Dachs fingers crossed for those 3 eggs.
yay to Tomboy and AF but just this once mind. Hope you are having a lovely holiday
Tina it all sounds quite positive if not a little frustrating which I totally understand. It's so hard to get the balance between taking some control and being as proactive as possible and relaxing and trying to go with the flow abit. We've all been there one way or another. At the weekend we were doing some mountain biking near Cardiff, and then stayed one night in Cardiff for DH's canoeing. Was fun and we managed to miss most of the rain but boy was I tired yesterday.
lovely to hear from you Zam, very much hope this is your month. The move to SL sounds very exciting but I can totally understand your concerns re pregnancy and health care
Digital how are you feeling? I do think that the first weeks are the hardest but even so another 
for you.
AandR as Digi says, tears can be good. They do clear the system apparently. You sound so busy but I'm slightly 
of your cycling and time to reflect on things on your own (in between dodging traffic I'm sure). I think you are right to focus on your house for now. I probably said this before, but having done a big house extension last year, I look back and wonder how I ever could have done it pregnant. We were TTC but TBH we didn't try very hard because we were so caught up in sorting out the house and exhausted most days from all that decision making and dealing with builders.
Mouse sorry about the BFN, is there any chance you just tested too early or are you convinced it really is a BFN?
MummyA how is the driving going? DD will be 3. I think we've decided to do a small tea party as all of her friends (well my friends kids) are having a joint party together to save on 6 parties in the space of 3 weeks. I'm trying to work how I can make a really cool cake. Peppa Pig is quite popular so off to google for some ideas. The train cake sounds cool though.
Battery I think you ov'd. When is your next appt with Dr S, must be quite soon if I remember correctly
Collie keep up the non lurking, it's lovely having you around.
Loup enjoy the confusing opks 
Ladybee sorry about the BFN this month. I hope this doesn't sound dismissive or insensitive but you have been through a lot recently - moving half way round the world and that surely is going to have an impact on TTC. I would see it as your body just protecting itself until you really are ready physiologically, even if you feel ready psychologically IYSWIM. But just ignore me if that's an unhelpful take on things.
YRMOTB how are you doing my lovely? depending on which list I look at we are "twins" or near enough.
We have our 20 week scan coming up next week. I"m trying not to think about it too much as it's more than 7 days away but after hearing Lily06 news on the freak out room, I can't help but worry a little bit. I'm trying to occupy myself with planning a camping trip
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