possible condom failure?

[AlishasAttic]

hi all ,
was dtd with dp using a condom as im off the pill as it doesnt agree with me.
all was well until he came ,the weird thing is some cum seemed to have leaked out of the bottom and was at the bottom of shaft and on his balls (sorry for tmi)
because i was on top this is how i know, erm well as soon as hed taken it off i ran to bathroom filled it with water ,there wasnt any leaks that i could see.
dont know if this matters he was wearing a cock ring aswell (condom was put on first)which may of pushed the condom down a bit
any advice on what to do as considering the map

If you don't want a baby, I personally woulld get to chemist tomorrow for morning after pill, depends how paranoid you are about getting pregnant I guess, but I would go for MAP to be on the safe side

just checked on the ovulation calender and im ovulating on tuesday.
so if it has leaked chances are its gonna happen.
its strange because i do want another child at some point im 29 my daughter is 9,dont know whether to leave it to fate (sounds stupid i know)

Be honest with yourself. Is another pregnancy the best thing for you right now? Presumably the very fact you're using contraception means you've decided together that you don't want children. I'm pregnant due to an unnoticed contraception failure (on the pill, didn't miss one) and it's a bloody horrible place to be. You know somethng went wrong, you have the chance to 'fix' it. The sensible thing would be to take the MAP. Leaving it to 'fate' sounds a bit bloody stupid.

maybe fate is taking it's course!!!

Sorry, I have no idea about ovulation calenders etc...

Can only say that if you don't want baby, then I would take MAP.

Also, maybe if you are going to leave it to fate, then you should discuss with dp as maybe a little unfair to announce you are pregnant if he thought he was using contraception because he didn't want a baby?

this is difficult for me ,i was 19 when i got pregnant the first time,suffered horrendous migraines through pregnancy and the birth was horrific venthouse delivery with 30 stitches lost loads of blood and baby being resucsitated .
on the other hand ive been really broody lately ,and im 30 soon so i guess the clock is ticking.
as for dp well he couldnt care less ,he just says youll be alright ,and has been narked about wearing the condoms saying he doesnt want to etc
thanks anyway

In that case he sounds like an irresponsible dick. Reproduce with him at your peril.

sorry, didn't mean to sound judgemental.

If I was in your shoes and broody, I might leave it to fate as well.

But didn't want your dp to get annoyed if he isn't ready for a baby and it turns out you're having one and it becomes a problem between the 2 of you.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do!!

well dp is 41 so i guess hes as ready as hes going to be (for another dc),i will sleep on it and decide tomorrow i think.