110km over 3 days so fairly intense! I'm 28 so we have time. I think we'll try for the next month or two then take a break for 2 months - that way I'll either be quite pregnant or not at all