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9DPO. Anyone else given up hope of BFP already this month?

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poutintrout · 28/02/2011 09:06

Title says it all really. Am 9DPO and already feel out this month. Don't feel any different to any other fail month just have my usual PMT grumps arriving bang on cue and the usual sore boob (not even two sore boobs so I can at least pretend that it might be a pg "symptom" and have something to fixate on Smile).

Feel totally fed up and already dreading the disappointment of AF showing up and yet more shagging!

Just wondered if anybody else was in the same boat and feels like a rant.

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TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 11:01

Rant away hun.
I am over a week late and showing BFN but no sign of coming on. Grrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!

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poutintrout · 28/02/2011 11:09

A week late and still a BFN, that beats me in the right to rant stakes!

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TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 11:12

Haha. Its rather irritating to say the least but sod it, what will be will be and all that jazz...
Done 4 teasts over the last 2 weeks and all negs so where is the evil period?????

TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 11:16

tests

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poutintrout · 28/02/2011 11:27

Since TTC I have obviously lost my sanity and imagine my AF in hideous physical form slinking up the lane where we live...bonkers I know and probably not something I should admit to or say out loud!!!

You are almost definitely saner than me and not currently searching the shed for your AF!

I'm not an expert on AFs missing in action but maybe you are one of these ladies who take longer to show up on a test?? Surely a week late is a very promising sign.

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TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 11:33

Ah, but so long as you havent been out looking forit then the world is good...

Thats what I wonder, I have two boys already and they were both neg results, but can't remember quite how far I was when they showed.

helenlouisey · 28/02/2011 12:44

I'm with you, 8DPO and certain that we've had no success this month. So depressing now waiting till Sunday for AF to arrive :(

laughinglemons · 28/02/2011 13:50

arranged to spend last week (half term0 with my sister and her kids ages ago - turned out that was over my fertile days, so a wasted month on the baby making front. to add to the misery if we dont get a BFP in march or april, i will be at least 36 when / if i ever become a mummy.

katherine2008 · 28/02/2011 13:58

i'm with you - AF due tomorrow so tested today - bfn. am already thinking about all that shagging all over again in 2 week's time! makes me feel tired already...!

TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 21:50

Hahaha, tired of shagging, how true. Only so much we can take hey??

pozzled · 28/02/2011 21:58

OP, don't give up yet. When my period was due in September I was absolutely convinced that it hadn't hadn't happened for us that month. Even when I was two days late I was really annoyed, I wanted AF to show up so we could get on with TTC for the next month. A couple of days later my boobs were feeling really sore... I'm due in June! Hope you get your BFP soon as well.

TreeHuggerMum1 · 28/02/2011 22:00

Haven't given up hope just yet, even if the test is neg, mean test obviously. Until the crimson tide arrives I won't give up hope.

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poutintrout · 01/03/2011 09:08

Congratulations Pozzled. Your story means that I can carry on pouring over the Mothercare website has given me hope!

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Newgolddream · 01/03/2011 09:40

Im 11 dpo and know Im out because I chart and for the last 2 days my temperature has fell, a sure sign AF is on the way. So bloody depressing, onto cycle 10.
And I can totally identify with the "oh no" feeling towards the swi!

TreeHuggerMum1 · 01/03/2011 15:04

Hahaha, so funny to see we all dread the constant shagging.
Another 24 hrs has passed and still no crimson tide, so maybe maybe or is it al just in my head.
ARGH!!!
Have waited my obligatory 3 days and shall retest tomorrow...

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poutintrout · 01/03/2011 15:08

Good luck TreeHuggerMum! Let us know how you get on.

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katherine2008 · 01/03/2011 15:27

is here the place to discuss embarrassing ways we have tried to tantalise our dp with our womanly charms? my favourite is when on Day 4 of swi I put on a porn video for dh, for him to look quizzically at me and say 'I didn't know you were into porn'. dur!

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poutintrout · 01/03/2011 15:51

I'm guessing that comment rather killed the mood Katherine!

Have rather lost my mojo after TTC for the best part of a year. My idea of titillation these days is wearing matching socks. Recently DP did offer to buy me cake as an incentive to do the deed. Pity the poor man Grin

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Bexamundo · 02/03/2011 06:54

I'm in, temp had dropped below cover line last two days and have been dropping things, sure sign af is on her way. Since ttc Dh has gone off sex.:( love the porn idea! He'd see right through ne though!

katherine2008 · 02/03/2011 12:31

It's weird isn't it how our dear other halves were generally desperate for more sex, UNTIL we actually need them to do the blinking deed! Ah well, perserverance and all that Wink

aMuminwaiting · 23/02/2012 13:50

I know this thread was a long time ago but 'My idea of titillation these days is wearing matching socks' is now my new Facebook status. Brilliant :)

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