Baby no.2???....

[zonat92]

Think weve had a false alarm this week, getting BFP now BFN :/... still no period but we will seee... anyway my partner isnt hiding the fact hes made up its prob a false alarm,,, at first i was so scared & wasnt wanting no.2 myself.. but its all made me think i now doo. i got thinking about it. what am i too do though if my partner doesnt want 1 :( x

What will be, will be as the saying goes. Don't panic yet (or in fact, at all) as you may not be PG or you might be, & short of the hand of God/a termination, you will then have a baby. You can't do anything right now to affect things so you'll just have to be a bit patient... Although I realise that's easier said than done.

My DH & I had a panic a few months back but it made us reassess our priorities/plans & now we're TTC. You should have a serious talk with DP and work out whether you want more & IF you are, what can you do about it... My DH & I have discussed number of kids we'd like etc so having another one sooner than we thought really wouldn't have been a big deal, although financially tricky, but perhaps you both thought you'd only want 1? Either way, talking calmly about it is the only way.

Good luck, FX for you x