please someone talk sense to me and stop a phantom

[secretlywishing]

i had the symptoms, the tingly boobs, cm, nausea and overwheling urge to sleep. just like i did with my ds.
i still havent got my af, just spotting every so slightly,which is strange as im normally really heavy

and yet the tests say No

i feel like crying sod it i am crying.

dh thinks its stress, he could be right, but all the other signs .... i dont know

nurse wants me to submit a urnine test, but the digital clearblue just keeps saying not pregnant so i dont know why i need to still put a sample in

sorry for moaning, :(

xx

When was AF due and when did you start spotting?

Could be too early and the hormones haven't risen yet - fingers crossed for you! xx

hi princess, i was moaning in the preg forum n u replied:-)

i was af friday/saturday, started spotting saturday (or friday lost track)

im just gutted the test i have just done has come back neg, i just got my hopes up with all the symptoms

gutted is definately the word

thanks replying
xx

Hi, how are you feeling now? Sorry things aren't clear yet. I'm going through something similar, loads of pg symptoms, really sore boobs from middle of cycle, but just did a sensitive (and expensive) clear blue digital test: 'Not Pregnant' - depressing! Was really convinced. Am due on today. Trying not to maintain hope, or worry that it could be something else up. Had a really weird period last month too. Humph. Bodies! Seemed as soon as I started TTC,my body went all weird! hope you get some clarity soon.

I went through something similar last month - I had all the symptoms, but neg tests, and even when AF came I convinced myself I possibly was still pg cos I felt really bloated which I never do on a period.

I have taken steps to preserve my sanity this month, and have bought a fertility thermometer which should be a more reliable guide than my oh so sore boobs (which I never experienced before ttc).

Good luck secretlywishing, I hope it did turn out positive... if not, start charting!

xx

I am in exactly the same boat!! I was convinced I had spotting just before xmas because it was soo light but all neg tests!!!! I have bulk bought BOGOF first response tests from boots online now so I can test as much as I want as I am so impatient!!!

I think that if you stress about it you become convinced you are and imagine the symptoms, I am worried that is what is happening to me!

I am trying to real but it's so hard!!!!

Any news secretlywishing?

well still no af, and even hubby has noticed a change in the boob dept lol. i have been told to make an apt with dr tomorrow as there result also said -ve. im now a lil scared to be honest. i'll post what dr says as soon as i can

thanks for your replies girls

xx

Quick update. I've seen Dr. She said that any negatives before 6 weeks r disregarded.II have to resubmit a sample on 29 but as its a sat I have to do it on Mon morning. If that is meg I have to get a blid test. She said it still sounds positive :) xx