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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC a 2012 baby, this is our year !!!

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weimy · 24/03/2011 13:22

I am about to start cycle 5 and wondered if there were any fellow sex pests out there who wanted to join me in regular swi, not so regular poas and plenty of Wine, Biscuit, Brew and [chocolate emoticon].

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Liliana1 · 26/04/2011 09:55

Morning poppy sorry to hear you are having a down day, don't worry - here is the place to say all those things you can't / don't say !! Hope things start happening soon xxx

eurochick · 26/04/2011 10:13

Well acupuncture seems to have really messed with me. I've been using OPKs for 4 months now and each cycle I have had a one day positive followed by ov pain (followed by, for the months I have been temping, a temp rise). I have had two acupuncture sessions and have just had a three day LH surge, a few twinges but no sustained ov pain like I usually get and no temp rise yet. :( Iam now on CD19 and am not sure what is happening.

I have another appointment tomorrow so perhaps I will be able to find out then what is going on.

MorningCoffee · 26/04/2011 13:48

Afternoon everyone, hope your all ok?

Hope your feeling slightly better poppyjen, this whole process can be so so stressful, i actually have my ds and dd and never had much problem or even thought about it much, this time i feel very stressed already and its only the beginning not sure why this is this time round maybe putting more pressure on ourselves.

Dp actually brought some ovulation things yesterday, have never used them before and dont undrestand them much Confused

Still no af here, don't know what is going on just a waiting game Sad

Can't wait to actually have a af and start from the beginning as at the moment i dont know where i am in my cycle or what is going on which i think is causeing all my no patience and stressyness Wink

TreacleChops · 26/04/2011 14:43

Hiya girlies....

Sorry i've been away from the forums for a while..... been really really busy and i had a bit of a break down over TTCing, it's just too much for me and i started getting so stressed out!!!

both myself and my DP have decided to stop with all the counting and the charting and the reading every little sign because it was stressing me out too much on top of everything else thats going on in our lives at the moment!!! so instead we're just SWI and not thinking about it as much so it means that we don't feel like we've failed.

To add to the orignial pressure, i dont have regular cycles and i'm on CD 35 and still 0 show of anything argh!!

eggyweggy · 26/04/2011 16:46

Hi everyone, mind if I gatecrash your bus? Have been lurking for a while, but only had my coil removed on Wednesday, so I guess I am right at the start... Have no idea where I am in my cycle as haven't had AF for about 5 years since I had my coil.... Here goes I guess...

toddle · 26/04/2011 17:01

Hello :). Been away and wow theres lots of posts to catch up on. I POAS this morning and was negative AF still hasnt arrived but hey. No doubt will be peeing on another stick shortly unless AF arrives soon

75sarah · 26/04/2011 17:26

treaclechops, I've come to exactly the same decision. Ttc is driving me mad so next month we're not bothering with any of the charts/ monitors etc etc. See if anything happens...
Good luck x

emmaloupolman · 26/04/2011 21:09

CD 16 Getting alot of hot flushes 2nite

Carlitawantsababy · 26/04/2011 21:22

Hi everyone! Just a little farewell message as my wedding is fast approaching (Friday) and off to Thailand for honeymoon on Saturday for three weeks so won't be around for a while. I hope to come back to lots and lots of BFPs on the thread! Can't wait to start TTC on Friday! Will let you all know when I'm back. Happy shagging! Wink

emmaloupolman · 26/04/2011 21:24

Congrats i am getting married in June hope i have a bfp when u return x

Imo1 · 26/04/2011 21:30

Hi there, AF got me on Saturday so I'm now on the 2012 bus. TTC #2, cycles 27-32 days. Starting with the CBFM this month as the strip test never seem to work for me - just watching the pennies fall out of my purse!

OBeSomeOtherName · 26/04/2011 22:06

Hi everyone. Sorry to hear about the unwanted visits from AF. Really hope we get some BFPs soon!

Carlita hope you and DH (eek! Wink) have an amazing time and congratulations!

I'm on boring old CD9 so bugger all to report from me. Though have just realised that I've somehow got the wrong date for when AF is next due so I'll correct that now. Feeling a lot more level headed this cycle, although I'm reserving the right to go stark raving bonkers come the 2ww! Grin

Good luck ladies!

Poulette ttc1, cycle 2, UCL 28?days, BFP
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
TreacleChops TTC#1 cycle 2 UCL god knows! estimated AF 20th April (ish- will be able to up date stats once i've noticed Luteal phase)
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
babysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
Toddle (20) ttc#1 cycle3 ucl 24days AF due 23rd April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28th April
Levana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30days AF 30 April
wgm72 (34) TTC#3 cyle 2 ucl 28days AF due 30th april
wouldbemumandotherstuff (32) TTC#1, cycle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
MollyDefoe (31) TTC#1, Cycle 2 UCL 31-34 days, AF due 1st May
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 cycle2 UCL28days AF due 2nd May
Poppyjen (29) TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL ? AF due 2nd May (ish)
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd may
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
eurochick (35) ttc#1 Cycle 5, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 5/6 May(ish)
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
ghosteditor (27) ttc#1 cycle 4 ucl 26-28 days due 7th May
emmaloupolman (28) ttc#2 cycle 20 28 - 35 day due 7th may
Tanif (25) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30 days AF due 8th May
orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Whitegold (26) ttc#1 cycle3 ucl 30days AF due 19th May
carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30 days AF due 19th May
UtterlyMonkey (34), TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 31-32 days, still BD - now on alternate days; AF due 15 or 22 May? I think?
trope, (32) ttc#1 cycle2 ucl 23-27 days AF due circa 22nd May
OBeSomeOtherName (23) TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL 38days AF due 26th May
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update stats
gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
D0gface(24)ttc#1 Had an early mc late last month, so not sure when af will arrive
shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY cycle,
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill

TreacleChops · 27/04/2011 11:07

75 sarah i'm glad it's not just myself that feels like all the charting and looking out for every detail is making me go doo lally tap!!!

good luck for you too chick, i've my fingers secretly crossed ;)

Ive updated my stats too :D

Poulette ttc1, cycle 2, UCL 28?days, BFP
JustShaggingForNow (28) TTC#1, Cycle -1 UCL 29/30 days, AF due 15th April
EsmeWeatherwax (39) ttc #3, cycle 1, ucl 31 days, AF due 19th April.
MickyLee TTC#3 Cycle2 UCL-28days AFdue-22nd April
babysadeTTC#1 cycle 4,UCL 31-33 days, AF is due 24th april (ish).
kittycat(25) TTC#3, cycle 1, UCL ?, AF due 24h April
Toddle (20) ttc#1 cycle3 ucl 24days AF due 23rd April
75sarah (35) ttc#1 cycle 3 UCL 28 days AF dues 27th April
Byrnsie30 (30) TTC #1, AF due 28th April
Levana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30days AF 30 April
wgm72 (34) TTC#3 cyle 2 ucl 28days AF due 30th april
wouldbemumandotherstuff (32) TTC#1, cycle 4, ucl 26-39, AF due April 30th??
Liliana (31) TTC#1 Cycle 5 ucl 28 (ish) AF due 1st May
MollyDefoe (31) TTC#1, Cycle 2 UCL 31-34 days, AF due 1st May
BoogiesBunny (28) TTC#1 cycle2 UCL28days AF due 2nd May
Poppyjen (29) TTC#2 Cycle 2 UCL ? AF due 2nd May (ish)
Naynay80(30)ttc baby 2 circle 2 ucl28 days AF due 3rd may
Dreamingofabump (28) TTC#1 Cycle1 ucl27days Af due 5th May
Treaclechops (25) TTC #1 Cycle 3 ucl god know's AF due 5th May (ish)(think i've noticed Luteal phase?!)
eurochick (35) ttc#1 Cycle 5, UCL 25-30 days, AF due 5/6 May(ish)
Woody17 TTC#1 UCL36days AF due 7th May
ghosteditor (27) ttc#1 cycle 4 ucl 26-28 days due 7th May
emmaloupolman (28) ttc#2 cycle 20 28 - 35 day due 7th may
Tanif (25) TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL 30 days AF due 8th May
orangehead (33) TTC#3 cycle 4 UCL 25-27 AF DUE 10th May
fr00tbat TTC#1, Cycle ? ucl 31-38 due 12th May.
Whitegold (26) ttc#1 cycle3 ucl 30days AF due 19th May
carlitawantsababy (29) TTC#1 cycle 1 UCL 30 days AF due 19th May
UtterlyMonkey (34), TTC#1, cycle 2 UCL 31-32 days, still BD - now on alternate days; AF due 15 or 22 May? I think?
trope, (32) ttc#1 cycle2 ucl 23-27 days AF due circa 22nd May
OBeSomeOtherName (23) TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL 38days AF due 26th May
Summerbird73 TTC#2 Awaiting next AF after recent MC - will then update stats
gonerogue TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL-28days AFdue-?
D0gface(24)ttc#1 Had an early mc late last month, so not sure when af will arrive
shobbs 24, TTC 1, 33DY cycle,
MorningCoffee (29) TTC#3 cycle 1 UCL 28 days - awaiting AF after stopping pill

75sarah · 27/04/2011 11:25

Congratulations and good luck, Emma. A honeymoon baby soudns fantastic.
Fx to everyone else who's testing soon
Thanks, treaclechops. I'm rocking to and fro in a manic way as I type Wink . Af due this morning but no sign. It's never late but then I know from reading other ladies experiences that your body can play some pretty mean tricks. Not getting af this morning - and I did wake at least 6 times in the night to check my knickers! - has made me really happy...so I'm not doing a preg test to ruin it. buries head deeply into the sand Smile

Poppyjen · 27/04/2011 14:29

Strange one for you ladies...after my extremely down day yesterday I had the urge to POAS for some reason, incredibly frustrated by constant EWCM but no ovulation detected....anyway I have run out of ovulation sticks so I did a pregnancy one just for the hell of it.

I think I saw a line.

Very faint but there in the time limit (on internet cheapy) and same again this morning. If I hadn't done ovulation tests which show up with a line even if it is not positive (green end instead of blue IYKWIM) then I probably wouldn't notice it but there it was.

Haven't told DH yet as I may just be seeing things. Went to Superdrug to buy some of their early tests as I have heard good things about them (on 3 for 2 as well) so we'll see what the next few days bring. I have run out of internet cheapies now so can't do any more obsessing for a bit, at least with the "posh" tests it is allegedly less ambiguous.

Trying not to get my hopes up as this is very weird timing and I could just be going mad... Confused

75sarah · 27/04/2011 14:39

A line is a line is a line as they say!
Are you holding off doing a 'posh' one for now?
Fingers crossed (or should that be an early, Congratulations!)
Smile

Poppyjen · 27/04/2011 14:45

Thanks 75 I am going to try to hold it in for the next few hours and do one this afternoon Smile and will of course use FMU tomorrow morning.

Really feeling a bit underwhelmed right now as I feel a bit like I can't trust my eyes... Confused what a rollercoaster...

Also its crazy timing as I have a doctors appointment tomorrow morning as I freaked out a bit at the weekend when during my cervical position checking antics I felt a small hard lump on the opening of my cervix Shock so will have to admit to crazy POAS addiction and seeing things that aren't there to the good doctor.... Blush

Liliana1 · 27/04/2011 17:55

Have fabulous weddings Carlita and Emma 9 and hopefully homeymoon babies!)

Feel kind of pregnant but that could be a million things inc AF. Gone off food - aren't you supposed to be more hungry? Have Amazon internet cheapies and POAS (not due till sun / mon) and no line in the gap, but was pink under the bottom bit so peeled it back and there is a line - but in the wrong place!? What does this mean? Is it reacting to the glue or whatever holds the things together? - I know it's also early, will someone stop me obsessing please?!

Fx for you poppy and sarah

weimy · 27/04/2011 19:33

Hi all! Been lurking for a while.

Welcome to the newcomers :) and fx for those about to poas Grin Sorry to those who 'she' got :(

I'm having a wobble so have decided to stop charting poas and swi for a bit so I can sort my head out. I will keep my seat warm though!

xxxx

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Poppyjen · 27/04/2011 19:40

Hi weimy

Well I just POAS after holding on for 4 1/2 hours - nothing. I guess last night's IC line was a phantom. Back to limbo for me Confused I will POAS with FMU tomorrow morning just to be sure but then I will be holding off until Tues at the earliest.

and my car failed its MOT.

Sad
DreamingOfABump · 27/04/2011 19:43

wow sudden rush of action, hope all those with ??lines will be back soon with some BFP's to report, its very exciting!!

toddle · 27/04/2011 19:48

well ive POAS well many recently and nothing dont have the usual af symptoms but im going to try holding of peeing on another stick untill friday may even invest it a posh swanky one not rateing this ebay cheapy ones that highly i dont think. fx for everyone else :)

Poppyjen · 27/04/2011 20:11

Oh forgot to say Liliana the pink bit I think you are talking about is the bit under the flap that attaches the absorbant bit...the dye collects there on the adhesive I think, the lines should both be on the smooth white bit so I would guess not a BFP (yet) I am afraid.

The internet cheapie tests drive you crazy if you let them (I too have succumbed). Best way to know what to look for is to get some cheapie ovulation tests - these will show you what a faint positive looks like as they show up two lines even if they are "negative". You will see then that even if you have a faint positive it will be the same width as the control line and will be visible without too much squinting and holding it upside down standing on your head with your back to the sun and directly over a light source....which of course I have never done .... Blush Wink

Good luck!

Liliana1 · 27/04/2011 21:06

Thank you so much poppy. I know it's too early but couldn't help myself and then bits of pink everywhere .... it's too much!! So glad I can stop second guessing. Holding off POAS till Friday as might actually tell me something useful then. I can't imagine what you mean about the squinting, tipping to the light, getting a magnifying glass ...!
Sorry to hear about your car :( I have picked up my new (to me) 5 door 'family' car yesterday - hoping I will have the family to put in it soon!

toddle if nothing happens by Monday I will be investing in a posh swanky one too - maybe even one that says 'pregnant / not pregnant' so there is no confusion :)

weimy sorry to hear about your wobble, hope you are ok xx

toddle · 27/04/2011 21:39

liliana the same here not doing it again until friday. we must be thinking pretty similar as i peeled mine appart today too and yeah theres a pink line where the absorbant pad thing stops. fingers crossed for us both to have some nice bold lines/pregnant words appearing on ffriday :)

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