Giving it one last go

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Had another mc in July, would have been due next month.

We decided to stop after that last mc. That was that.
But we got talking the other night and we both want to give it another go.

I know in my heart of hearts that this is not going to work and that it will be a waste of time, but we intend to give it a go, quietly, without fuss, without any of the crap that goes along with ttc...been there and done all that.

I am 41, i have had 6 mcs, just need a sensible discussion from some one outside of us, who can see clearly and without emotion.

Its not as if we have nothing to loose, we do, but i am struggling to completely say this is the END.

Thoughts please?

Thanks every one for taking the time to chat to me.

I dont think that my problem is NKC as i always have a blighted ovum, there have only ever been 2 babies seen on screen, and possibly one other, so 4 of them have been for the same reason. I am told that they do not know the reason for this but suspect it to be a chromosomal issue. (Although we had Kariotyping and all was normal)

SO, we do aim to continue. Quietly, with no fuss, see what happens.

There is a thread going at the moment about older mums mcing and that is really interesting and makes me feel very optomistic as there are ladies on there who have had several mcs over the age of 38 who have gone on to have healthy pregnancies, so it can be done.