Just MC and ready to try again? Pack your cake, wine and tightie whities and join us for more ranting, weeping and most of all laughing! All welcome! (Part 15)

[meliesmummy]

Hello! If you have recently miscarried and are thinking of or actively trying again come and join us! We offer plenty of cake, tea and wine if needed! Come in and laugh, cry and rant as needed, and don't be afraid of asking whatever questions you need answers to and we'll try our best to answer them.

Add yourself to the stats list whenever you are ready.

wtcc = waiting to try to conceive
ucl = usual cycle length
wtf cycle = the time after your mc when you have no idea whats going on with your normal cycle

Lets hope this is a lucky thread and we all get our bfps!

part 14 of the thread

stats to follow

No bleeding today yrmotb, thanks for asking. Good job too, got big plans for later! !

Ha. Go on melies!

yrmotb hi how are you doing? not in pain getting the odd ache, it's just a feeling i've got. Just pessimistic thoughts really.

stitch welcome and sorry for your loss.

mel have fun tonight.

collie dh keeps telling me not to be stupid as i haven't had anymore blood, but i just can't shake it. It was the second scan last time that brought the bad news so maybe it's just that.

sorry not to name check am really tired, ds woke up at 2:20 again this morning, i had hoped it had passed.

Fridays List

ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3

TTC

Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, UCLrandom CD32
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD30
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD28
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD23
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD20
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD19
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD17
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD13
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD12
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD10
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD10
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD9
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD9
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD6
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Just taking myself off list. We've decided not to TTC anymore. Good luck to all of you, thanks for all the support you have given me after mmc. See you around

Best wishes backonceagain x

oh Cep you need a big hug too xxxx

mumtum what a stressful day for you. Was it a different brand? Cb digis aren't as sensitive as some, could you get hold of a fr? Big hugs for you as well xxxx

boa good luck with everything.

mel thanks. xx

Best wishes from me too back once again

Cep Am thinking of you. Am so sorry you are going through this anguish and hope you have lots of support in RL this weekend before the scan. I imagine that the lack of sleep you've had recently isn't helping you feel positive. Also wanted to say thank you for looking after me and introducing me to this thread in the first place. A big hug and FX for you.

Mumtum agree with Melies on this, and also yrmotb. Thinking of you. Hope you get some rest before the morning.

yrmotb Thank you for the temping advice. Can I ask what happens if you don't always wake up at the same time? Can you still do temps? Can you get DH to do it for you (am really short sighted, wear lenses so wouldn't be able to read them!)

Cep and Collie sorry to hear you are feeling stressed We're all thinking of you guys and sending you lots and lots of positive vibes. I hope you can take your mind off things over the weekend and then next week you get some reassurance.

MumTum I agree with the others too. Do another test in the morning and don't leave it in a pot beforehand. You are still so early that I am sure its just some tests are picking up the hormones quicker than others.

Melies glad to hear there is no bleeding and wishing you a fun weekend

xx

Evening all!
Good luck boa :)
mumtum I have also heard CB digi is not as sensitive.
cep,collie, blackkat hope all is going well this evening

chloe, bumpwanted, really, ymotb, melies and anyone else i have missed

Hi everyone,

to Olis lovely to see you

mumtum hope you get the result with FMU in the morning, thinking of you love

cep, collie sending you lots of positive thoughts, really hope next week is good news for you both.

Hi to mels, chloe and to everyone else

Moved myself to the other list, seemed a bit odd to be at the top, fingers crossed all the beans here are super sticky.

Fridays List

ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD30
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD28
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD23
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD20
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD19
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD17
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD13
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD12
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD10
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD10
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD9
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD9
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD6
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

rue you're welcome honey, i hate that i had to but know how wonderfully helpful and supportive the ladies on have been and still are for me. Noone really knows about pg in rl, a couple of people (bosses) at work and dh. Dh thinks i'm being silly (which i could well be) so i'm just silently worrying, trying not to get too stressed about it all. About the temping what thermometer have you got, i need glasses as well although i'm actually farsighted (i have double vision in one of my eyes) i used a digital like this one it beeps when done and stays on for a few seconds so you can pass to dh for him to read.

mumtum fx for morning test.

bump what happened about the painting??

collie how you doing tonight hon?

olis i can't remember if i said welcome back or not so sorry if i didn't, am glad to hear you're doing well.

chloe hope work is going well.

think i'll be having an early night again tonight, i think i've been asleep before dh has come to bed everynight for about 3 weeks now. i feel slightly ill, have had dull headache most of the day and am feeling abit sick and faint am sure it's cause of bad sleep again.

Yay blackkat for moving lists!

Hope you manage to get some rest Cep, dizzy spells and nausea could be signs your pg is strong? I know feeling awful is no fun though x

grr just seen a messgae on fb saying that the phones (which i work on, supposed to be being lifted in june and we're all supposed to be getting new jobs within the building somewhere, hadn't been told where yet) is actually being lifted in 2 weeks time. I've had no texts from my mates at work so ihave no idea if it's true or a april fool's day thing. if it's real i'm not going to be too chuffed that no one told me. yes that's just the thing to help me sleep.

mel thanks hon, i do appreciate you being so supportive (((hugs))), and all you other lovely ladies.

Oh mels that's lovely of you, thanks. It's funny how you start to feel attached to people on here when you've never met isn't it?! @ your getting busy later!!

really it's hard to say if the grapefruit juice worked for me as the evening prim oil is also supposed to help cm. I never really monitored my cm b4 either so can't really compare but I did think I had lots of it. Lots of creamy for ages, the ewcm right at ov. I am pretty sure I had more than b4 as I had lots on wiping which I've never really noticed. Other women who have since moved off the thread also thought it helped. Re the temping, it is really important to do it at the same time every day as otherwise your temps can look very up and down and it's hard to find a pattern. I forgot a lot at first but soon got into it. It is quite consuming though doing it every day.

yrboft I hope there growing pains, just worried as they're a bit more uncomfortable (not necc pain) than I'd expect and too one sided gir my liking. I'm home now though, and feeling less stressed and nice and relaxed afrer dh ran me a bath.

cep the lack of bleeding is a good sign (which is what I keep telling myself) as is the good scan. But I know you're worried bcs of your last exp. The stats are in your favour after a good scan though. With you last pg, what was the hb like and were the dates as expected? Hope you get some sleep tonight lovely.

chloe so glad you're enjoying the veting. It's a great release for you, you sound tired but happy. I'm happy for you. Dare I ask, how many dpo are you?

blackkat lovely to see you on the bfp list.

hope you're ok chic? thanks for your msg xx

welcome back to oils

Thinking of you mumtum I'll have everything crossed for you in the morning. There's been lots of positive messages in the other thread so try not to freak out yet as it could well be the tests being silly buggers xx

collie i just knew there was one they don't tell me how many bpm. i think they put me back about 5-6 days last time, this time it was 3. i'm sure it'll be fine.

rue meant to say i only did grapefruit for 1 cycle and it was the one i got pg on. can't remember if i got more of it to be honest, i was also using pre-seed.

right i am off to bed now. hope you all have a good night

mel a very good night in your case hon.

How annoying Cep! can you text someone to ask?

collie I know what you mean about getting attached...when we're all updiffed and not neurotic anymore and not on here all the time I'll miss you guys!!!!

Melies I agree.. I'll miss them too. They are women of wisdom. We should beg them to guest visit! (and why are you here, thought the lights would be looooow in your house by now!)

Thank you for all the answers re grapefruit juice etc. Do you know, despite all my best efforts, robuttusin etc. I did not notice a single change in CF and haven't for last 3 years. However, on wiping (TMI) it seems to have changed entirely from how it has been, at any point. Bizarre.

Cep I hope you get the sleep you deserve tonight. Sweet dreams. Try and forget any work s**t for now.

Collie Thank you for your reply, I know you have lots on your mind, very much appreciated. And yes, am feeling very attached to everyone on here too!

Big waves at everyone else, I hope you are having good Friday's.

xxxx

BTW.. Hardly important. Just gave my first POV on a thread notihng to do with this! Oooh, it was v exciting.

Sorry, off to get a life xx

Fridays List

ZamMummyInGabs TTC#3 cycle 3

TTC
wellieboots cycle 2, UCL 29 or 30, CD30
HidingInTheUndergrowth TTC#1, cycle 5 UCL 28 CD28
MumTumWanted TTC#2, cycle 2, UCL29 CD23
laylasmummy09 ttc#2 mc#2 28/28days cycle 1 CD22
Chloe55 TTC #2, cycle 7 post MC#2 UCLrandom CD21
IfAtFirstUDontSucceed: TTC no1, MC no2, Jan 2011, UCL 28/29 CD20
Minnie74 ttc#1 cycle 4, ucl28 CD19
lily06 TTC#1 EP Jan 10, MC May 10, UCL 25-? CD17
Olismum TTC#2 cycle 2, UCL 31 CD16
Shorty ttc#2 cycle 2, ucl 30 CD13
Hadrian TTC#1, MC#1 Dec 2010, cycle 2, UCL35-40,CD13
Loola2shu TTC#3 Cycle 6 UCL35-38,CD35 postMC#2 UCL26-32, CD12
Meliesmummy TTC #2 cycle 2 CD10
harassedinherpants TTC#4, MC#3, UCL 28 or 31, WTF cycle, CD10
tokyotwist TTC#2 MC#1 Feb2011 CD9
vegasmum ttc#3 wttc ucl28-30 CD9
Youremindmeofthebabe TTC#2, Cycle 8 UCL33 CD6
Skitoo TTC#1, WTF CD?
Angela85 ttc#2 cycle 1 ucl ?

WTTC
Choccybick TTC#1 (post mc1) cycle 6 UCL 27
Mousebacon TTC#2 MC#2
MaybeBaby TTC#1 MC#1
babypops
WildSheepChase TTC#2 MC#6 Jan 2011, UCL 33-36
LadyBee TTC#2, UCL27
Brooke ttc#1? wttc ucl? WTF
Milkyway2007 ttc#? wttc ucl? WTF
jkklpu wtc ucl? WTF
securegal, TTC#1 MC#1 March 2011, WTF, UCL 28
Reallyusefulengine TTC#3 MC#Mar 2011, UCL 26-28 days
Freelancegirl ttc#2 WTF cycle ucl 28-38
Gimmegimmegimme ttc #3 mmc mar 11 ucl 28-32

MIA
BrownB TTC#1 cycle 1 (post MC2) UCL 24-26
Getawiggleon TTC#2, Cycle7 UCL28-32 (Lurking)

RECENT BFP's
Emoo TTC#2, Cycle 1 (post MC1) UCL 26-30, 30/1/11
DachshundsRule TTC#1 cycle 5 UCL28 CD32 BFP 25 Jan 2011
Tigger15 TTC#2 cycle 22 UCL24-9 CD30 BFP 16 Jan 2011
Pinkfondantfancy TTC#1, cycle 5, UCL 28-35 CD30 BFP!!
Lemonsherbert BFP 18 Jan 2011
HongKongBaby#2, cycle 5 (post mc1), UCL 37, CD31 BFP 18 Jan 2011
MamaPower TTC#1, cycle 5 (post MC#2) UCL 25- 27 CD29
Wombat33 TTC#1 Cycle 3 (post MC) UCL 31
PrettyQuichey TTC#1, (round 7) UCL 28-30
Lovebeingadaddysgirl TTC#? WTC cycle
GetDownYouWillFall TTC#2
KnitterNotTwitter TTC#2, MC#2, cycle 6 UCL 25-30 CD29 BFP 7/2/2011
Velvetcu TTC #1 Cycle 6 UCL 30-33, 18/2/11
MummyAbroad TTC #2, cycle 2 (Post AS Op)) BFP 23/02/11
Cep TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL24-28 BFP 24/2/11
Hils74 TTC#1 MC#1 Jan 2011 BFP 28/2/11
Ochaye TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 31 bfp 02/3/11
Ninunina TTC#1, MC#1, WTF cycle, bfp 09/03/11
Collie TTC#1 MC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 40 BFP 17/03/2011
Banana87, TTC#2, MC#3, UCL35-37 bfp 17/3/2011
IzzyWizzyletsgetbusy TTC#3 cycle 8 UCL 24-30 BFP 18/03/2011
Iggly TTC#2, UCL 29-31 bfp 18/3/11
Blackkat TTC#1, MC#1 Jan 2011, Cycle 1, UCLrandom CD32, BFP 30/3/2011

RECENT GRADUATES

VivClicquot BFP 25 August
Loopymumsy BFP 29 August
CaribouMoo BFP 7 September
StarflowerGirl BFP 24 Sep
Appleblossoms BFP 9 Oct
Littlemiss72
Urbanlolly BFP 1 Nov
Inbetweener BFP 10 Nov
Owlbooty BFP
Nickstermum BFP

Thinking of?

Digitalgirl, Hairytriangle and AandRmum xx

Just adding myself back on the list :)

Lurking for news from mumtum, hoping the FMU does the trick.

olis lovely to have you back here,

cep hope you had a good sleep and feel better?

mels hope you had a good night

Morning everyone

Hope everyone in here is doing ok today and good luck with getting your bfp

We've had some requests in the freak out room to move from bfp to grad if we feel ready and although I'm still freaking out I'm going to be brave and request that whoever posts the list next moves me from bfp to grads.

thinking of you mumtum

Also lurking for mumtum....