TTC a 2012 baby, this is our year !!!

[weimy]

I am about to start cycle 5 and wondered if there were any fellow sex pests out there who wanted to join me in regular swi, not so regular poas and plenty of , , and [chocolate emoticon].

well by the sounds of that he wont have time for popping any questions you will be far to busy dtd of course

ok... well since you have brought up the issue of dtd more often.... i am just wondering as this was a suggestion of my dp's too, as we 'now dont dtd as much as we used to' (i think he means no longer 4x a day ) The national adverage is 127 times a year. I no thats just some random stats but for the sake of my sanity would anyone like to share how often they think is enough while ttc?

Hehehe, I know that if you DTD too often there won't be as many little swimmers in there as they need time to build back up, I think the advice is every 2-3 days, especially when ovulating. However, with busy lives and demanding jobs, it's not always practical to DTD that often, and then there's always the risk of it becoming a bit scheduled and losing out on the romance....

I'm really excited, do you have any ideas when mr toddle will pop the question???

toddle, I posted a thread asking just that a little while ago!

We aim for every other day from day 8 and then every day when I think I am ovulating. Once my chart confirms a temp rise, we go back to whatever we feel like.

Hi everyone, haven't been on here for a week or so so just catching up with posts...

Congrats world and stuff on your BFPs! Really pleased for you both

Sorry to those who af got.

I'm loving the news of the impending proposals! Keep us posted girls!

Well CD18 here so no news from me, been trying to SWI as much as possible over the last week or so and about to start the 2ww. Its a weird feeling knowing it could have happened already but I need to wait two whole weeks to have it confirmed! FX!

Hope everyone is well and that you all had a nice weekend in the sun

Hi all

Has anyone started a new thread yet? I'm on cd21 so in the 1ww I usually start spotting 10/11 dpo through to AF so am due to start furtively checking my pants.

Love all this wedding news it's very exciting!!!

Hi everyone, sounds like everyone's doing well! I'm 4 dpo and have light cramping (or am imagining things!) very exciting, feels like it may be our month, we've done everything perfectly this month so fx!

Fx for you carlita!!!!

so.... you know how I said there was 0% chance of me getting pregnant this cycle? Well fertility friend changed it's mind about my ovulation date - moved it to CD14 (I actually think it should be CD13) and as we SWId on CD13 there is absolutely a chance. OK, it's not a big chance, just the one time when I was fertile, but it only takes one, right?

So there goes my fluffy relaxing fun 2 weeks of beer drinking in the sunshine and not thinking about babies! (We are trying to relax and have a nice time though - had a lazy weekend and treated ourselves to dinner out in town on Sunday night).

I've been approached by a friend of DPs to do some freelance work on a start-up he's involved with, so am actually going to (hopefully) be working at least part time for a little bit - which should help distract me! Have only done 2 weeks work in the last 2.5 years so am a bit nervous - but am quite looking forward to it! Met with another start-up yesterday but the guy running it was completely nuts (refuses to do any planning!!) so I ran away!

I'm 6(or7)DPO right now and trying to resist the urge to symptom spot (although I think DP quite likes it when I sit grabbing at my breasts trying to work out if they're tender, or if it's just the muscles behind them aching from squash!!)

Love the idea of "furtively checking pants" weimy - mental image of you at a bus stop trying to catch a glimpse of things without people realising!! ;)

Exciting news Toddle & Babybrain! Do keep us updated!

Carlita - that's so great - shall keep my fingers crossed for you!

threads are full at 1000 posts right? So we've got a little way to go, but I guess someone should start a new one soon? Weimy, do you want the honours? After all, you started this thread and it turned out all friendly & lovely! :)

Is there a risk of these threads turning nasty? I can't imagine that! lol

Well, I think I should be ovulating about nowish but loads of SWI hasn't helped so far so I'm chilling out now and not trying to get all overbearing, obsessed and pushy and ruin our sexlife over it!

lol trope thats such a funny thought and far too vivid!!!

Good luck with SWI Rosiy

FX carlita and trope!

I am quite happy for someone else to take the plunge and start the thread

Really think it should be you weimy, you did so well with this one!

Oh, I'm fed up, why is it that the week I am ovulating, dp is having an extremely stressful time at work??? It's not looking good for us this month:( so much for DTD more often..

Hello folks, would you mind if I joined in? I've just found this thread and it is a delight to read thoughts of like minded people. Thank you!!

I have one daughter,nearly 3, who took a whole 3 agonising years to conceive owing to PCOS. I was on the IVF list but conceived naturally to my absolute joy. I know how absolutely lucky I am and any second conception will be a big bonus :) It doesn't stop it hurting every time someone else conceives at the drop of a hat though!! V selfish!

I've been trying again since Sep 10 and didn't find ovulation point using Clearblue sticks for a few months, so went to GP who did two 21 day blood tests - the first which showed no ovulation, the second which did. He's asked me to try again until Sep (when I will turn 37) and then he will refer me to hosp, hopefully for some kind of help ovulating - Clomid??

I really appreciate how responsive he was, but he did say 'Well, I don't really believe in PCOS'. Not v helpful after trying to manage this condition for 6 years!

Anyhoo, the stats!

I have always been spot on 28 days, apart from coming of the pill donkeys years ago but in May my cycle was 38 days, I was convinced I was pregnant but was not, obv. The cycle after that was 26 days, just to keep me on my toes! To date I am on day 23, due on Monday 11th July and I've just had a couple of light pink spots when wiping. I am hoping they are the mythical implantation spots, but in my heart I am so grumpy today I know my AF must be due - bah.

Please may I get on the bus? waves ticket, offers round Krispy Kremes

ps. babybrain3 I've had the exact same with my dh and there is nothing worse. We had serious words on holiday and this month he came home early every night. Fingers crossed for you xx

shona that's a, ahem, novel approach from your GP.....

I'm just popping in briefly to update my stats (Peapop, I have moved you down in the order so your dates are in the right place):

Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 29 days AF due 2nd July
JamaicanSunshine (?) TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 30-60days AF due 1st July
Wouldbemum (32) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 26-34 days AF due 4th July approx
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days AF due 4th July
BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 39 daysish (if the last was anything to go by) AF due 9th July
Trope (32) TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL 24-27 days-ish AF due 11th July(ish)
Freedom2011 (33) TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 32-45 days AF due 15th July
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30 days AF due 17th July
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 30-32days AF due 18th July
Weimy 35 ttc1 cycle 8 UCL 26-29 days
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL-28 days AFdue-?
Shobbs (24), TTC#1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Poppyjen (29) TTC#2 Cycle 1 post mc UCL ? AF due ? (will update later)
Mememummy (23) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL ? AF due ASAP
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 3, UCL 28, AF due 20th July
Peapop (28) TTC #1 Cycle 4 UCL 28-35 AF due 24 July ish
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 8, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 29-30 July(ish)

RosyRosie?

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3 (post mc in feb)

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28thcle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 2nd June

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Can i join you please!!!
I'm TTC #2 and have been trying for 17months! I'm 34 now and really want to concieve by the time i'm 35 (next January). It's getting me down as every month goes on now, so a bit of support and friendly banter might perk me up a bit!!!

UCL is 32 days, ADF due 24th July

Welcome newbies!!!

Well I just mentioned it to dp and he thought it was next week, typical!!! Well I think if we DTD tonight we may still be in with a chance....

Eventually updating :L.... think ive added twinkle and shona in the stats right but sorry if messed something up.

And i have a sneaking suspicion that mr toddle went out to buy a ring today

Wouldbemum (32) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 26-34 days AF due 4th July approx
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days AF due 4th July
BraveGirl (37) TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL 39 daysish (if the last was anything to go by) AF due 9th July
Trope (32) TTC#1 Cycle 4 UCL 24-27 days-ish AF due 11th July(ish)
Shonajg (36) TTC#2 Cycle 11 UCL 28 days AF due 11th july
Freedom2011 (33) TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 32-45 days AF due 15th July
Carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30 days AF due 17th July
Lugsie (26) TTC#1 Cycle 5 UCL 30-32days AF due 18th July
Babybrain3 (28),TTC #3, Cycle 3, UCL 28 days, AF due 20th July
Tw1nkle (34) TTC#2 Cycle 17 UCL 32 days AF due 24th July
Peapop (28) TTC #1 Cycle 4 UCL 28-35 AF due 24 July ish
Eurochick (35) TTC#1 Cycle 8, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 29-30 July(ish)
Toddle (20) TTC#1 Cycle 6 UCL 20 days AF due 30th July
Weimy 35 TTC#1 Cycle 8 UCL 26-29 days
Gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL-28 days AFdue-?
Shobbs (24), TTC#1, 33DY Cycle,
Molly Defoe (31), TTC#1, Cycle 3, UCL 32 days, AF due ?
Poppyjen (29) TTC#2 Cycle 1 post mc UCL ? AF due ? (will update later)
Mememummy (23) TTC#2 Cycle 1 UCL ? AF due ASAP

RosyRosie?

Not Counting
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update
Levana (31) TTC#1
vegasmum ttc#3 cycle 3 (post mc in feb)

MIA
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
BabysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
Kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28thcle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd ma
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
Orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
Fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 2 UCL GOD KNOWS AF due 25th May (as i have noticed luteal phase, i think!)
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 30 days AF due 2nd June
Emmaloupolman (28) TTC#2 Cycle 21 UCL 28 - 45 day due 19th June
JamaicanSunshine (?) TTC#1 Cycle 1 UCL 30-60days AF due 1st July

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How exciting! The ring I mean, not that we appear to be cycle buddies.

Well eurochick now i take offence its like you dont want to be cycle buddies

Its very exciting :). I have a feeling it will be when we are away for the week but then his waiting three weeks for something . So well i think.... haha im a idiot its three weeks when we will be away it must be it surely. Well ill feel like a idiot if its not know lol.

That's really good news toddle keep us posted, I know you will!!!!

AF any day now...definately no chance of BFP this month - just occasional SWI and not in the right time zone sadly.
Fingers crossed to those awaiting rings - tis a very happy moment to be remebered! I plan to surprise DH with a surprise night out tomorrow night...babysitter is booked, table awaits, but I will be driving! It might at least make up for the arrival of AF!

Maybe you will be the one being surprised bravegirl if you get a bfp when you're not expecting one! Here's hoping anyway... Fx

grrr spotting, I'm out ...... again :(

Going to take a break girls. FX for you all I will probably lurk to see how you are doing xxxxx

Ah, sorry to hear about the spotting Weimy.