disappointment at lack of symptoms

[mytime777]

Anyone else feel the just the dull ache of disappointment looming other than any other aches and pains?
Whilst I am preying / hoping that this is the month I feel very normal and whilst we dtd every other day we missed the 'actual' day I was meant to ovulate. But I'm not charting properly ( calculated it phone) so I could have been a little out and perhaps without realising it could have been ' the day' .... Wishful thinking !!

Generally Do all Bfp's show signs/symptoms? Have all you mn'ers that already have ds/dd's had symptoms before your Bfp's?
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I had absolutely no symptoms when I got my BFP - and usually had loads every month I had a BFN lol! So it's not over til the fat lady sings :)

Some people have no pg symptoms until much later, if at all. Think of those ladies who only find out when they go into labour. With me the fatigue and sickness kick in at about 6 weeks, so well after the BFP!

So there is some Hope then although I personally cant see that i wouldn't notice it I was pregnant until labour lol although it did happen to someone I know strangely!!!
Most symptoms are similar to af sometimes aren't they anyway - our bodies like to keep us guessing!
I really hope it happens this month as I'm sure a lot of ladies on here do - just don't want to get my hopes up.
If I am due for af on 12th/13th march when's the earliest it would show up on a test? Although think its probably best to wait until ur late I guess to avoid the heart ache!
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I'm TTC #2 and AF was due yesterday, but nothing come yet. Did a test on Monday and it was negative so not sure what the hell is going on (although it was a cheap tesco one). I've had some pinkish brown spotting today but I'm sure my body is playing tricks on me.

I didn't have any sypmtoms first time round until about 7 weeks but then we weren't really trying so I probably just didn't notice.

Isn't first reponse the test that can be used 6 days prior to AF?

I'm going to give it until the end of the week and if nothing has happened, I'll do another test.

It drives you bonkers!

and she's here :(
Better luck next month!

Good luck mytime

Hello mytime777 we are due about the same time. I'm 6dpo and af due tue wed or thu. I was on a 28 day cycle but ovulated late so we'll see!! Fingers crossed!

Oh, I meant to say also that I don't have any symptoms much. Been very emotional and have gone off tea and am a bit tired but those could all be pms. I was pg in Jan but it resulted in early mc and the tea thing and sore boobs were the main symptoms.

Awwww never think there is no hope. We were ttc for 14 months. January was a complete write off as we lost my nan and went away to stay with family for the funeral. Only dtd once about 4 days before ovulation due......Guess what..... I am now 10 weeks

Felt so premenstrual I didnt even test until 6 days after af was due.

There is always hope

Gizzaboo your story definitely gives both and others hope and lots of wishful thinking.
Thechick we are on the same cycle it seems so fingers crossed this is OUR cycle.
Sorry to hear your af arrived mumalove. Horrid when she arrives. Positive thoughts though, on to your next cycle.

Thechick Hopefully We resist testing and wait until af is already late as it's is big disappointment getting bfn.
Fingers crossed x
( writing on my iphone- sorry if names arent quite right as i cant see posts)

mytime777 I'm feeling the same! We really went for it this month (tmi sorry!) and normally the week before af I have mega tender boobs hurts to lift my arms up, due roughly 15th match as cycle varies from 33 - 42 so hard to know when I ov! Hope this is a good sign for us :) x

awww that's fab gizzyboo Hope you have a healthy pregnancy.

Gives me hope as we have been ttc for 11 months now. AF due monday and no symptoms whatsoever here either.

Silly me with zero restraint - just poas and bfn!
Why oh why did I just do that?
Could it be too early at 8dpo? [clinging on to hope]

It's way too early! Even if you got a bfp now you wouldn't trust it completely sosit on your hands and wait until af is due.

Thanks phoenix!! That's what I needed I will now wait patiently.
( last month I was so good, waited until af arrived, didn't test at all. Not sure why I've given in to the stick this month!)