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Ttc After Miscarriage. New Year, New Beginings, New Life. xxx

256 replies

mrsmaddyd · 02/01/2006 12:22

Good Luck and loads and loads of sticky baby dust to you all.

May this be the luckiest and happest new year for you all!

OP posts:
Coathanger · 05/01/2006 08:30

Oh BTW! Weighted myself this morningn and the scales stayed on 9.3 !!

mumswish · 05/01/2006 08:37

Morning everyone!!

Back at work and I got absolutely nothing to do, am gonna send an email out I think asking for some work. big boss is in today so better look busy!

diddle · 05/01/2006 09:12

mums - do you just do bits fo work for lots of different people at your job??

Ch - well you know where i am if you need me to do anything.

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 09:17

Thanks Diddle - I will. Bt at the moment just turning up would be great

mumswish · 05/01/2006 09:17

Yeh, I have no responsibilities except to answer phones, take msgs and do whatever anyone else wants.

THats why I normally have nothing to do and gossip on here all the time!

peepee · 05/01/2006 09:20

I'M HERE.........

Nothing has changed apart from my desk plants. Nobody has watered them. Poor things.
Lodsa work piled up high. I am going to take it slow.

CH is there anything you want me to do for the 21st apart form turn up?

Diddle you must be getting big.....

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 09:25

Morning Peepee! Poor plants - they aren't, y'know, passed away are they? Noneed for anything to be done, but yes you must turn up!! I am relying on you all arriving so I am not sat in a restaurant on my own....well with DH but he doesn't count!! hehe!

FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 09:42

Morning all,

CH - Good to hear you are at 9.3...you are doing great! hope you don't mind me saying but you shouldn't be weighing yourself everyday its recommended once a week for a true reading because we can fluctuate in weight day by day and I would hate for this to happen and you get disappointed and undo your excellent work ...hope you don't mind me saying

well today I am feeling really low I have a feeling that DH is changing his mind due to his excuses for not BD'g. He has a child and I don't and feeling upset at the prospect that if I am right I will never be a mum.[sas]

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 09:59

I know Nikki. I used to tell all my members the same thing (when I took weightwatchers meetings) I wuld tell them to bin thier scales and only worry about weighing in with me once a week. Hypocrite ain't I!! hehe! But the scales call my name in the morning! I know my weight can fluctuate, so am realistic.

I'm sure DH is just worried about how you will cope with being PG again - it is such a worry for them too. You need to talk to him. xxx

mygirllolipop · 05/01/2006 10:02

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diddle · 05/01/2006 10:05

Ch - i'll be there!!

Peepee - yep getting rather large now, 18wks today.

Nikki - its understandable for Dh to be anxious about tryng again after such a trauma. Talk to him about it, men react differently to us women, and don't have that maternal instinct to tell them that they need a child. I'm sure he just needs supporting as do you.

FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 10:25

Thanks ladies, I will have to try and talk to him and get him to open up as this is so important to me being my first.

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 10:27

Its really not alot of organising. I have only had to book the table and ask you lot to come thats all. It really isn't a big deal. But thank you for the offers of help. If I do need anything I won't hesitate to ask

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 10:35

Oh forgot to tell you, I have a scan tomorrow to find out if I should deffo have this D&C. Dreading it tbh. Hope they don't find anything nasty.

mygirllolipop · 05/01/2006 10:37

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FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 10:40

Good Luck with the scan CH, hoping all be well and you don't have to have it

going4potty · 05/01/2006 11:23

Hello ladies, had lovely lie this am too. DH of work and we woke found a little person snuggled in with us, aah.
Ch hope everything goes ok with scan.
Nikki, diddle is right , just keep talking to dh and get himto open up. If you recall approx week ago (i think)Dh and i had unprotected bding incident, a few 2 days ago had bad tummy, dizzy etc. DH insisted i take pregnancy test, i knew i wasnt, but important to him so i did. It was negative and he was really upset and teary. So it made me realise how much it had affected him and why he wanted to start trying straight away. So we have come to a different conclusion about ttc. Have decided that if af not here by 14th jan will start ttc anyway (previously we were gonna wait till after 1 af). So dont despair or give up, im sure you will sort it out

carly82 · 05/01/2006 12:12

CH huge ((((((hugs)))))) for your scan tomorrow hun im sure they wont find anything nasty xx
G4P pg test was done too early imo leave it another week at least, you never know it might just have worked xx
Peepee Glad you enjoyed your break, and would be very about your poor plants xx
Diddle 18 weeks??? are you really that already? Where has the time gone?xx
Mygirl I dont have scales in my house they are banned i only use them up my mums its like a weekly fix xx
Mums hope you are feeling better then you were has the heartburn gone yet? xx
God i dont half gone on....

carly82 · 05/01/2006 12:14

Sorry firstnikki i got overexcited and posted too quick i didnt forget you hun
I think you and dh should have a long chat and find out what he really wants, i agree that i think he is just worried about you. Although they dont admit it it hurts them too xx

FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 12:16

Thanks G4P this is why I really value MN cos you can vent your worries, frustation etc and find support and comfort in each other. Yes I do recall your post and I wish you all the luck for ttc'g, it could be too early for testing when you did it the other day.

FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 12:19

crossed posts carly thanks for your thoughts too...god I am sitting at my desk getting tearful about the situation and the support from you ladies....thanks xx

diddle · 05/01/2006 12:49

don't know if any of you read the miscarriage and bereavement section anymore, can be hard sometimes. Have read a very sad one about xmas wihtout thier daughter, had me in flood of tears. Nobody should be going through that. Just wanted to remind us all that there are people on here that need our support and maybe we could offer them some advice. so please if its not to painful for you, take a look and offer a kind word.

Coathanger · 05/01/2006 13:05

You are right Diddle - we should offer support. I do still go to the MC/ bereavement board but I never know what to say.

FirstNikki · 05/01/2006 13:10

Trying to find it diddle what was the title... feeling guilty and self consumed now...

diddle · 05/01/2006 13:18

sorry - noooooo didn;t wan tto make anyone feel guity, have just seen the support we all give one another and noticed there are plenty othersa who need supporting too

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