Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

[meliesmummy]

Hello! If you have recently miscarried and are thinking of or actively trying again come and join us! We offer plenty of cake, tea and wine if needed! Come in and laugh, cry and rant as needed, and don't be afraid of asking whatever questions you need answers to and we'll try our best to answer them.

Add yourself to the stats list whenever you are ready.

wtcc = waiting to try to conceive
ucl = usual cycle length
wtf cycle = the time after your mc when you have no idea whats going on with your normal cycle

Lets hope this is a lucky thread and we all get our bfps!

part 14 of the thread

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Hello!
May I join you? Mc in Jan, Couple of months of insanity. Now ready to get back in the saddle, so to speak.
Am a bit of a lurker but am hoping for a bit of a positive kick up the bum.
So hello all and good luck.

mamarara welcome so sorry for your loss. the ladies here are lovely so feel free to rant or ask questions as necessary.

bump grapefruit juice is supposed to help with the production of cm. basically it's supposed to give you more of it, which is good as it boths help determine what part of cycle you're on and also the better quality and amount can keep the little swimmers aound for longer.

minnie bless for dh giving up strong coffee.

Before i start sorry for the me me me

Thanks to the conservative party that's me down 60 quid a week because my DH earned 1000 pound more than he should have last year in bonus (he is not a banker he is only a call centre worker on 14k, im on IB(depression)). Now we are in a great mess where DH cant afford to get his work because they have took it of us I just feel lately it is one thing after another, I feel like screaming!!!!!!!!!!!!

Minnie, I've been trying the same with my dh but he loves his coffee, he really cut back before the mc but then he read somewhere that caffeine can help sperm motility so I'm not really winning that one! I've as good as given up my diet coke though which has not been easy!

Hi mama, make yourself comfy x

olis that's awful, how will you manage?

Well, I'm tempting sods law...just been to town and bought summer clothes, so if I'm pg they won't fit for long! Then we had yummy crepes on the way back to the car, off home to jump it off on the trampoline!

bump don't get amazon cheapies - they haven't detected O this month and dodnt really detect I was pregnant until way after FR etc, I'd defs go smiley face digital. Good luck mellies I'll be joining you eith frantic symptom spotting, who else is 2WW?

One question from me in case anyone experiences it, does anyone bleed day of or day after ovulation? I get it every month even when not TTC so its not implantation, way too early but not sure why I get it or if it effects ttc - any advice welcome!! Good weekends girls x

melies yeah you did ttc1 and im cd5 :)
blackat hellllooooo, how is everything going?? xxx
That's so shit olis I hope you both work something out!
Welcome mamarara :)

Its meant to be a beautiful day tomorrow :) so lots of or juice and a bbq xx

oli sorry you're having money troubles at the moment. you say it's cause dh earned an extra £1000 last year, is it tax credits claiming it back?

loup is it a lot? some women get a bit of blood from when the egg is released from the ovary. It's normal for thsoe women. i don;t think it ends to be a lot though.

mel glad you enjoyed shopping, mmmmm crepes.

Morning ladies,

Just a quickie, sorry not to name check but hope everyone is doing well. I caved, I POAS, it was negative, I expected that. Had to cave though as am on second installment of friend's CDWM experience tonight and I know the wine will be flowing

Back to the bottom of the class for me I'm afraid - AF turned up this morning, feel free to let me know if I've got anyone wrong as I've never done the list before, stitch I thought you had got a BFP but thought maybe you don't want to move yet?:

Saturdays List

TTC

HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD36
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD36
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD30
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD29
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD28
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD27
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD25
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD24
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD21
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD21
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD20
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD18
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD18
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD17
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD17
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD14
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? CD6
wellieboots ttc #1, cycle 3, UCL 33-35 CD1
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27

Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

harrassed Grapefruit juice for 1st half of cycle to improve cm, then pineapple juice for 2nd half to increase stickiness.

chloe boo to bfn. Hugs.

Sorry not to name ckeck, may be back later, at work at the mo, double boo.

Good afternoon!

:( to af wellie and to bfn Chloe :(

Boo to work yrmotb, this is my last weekend off for a while. So making the most of it....beach and chips this morning, afternoon in the garden, girlie night out tonight.

Aha!!!! There you are! I joined another ttc after mc thread - got all mixed up. But some of you are also on there and I need all the help I can get! Anyway, I'm back . Started mc'ing yesterday - I thought this one was going to be ok because I'd reached 9 weeks. Silly me!

I'll update the list with my new details.

Happy Sunday everyone!

I hope I've got this right!

Sundays List

TTC

HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD37
Stitchinline TTC#1, Cycle 1, UCL 33, CD37
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD31
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD30
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD29
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD28
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD26
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD25
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD22
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD22
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 8 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD21
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD19
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD19
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD18
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD18
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD15
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? CD7
wellieboots ttc #1, cycle 3, UCL 33-35 CD2
ochaye ttc #3, MC#2 Apr 11, WTF cycle, UCL 31, CD2
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?
hopeful1 ttc#2 IUI with clomid

WTTC
ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27

Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP
DachshundsRule BFP
Wombat33 BFP
Pinkfondantfancy BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle, AandRmum and Mumtum xx

ochaye i left a note on the other thread saying how sorry i was hon to hear your news. i hope you have lots of support in rl.

harassed i read that pineapple juice should only drunk upto ov, because the theory is that p juice helps the womb to contract hence they say drinking a lot helps nearer the due date. (Although i then discovered the amount you need to drink to actually start labour is immense.) but i stopped drinking it when i thought i'd ov'd. see here

chloe sorry about bfn but i hope you had a good night.

Gosh, I didn't know that about the grapefruit and pineapple juices. Anyone know if pink grapefruit juice will do, or does it have to be white? I don't really like white grapefruit but can stomach the pink juice. That's if I can find it - don't recall having seen any here in Oz!

So - sorry to hear you MC'd again, Ochaye - I think I was about week 9 as well, but not sure as my dates were a bit up in the air - was waiting for the dating scan to let me know, but as it turned out by the time that happened I'd had a complete MC so nothing was there. The previous week's scan showed a 5w gestational sac, which didn't fit with my dates at all, and HCG for 4w, which fit even less so I knew then that it was a lost cause and sure enough it all passed later that day. Slightly longer than last time - which was bang on 8w, it was as though I'd just missed a period (but had tested pos so knew I was pg).

Am already on supplements, clean water, cleanest possible food - didn't know about the juices so will get onto that, and also get DH onto supplements as well.

thumb pink is supposed to be just as good, i had pink. pommegranate juice is supposed to be good as well. not from concentrate.

sorry not from concentrate is best.

Ah I love pomegranate juice - maybe I'll try that instead of the grapefruit, I've definitely seen that here! Thanks cep :)

if you can get pink grapefruit i'd still get that as well, as it helps cm. (can't quite remember what pomegranate juice does, it helps us in some way and also helps blokes little swimmer so get dh to drink some as well.) where do you live? i used to down a glass of p/grapefruit juice. pineapple juice and pomegranate juice. i swished when i left the house. "i can hear the ocean"

gimme fmu is first morning urine. sorry yourdc's have all been ill.
Thankfully (touch wood) he seems to be over the worst, only seems to wake 1-2 a week rather than every night that he was doing before. He woke yesterday cause he needed a poo, did it in his nappy, then came in to me. (dh was in with dss) i decided to let him stay in with me otherwise he'd have run all over the house for the rest of the night. He was really good stayed lying down said something a couple of times but shushed when i said shush, but it took him ages to fall back to sleep, at least an hour, he just couldn't drop off again. I'm sorry you fell apart at work, just remember it is perfectly normal to be all over the place.

Hi Ladies. AF got me yesterday so now on CD2 :(

feeling tired and awful hoping its because something good is happening :). We are not sure how we will manage but hey we will get by somehow.

ochaye sorry to hear of your loss ((hugs))

IAFUDS sorry AF got you :(

chloe sorry for BFN

gimmie minnie thumb cep mellies collie wellies brooke loup and any one i have missed hope you are well

Evening

chloe boo to bfn

ochaye sorry for your loss-hope you're ok

Feeling a bit weird today- should be af but no sign apart from a little cramping. Usually pretty regular too and would be full on feminax by now!. Strange CM (tmi sorry) Don't want to test cos don't really want to see a bfn, thought I might wait a bit and see if af turns up in a couple of days first. Being a bit of a wuss I know! Have no tests either, mind you!

Been searching for wedding venues and everywhere is so expensive. Its second time round for both of us so we don't really want a massive do but even small ones are looking too much. We've decided to give ttc till sept and then book early nxt year if I'm not pg-might be cheaper then!