omg SSB that's so heartbreaking, 7 MC's, you've really been through the mill. What are Lupus and APLS? Are they conditions you can be treated for? Do you think you've found what's causing the miscarriages? Of course you're allowed!!
Hi Blondebaby, i totally agree, it really sucks!! I'm still not sure which is worse, to know there's a problem but also a possible solution, or to be told there's nothing preventing it. Good luck with the clomid. I had confirmed ov' on clomid, but don't think ov is my issue. I found some of the side effects quite tough, are you on a clomid thread too? Might be useful as you go through it.
Grakster I'm not sure what to do next. I should do more IVF rounds I think, but something is really holding me back, I'm not sure what. Fear probably - because once i've done all the possible rounds of ivf then there won't be anything left to hold onto in terms of the 'well there's always ..... which might work'.
Stinky, does that mean you're starting to think it won't happen and move on, or just not thinking about it too much at the moment?
Fairy, hope you're recovering well from the lap.
there's another thread on here where ladies are investigating NK cells and immunology, have any of you looked into that at all? The consultant I spoke to about the failed ivf round poo pooed the idea of this for us at this stage.
I'm definately in a funny place - can happily look at other people's baby pics now, which used to be like a knife in the stomach, but seeing my brother's family calendar at xmas sent me into lots of xmas tears. 