TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

[maddyd]

May this be a lucky lucky thread for us all. xxxx

Diddle & Lottie and Humphreys corner, leave your baby dust before exiting this thread please.

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lol, its terrible isnt it.

The only difference between me & u, is I'm determined I cant be pg yet because I've had no af for nearly 6 wks (pill etc) so therefore in my mind until I get my first af I cant be pg and thats what I keep telling myself to stop me reading my symptoms! LOL

God if any outsider (ie a bloke) read this thread they would think that we are crazy and in my case they wouldnt be that far from the truth lol!!! i got a lovely little room booked for me in a little home i think they said the decor consisted mainly of padding

oh yeh I know the one. They tend to make you wear lovely warm coats, only prob is they hurt your arms abit dont they

hi ladies

maddyd - sorr about your bfn, but i know you know it may be too early and there is still hope, just so long as you get in that gorgeous wedding dress you'll be fine.

carly - Congrats hun, well done you, sounds very positive, but i would definitly do a test tomorrow too.

Had my visit with the midwife, didn't get me an early scan I have to wait until 11 wks, as apparently for dating purposes they wouldn't be able to measure accurately enough, what a load of rubbish i want it for reassurance not dating. So as i'm only 7 1/2 wks i think if we get to 9 wks we will book another private scan. Anyway she did all my paperwork and sent me home with my green pregnancy book so i'm happy for now.

hope everyone else is ok.
Mums - mortgages confuse the hell out of me, hope you manage to get the one you want though.

Diddle - Can't believe that after you've had 2 m/c's they won't give you a reassurance scan. Bas**rds. I'd be tempted to invent a small bleed though I know that it's a horrid thing to do and is almost like tempting fate.
Meant to say sorry about your granddad.

oh I'm so happy for you diddle. I remember my green book, I read it 10 x dozen times, so interesting.

Think we can get the mortgage we want but its £528 per month. Which we can afford but you know, it would be nicer if it was lower

MW do you mean the ones with the funny buckles on? lol
DIDDLE i think you should go back to your m/w and tell her the scan is more for reassurance than measurement, if she still doesnt agree i would def pay for a private scan if only for piece of mind

yeh, they dig in a bit dont they. ever so comfortable leaning on the walls tho isnt it?

MW lol
am going to love you and leave you all for a while got to do some shopping (of the boring variety not retail!) i will pop on later byyeee!!!

thanks spub - think i'm in total shock about grandad, cried a lot when we were with him when he went, but since then i haven't really criedm which is not like me i normally cry at nothing. so i think its gonna hit me at the funeral.

Told the midwife the scan was for reassurance, but she advised we got a private one, useless, but at least i know we'll get one.

just before i go diddle i read on another thread that your grandfather passed away just wanted to say how very sorry i am and my thoughts are with you and your family

see you later carly and congrats

Diddle - can you not make them give you one? I thought thats what the NHS promised if you mc'd twice?

thanks carly, been a tough year for me, be glad when its over

mums - they don't promise, and i think she might have given me one if i hadn't had one friday, but i had to tell her about it because she knew started bleeding. oh well as long as i get one, i don't mind at least with a private one i can go on the weekend.

Oh Did's - I didnt know your grandad had died, I'm so sorry. I hope your ok.

its ok mums - he passed away saturday night, me and mom were with him, it was very peaceful, and the best thing for him really, he was unhappy and very poorly. his body wasn't strong enough to fight the infections he kept getting, so he got more and more, the hospital did all they could for him, and we were expecting him to go at some point.
Still sad though.

I'm glad he went peacefully. I'm sure he's happier up there then if he kept getting infections. Maybe he's looking after your lost children? Is your nan still alive? How is she takin it?

nope nan passed away last Dec, so they can look after a baby each. thats how i like to imagine them.

Well at least they're back together now. I'm sure they're enjoying it. I'm glad you can be happy when you think of them.

I'll be glad when this bloody years over too!!!.......
Hey girls,soz about earlier...have my moments now and then(nothing to do with any of you,don't wori!)
Am really up and down about going to work next tues!Its scarey stuff huh!!?Its like everything will have to go back to normal?but things really aren't normal anymore are they!?I had initially not planned to go back atall,was going to focus on the baby for awhile,so had kinda put the place behind me.Now i find myself childless,2 stone heavier(although have lost 8lbs over last 3 weeks..weight watchers!),and nothing to show for it!...I'm really sorry for moaning,is it just me or do any of you get this too!?
Anyway would love a chat,so whos around out of you mad lot?
Carly:thats great news babe,best of luck,you know we're all here for you.x.x.xHope your doing ok.x

Soz...agree with diddle on the crap year thing!!.x

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Yeah will be difficult,i reckon though after the initial 'settling back in',i should be ok,its just doing it,making the first step thats gonna be hard.x
I can't wait for the new year.x
Am getting prettyorganised with the christmas shopping at the mo too!Want december to be totally stress free so i can concentrate on more important things!!,(want good news for the new year!).x.x