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Ttc After Miscarriage. New Year, New Beginings, New Life. xxx

256 replies

mrsmaddyd · 02/01/2006 12:22

Good Luck and loads and loads of sticky baby dust to you all.

May this be the luckiest and happest new year for you all!

OP posts:
peepee · 05/01/2006 20:48

YIPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

going4potty · 05/01/2006 20:49

hi hc, peepe, when youve finished with mr clunes, pls tell me exactly what you did with those sprouts

going4potty · 05/01/2006 22:24

Goodnight ladies

HumphreysCorner · 05/01/2006 23:39

Excellent Doc Martin!

Nighty night all

xxx

HellKat · 06/01/2006 06:26

Morning all.
Lots been happening on here eh?
I'm leaving this thread as I think it's only fair. I was the one who posted about a "Troll" and yes Mums I did think it was you. If you are genuine, then you really do need to stick to your original stories and not try to hog the limelight so much for e.g someone's talking about great news they've had etc and you always come up with something. If you are indeed false, then it's just plain cruel. I truly, honestly apologise if I'm wrong.
The main reason I'm leaving is others on here are blaming themselves and talking about leaving. Why should they when it was my post that started this. These people will be missed on here I, however, will not. So it's only fair that I bow out.
Hope you all have a wonderfully, healthy 2006 and may it bring all your hearts' desire.
Take care all, you've been great.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

P.s Mums- Feel free to come back. It's my fault you left. Sorry.

diddle · 06/01/2006 08:03

Ch - Good Luck with your scan, hope it all goes well, will be cheking how you got on later.

Hk - please don't feel like you have to leave, we are all entitled to our opinion on here, and nobody has done anything wrong!!
You'll always be welcome x

mumswish · 06/01/2006 08:37

Just wanted to post this:

HK - Dont leave like Diddle has said everyone is entitled to they're own opinions, you thought I was a troll (although I still dont know why) so you said it which I appreciate. To be honest tho, if I was a troll I'm sure I could have come up with better stuff than whatever it is that made you think I was, I've been here ages and now all of a sudden i'm a troll, its plain wierd.

I've left now, theres no point in you leaving as well, i've found a completely new site, the only reason i've posted again is because although you think i'm a troll I dont want everyone to think you were right cos I'm not, I never was, I was just using this place as its designed to be used, for help and advice. If I was hogging the limelight (although I think that is totally the wrong word to use for a thread like this but again thats my opinion) then again I apologise but I didnt realise I was doing it, i was just after help.

I'll say it again, I've no hard feelings towards anyone and theres no point in us both going, so stay go back to how you were and If anyone wants to talk they know my email address.

Thanks for reading

peepee · 06/01/2006 08:50

Lets all make up...........PLEASE

Lets forget everything that has gone on and get on with why we are all on here....
We are here to help each other not to bicker.

Mistakes happen all the time. You have both spoken and appear to have aired all your views so there is no reason why you should both go. People have their differences all the time, go on...pinkies out and make up.

Good luck Diddle get a picture and bring it with u on the 21st

G4P you mash up the boiled sprouts throw in a tiny amount of olive oil with chopped garlic and blanched onions (small amount) mash everything together place it in individual tapas type dish and sprinkle mature cheddar/parmessan on top and place under the grill or in oven for about 10mins.

I'm hungry again

mygirllolipop · 06/01/2006 09:52

Message withdrawn

diddle · 06/01/2006 10:20

right this is just stupid. Ch Hk you have no reason to leave, we are all entitled to our opinions. Please stay.

We are not at school anymore. mumsiwhs has gone and holds no ahrd feelings, so lets just all get on with life and support one another as we always have.
Lifes too bloody short to be argueing like this.

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 10:36

.....ok fresh start ladies I agree... New Year..... New Start

I shall start by resuming back to normal...Spoke to DH, he does want baby just my paranoia and worry that I am thinking he is happy 'cos he's got kids. He just worried about the "what if it happens again "and doesn't want to see me go through that again. sorting some other issues too although still not BD 'cos of his poorly leg..hmmm although I think we may have missed the boat cos I feel sure I OV'd weds as felt nausea and pains weds lunch, despite fertility friend saying ov is today..

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 10:42

Peepee - brussels thing...not sure but would try anything...

HC and other LOST lovers...Yes the final bumper show on Channel 4 on Wednesday, can't wait but also will miss the twist series...although there will be an episode 2 I hear!

mygirllolipop · 06/01/2006 10:42

Message withdrawn

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 10:45

me to mygirl...we did BD tuesday so if ov'd weds may be in with chance...if not will have to be next month..

HumphreysCorner · 06/01/2006 10:48

Yes, let us sort this out as I would feel like I had lost my good friends if you all leave-you too mumswish ((xx)).

As I hadn't noticed any troll like behaviour I thought you must all think it was me and had a couple of sleepless nights over it but as I know I'm not a troll I decided to carry on posting and now that we know we are all lovely, honest people we should all stay and continue supporting each other.

Coathanger-let us know how your scan goes hun ((x))

mumswish, HellKat and mygirllolipop-please don't leave ladies. Remember the lovely meal you are having on the 21st. ((xx))

Hi to diddle, G4, peepee, FirstNikki, MrsM, carly82, spub and anyone else lurking.

HAVE A NICE DAY !

xxx

diddle · 06/01/2006 11:42

nikki - so glad you sorted it out, and you and Dh are communciating well.

I will be tuning in for LOST if i remember, i started wtaching it then started falling asleep towards the middle of the series. they are on series 2 in america so i don't think we find anything out next week.

HC - no you're not a troll matey, nobody thinsk you are don't worry x please stay, hope you and bump are doing well.

going4potty · 06/01/2006 14:00

Hello ladies, hope you are all ok. CH hope your scan goes ok and nothing else is needed. Peepe thanks for the receipe, Dh likes sprouts , so will defo try that, yummy. Hell kat missed you, pls stay and you too mygirl and mums. Whatever the situation, troll or not, lets have a new start, for the new year. I think we should all remember that we have been through a lot on this thread and this makes us very sensitive. Also like any human being that has felt pain, we are quick to put our defences up and protect our selves if we sense we may be ridiculed or taken advantage of. I thought you might think i was the troll at first and was questioning myself. When it was brought to my attention that it may be you mums then i had some doubts, i am sorry for that and hope that you are generous enough to forgive me for that. If you feel you cannot come back, i wish you luck and hopei havent lost a friend. If you stay, then you will be welcomed. Now i will get of my soap box, although i must say i like the increase in height

going4potty · 06/01/2006 14:02

Ps sorry Nikki, was a little long winded there and missed you. So glad you have talked to dh and sorting other issues, really pleased.

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 14:07

Thats ok G4P...I have taken this quiet time to take advice of diddle and view other posts and offered comfort/support on a few.. I noticed that some novice MN have received some harsh posts which is a shame...makes you appreciate what nice ladies we have on here too. (and on other threads before an attack is made )

going4potty · 06/01/2006 14:16

know what you mean nikki, just did the same.

going4potty · 06/01/2006 14:32

Hell kat, was it you that had the laproscopy? I just wondered if its normal to get these af symptoms but no af? Also lots of aches in lower abdomen and small of back. Ive never been so keen for an af to arrive.

Coathanger · 06/01/2006 14:34

21st January
Bella Italia, Leicester Square, London
3pm
TABLE BOOKED

CH + DH - Deffo
Diddle + Dh - Deffo
Lottielou + DH - Deffo
Peepee + Dh - Deffo
Slink + DH
Carly
Mygirl + DH + DDs Deffo
Cori + DH + DS - Deffo

As long as it is still okay to do this meetup

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 14:34

Hi G4P, yes hellkat and myself that I know of for sure..

I am sorry but I cannot help with regard to pain as reason had lap was due to endometriosis which gave me pains anyway so I wouldn't be able to judge that.

What cycle day you on? since your op?

FirstNikki · 06/01/2006 14:36

I do get those pains though upon AF arrival. Maybe your body has changed slightly since your ordeal??.....but then again there maybe a slim chance of ..

Coathanger · 06/01/2006 14:51

Okay....

I've plucked up the courage to do this. I was going to lay low for a while but that would be cowardly and wrong so here goes.....

I just want to offer my sincerest apologies to all of you on here. I have been a very naughty person, I have been inconsiderate, unsupportive and down right rude. I don't know why I have done this as it is not in my nature - I like to see myself as someone who will put others first and be there for others, what ever the circumstances and regardless of who they are.
I have thought long and hard about what I should do to make things better and to be honest, I'm not sure there is anything I can say or do to change things. All I can do is say I'm sorry and hope that it helps.

You ladies are my friends. You have helped me through one of the hardest times in my life, you have been supportive, nonjudgemental, kind and thoughtful. I shouldn't have repayed you by being so harsh

I hope we can all put this behind us and carry on as normal again. I don't want to leave this thread, I have tried to do it for my own different reasons before but just can't stay away, because I feel I belong here, even though I am not actively TTCing.

Anyway, all this is just a fancy, frilly way of saying I'm sorry. I know I have acted out of order and out of character, and I want to make it up to you all.

xxxxxxxxxx