The All New Hut of Gloom

[hairyfairylights]

As I can't find the other one.

hairyfairylights Mon 24-Jan-11 12:50:51

Hi, all. I just need to write this down

I am petrified. I am 4+3 and have had two MC last year.

Ihave not got sore boobs and I haven't felt sick since Saturday.

I am starting to think this pregnancy is not progressing.

I am so scared. I have blood tests on Weds and a scan on Fri 4th.

Why does this have to happen to me?
Why can't I be lucky?

I just feel like walking out of work and going home to cry.

GAH! Hut of Doom!

Hi Hairyfairylights,

First of all, take a deep breath and try to stop worrying. I'm fairly new to this ttc, but have been reading everything I can get my hands on.

Every pregnancy is different, so if it feels different to the last, don't worry - symptoms apparently come and go.

Have you been charting your temperature? If so, see if you've had a dip or anything.

Only other thing I can suggest is if it is preying on your mind is to go and see the doc early.

Fingers crossed for you xxx

Hairy - oi, you. Calm down, breathe deeply, please try not to stress (I know I am asking the impossible here). It is very, very early days and very, very common to have symptoms that randomly don't do what they are supposed to do.

You are doing all the right things. You've got your tests lined up ready. All you can do now is get through one day at a time. I had far worse symptoms with the mc than I ever have with the one that seems to be progressing so please don't think the worst just yet - I spent most of the two weeks after the bfp in tears thinking it was about to end any minute. This is a shitty, stressful time and god knows you've had enough of that already but hopefully this will get better as time progresses.

Hope that Wednesday gives you some reassuring results xx

Thank you so much. I've poas (again) and at this point
I'm still pregnant.

I am so scared it's not going to progress like the first one didn't.

Only time will tell.

Have calmed diwn a bit

My last pregnancy was a mmc at 8.5 weeks and symptoms were very strong from the start, so I suppose I'm using that as a yard stick

tah dah

I know that at this point theres not much I can say xx

Oh hairy first of all congrats on your pregnancy I hadn't seen your bfp anywhere. It must be very scary but remember it is very early to be getting symptoms, plenty of people don't get them till nearer 6 weeks.
Is pointless telling you not to worry because I would be beside myself too if I was pg again.
Theres no point wasting money on loads of sticks. They can't tell you much apart from what you know, ie that you are pregnant.
Wishing you all the best with your tests this week. After what you have been through it is surely your turn for better luck.
Am looking forward to hopefully hearing good news from you at the weekend. Fingers firmly crossed x

thanks Kat.

I have now done a clear blue digital which tells me 2-3 weeks post conception, which is right according to my dates (Im four weeks 3 days today).

Just got to make it through each day.

thanks everyone for helping me today, i was sitting at my desk crying when I wrote the first post, but I feel heaps better now.