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Freak out room for those newly updiffed after mc - Part VI

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CollieandPup · 15/05/2011 10:32

Just found out you are pregnant after a previous miscarriage and too nervous to move over the to pregnancy boards? Freaking out about spotting, cramping, symptoms (or lack there of) and nervously awaiting your first scan? Here is a lovely place for lot's of support, hand holding and problem sharing.

Courtesy of owlbooty here are the Ten Commandments of the Freak Out Room.

  1. Thou shalt check thy knickers to the point of insanity until the baby actually arrives.
  2. Thou shalt also check the loo roll post-wipeage (sorry, gross, I know)
  3. Thou shalt bore thy physician and midwife to tears with the mentalling.
  4. And thy husband/boyfriend/family/neighbour's cat.
  5. Thou shalt obsess over the absence of symptoms.
  6. And the presence of symptoms.
  7. And the fluctuation of symptoms.
  8. Thou shalt pee on a vast number of sticks and keep ClearBlue and First Response in business.
  9. The day before any scan extreme mentalling is permitted without recourse to the Haddock.
10. Self-diagnosis with Dr Google is Forbidden.

The Haddock will be applied liberally to all transgressors.

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OP posts:
CollieandPup · 21/05/2011 15:58

Oh dachs I'm so so sorry I've been thinking about you all day. I'm devestated for you, sat here crying for you and your beautiful babies. I can't believe this has happened to you and how cruel life can be. Mine and my DHs thoughts are with you and mr dachs tonight, and of course with Alenxandra and Felicia who I know will never be forgotten. We'll be lighting a candle here for each of your angels tonight too. All our love and strength xxxx Sad

OP posts:
Chloe55 · 21/05/2011 16:26

Oh dachs I am so so sorry Sad What heartbreaking news. I hope you can get some rest soon and have lots of supportive family around you. Sending you and your family all my love. May your angels be sleeping peacefully now xxx

OrangeGloss · 21/05/2011 16:45

Dachs I am so so sorry to hear that, I am devastated for you and sat writing this is tears. I am thinking of you at this terrible heartbreaking time, it just isn't fair :( :( :( :(

harassedinherpants · 21/05/2011 16:49

Dachs I'm so very sorry. Seems such an inadequate thing to say. You're all very much in my thoughts x

Hairy I've had some really awful pains, and what felt like contractions one night. I lay there in tears waiting for the bleeding. But I'm still here at 8+5 and two great scans later. Fingers x'd.

randomimposter · 21/05/2011 16:49

So very sorry dachs. Thinking of you, MrDachs, Alexander and Felicia.- - will light my candle for you tonight. Can't imagine what a difficult time this must be. Wishing you much strength. x

CaribouMoo · 21/05/2011 16:50

Oh Dachs my love, I am so, so sorry - this is absolutely heartbreaking. I am devastated for you, can't believe this has happened to you and your DH. You are in my thoughts and prayers, as are your wee angels Alexander and Felicia x

LaraMi · 21/05/2011 16:54

In buckets of tears here Dachs - heartbreaking to hear. Praying for your you, MrDachs, Alexander and Felicia. Life can be so cruel. x

cep · 21/05/2011 16:56

dach i'm so so sorry. such sad news. You'll all be in my prayers tonight.

hairy i hope the pains have settled now.

lily06 · 21/05/2011 17:04

Dachs so very sorry to see your news, my thoughts are with you.

Silver how are things with you today?

Hairy hope you are doing ok and that the pains have subsided. I've been having pains too for the past week, and panic every time because some of them feel just like the pain I had with the ectopics, and I haven't had a healthy pregnancy to compare them with.

StickThemWithThePointyEnd · 21/05/2011 17:07

Oh god dachs words can not express how sorry I am. I feel desperately sad for you and your husband.

Minnie74 · 21/05/2011 17:16

Oh my god dachs i'm so very sorry to hear your heartbreaking news. You are all in my thoughts xxx

dooscooby · 21/05/2011 17:20

dachs I'm so terribly sorry for your heartbreak x x x

katherine2008 · 21/05/2011 17:24

dachs I am so sorry. x

clareanna · 21/05/2011 17:33

dachs so so sorry x

mamapower · 21/05/2011 17:48

Dachs with all my love and sympathy to you and your dh. You and the pups have been in my thoughts all day and shall be for days to come. I can't imagine the heartbreak and distress you are going through, life is unfair, we are here if and when you need us. I hope you have lots of RL support too.
xxxxxxx

VivClicquot · 21/05/2011 17:53

daschs - I am so very sorry for you and your DH. Sending you both all the love, light and strength in the world xx

silverangel · 21/05/2011 18:06

Dachs, no words to make it better, thinking of you and your DH.

I'm doing ok, a little achey after the op but have felt movement today which has to be a good thing. Resting until Tuesday and keeping everything crossed x

updiffed · 21/05/2011 18:10

Dachs :( I too am so so sorry. Life is so cruel and unfair sometimes. I hope you have lots of family support. :(

ZamMummyInGabs · 21/05/2011 18:33

Dachs there are no words xxxx

mousebacon · 21/05/2011 18:39

Oh dachs I'm heartbroken for you. I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. There will be two candles burning in newcastle tonight.

silver much love to you too xx

PrettyVacant1 · 21/05/2011 18:40

Dachs, no words.
You and MrDachs are in our thoughts.
Hoping you find the strength to support each other. xxxxxxx

AlbaDeTamble · 21/05/2011 18:40

Dachs I'm so so sorry Sad. Wishing you and your DH all the strength and love you need to get through xx

appleblossoms · 21/05/2011 18:51

dachs so so sorry to hear your news. There are no words. Sending loads of love to you, mrdachs, alexander and felicia. Life is so cruel sometimes. x

pigletmania · 21/05/2011 19:04

thoughts are with you all Dachs Sad

getawiggleon · 21/05/2011 19:26

Dachs I'm incredibly sorry to read your news. Sending you much love and strength xx

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