TTC, 7 days late, 4 x BFNs

[heroinahalfshell]

Right my cycle is usually 21 days long. We DTD on day 10 (busy month so only time we managed it this month !!!) so a little later than ov would usually be I guess.

AF due last Weds and still no sign. Most recent test I did was this morning (BFN) but still no sign of AF (and no symptoms either).

??????? What are the chances here.... ????????

May have been day 11 we DTD actually, not sure. Around then.

i got 4 negatives after a very late period and started thinking period symptoms were signs but they weren't. i figured it being that late was a sure sign but turns out i got it anyway and was really disappointed. i think my cycle was totally messed up so trying when i calculated ovulation would be on a normal month was wrong (especially with the typical discharge coming way later when we weren't trying much). so it could be that if your cycle is weird this month the time you are ovulating is off too. this month we did every second day and then as often as possible when i got ovulation-ish discharge which worked, now 6wk+6days.

another thing that totally differed were the symptoms first time when i wasnt they were just messed up period ones which i was hoping were. this time the most significant thing that gave it away and caused me to test was cramps like my period only insanely sore, much worse than usual, that woke me in the night each night. also needing the toilet more often and breasts - not tender but ACHING.

hope this helps at all