:( disappionted

[Kimmie30]

Hey girlies

So disappionted. Trying for baby number 4 and was so excited about being a week late but started my period today which so nicely waited til about 5 mins after i took a pregnancy test to rear it's ugly head. Obviously the pregnancy test was negative.

I am trying my hardest not to be disheartened but a little bit of me just cannot understand. My first 2 children were unplanned and my 3rd i fell pregnant on the second month of trying. This time nothing yet.

I know nobody has any answers, it is just nice to come on here and rant! :)

Aww rant away! It is good to let it out! Last month I cried when the test was negative, I had convinced myself I was pregnant! It is so annoying how long it takes!! I though it would be easy!!! Didn't realise it was so hard!!!

Sorry to hear that, I hope next month is the month.All I can say really is maybe try taking some pressure of yourself (if you can) as you said you concieved your first 2 children and they were not planned.

Maybe it is because you are expecting it to happen! Things always happen when you least expect it.

Anyway good luck :)

Its so disappointing isn't it ?!when I was trying to concieve #2 is took me 9 months, my first, one month, 3 months after trying for #2 i had a positive result after 2 weeks of a missed period and AF came the next day...early miscarriage i think, was devestaed and thought it would never happen. Got really fed up and said this was my last month of trying th DH and then I was going back on the pill as I couldn't cope with the stress of it all, had sex twice in the last month of trying and low and behold it happened !You will get there you have prove x 3 that you can do it ! Good Luck!

Awwwww thank you so much girlies. It is so nice to come on here and have support. I absolutely thought i was pregnant this month. I think i had obsessed about it so much that i had tricked my own body into thinking i was! I just wish i could switch off! I can't believe how long each month seems. I confided in one of my friends and she said why can't i just be happy with the 3 i have! I am so happy with the 3 i have but i want to add another one to my family! Once again thank you girlies xxx

No problem, it is sometimes nice to get it off your chest, and there is nothing wrong with wanting to add a new addition to your family.I do hope its good news soon x