Just need to let off some steam.....

[Happilymarried155]

That's it really....been a year still no luck, 14dpo bfn again and I just want to cry :( I know I'm not on my own, but I have seven friends who have either got pregnant or had a a baby in that time and is so sad seeing that bfn everytime.
Sorry rant over, no one knows we are ttc so don't really have anyone to talk to. I suppose I should be visiting the doctor soon!
Oh well, fingers crossed for next month, day of feeling sorry for myself today! X

ditto with the wanting to cry about it all. Was counting up the other day and its over 20 months we've been TTC. Lots of people have had babies and gotten pg within that time, several of those without even trying. A year ago this would have upset me beyond measure, now I've just learned to be happy for them and not see it as the world conspiring against me ;)

When feeling sorry for yourself, I'd advise just be nice to yourself, don't take it out on yourself. its not your fault

Happily I just wanted to post to let you know that I understand how you feel too. I agree with don'tcare about taking the time today to be kind to yourself. I also think that having a good old cry helps too.

Console yourself with the thought that in a few days your period will be over and you will be onto the next cycle of trying and this cycle will be a dim and distant memory.

Hi Happily. I'm a longtime lurker on longterm ttc threads but felt compelled to respond. I'm in the same boat as you, 14dpo and spotting to signal that I'm out once again this month. That's 9 months of perfectly timed SWI, not only on and around O time, but every 3 or so days the rest of the month. It's a crushing feeling, but as you and pout say it's onwards and upwards. As one door closes another one opens, and maybe next month will be our time :)

I know how you feel. Been ttc for 3 years.

During that time I've had a miscarriage, lap and dye and 12 months of clomid. 4 of my friends have also had babies.

I am on the verge of giving up. I'm 40 and feel its just not going to happen for me.

After 14 mths though it might be worth you pushing for bloods and a referral to your local assisted conception unit. I hope you get a positive outcome soon