ridiculous question but answer needed tmi alert

[booisgreat]

Firstly we are thinking about ttc #3 and are therefore a little lax about contraceptionwhat and fully knew what was happening. Last night dh and I were messing about and he happened to ejaculate outside me. He wiped himself and then entered me, he did not "come" inside me. Is there any possibility that sperm may have me even though he cleaned up. My last 3 cycles have been weird. first was a 32 day cycle, next was a 30 day cycle and the last was a 33 day cycle. I am now on cd 13.

Any replies gratefully received. thanks

Certainly possible that some sperm could get to where it needs to be, assuming it was just a quick wipe with a tissue and not a good wash/shower.

To put it another way, if you strongly wanted to avoid pregnancy I would advise taking the MAP just in case.

I have a friend who I knew it the age of 17, we talked about EVERYTHING. She had vaginismus and therefore had never had penetrative sex. Therefore she didn't use contraception.

She got pregnant while still, technically, a virgin.

I am generally never lax about contraception but this month have got the broody feeling for the first time ever. I am 40. Thankfully I have 2 dds already. So if it happens I will not be unhappy!!!